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radical Black feminist. filthy witchy lesbian. gatekeeper. sideblog.

[blackfemalerage]

finally made an actual (not side) blog! xx 🧡🧡 just made it so no posts yet, but we'll get there

[lonelylittledot]

“I can’t wait to show Encanto to my toxic mother and see how she reacts” is the exact equivalent of that time when Hamlet tried to get Claudius to confess to the king’s murder by making him watch a play that exactly mimicked said murder

[mysharona1987]

[rawpowerhouse]

Men don’t even realize how controlling they are of women. They don’t even realize that they’re talking over you or cutting you off bc they’re so used to the authority they have over you. They casually, nonchalantly order you to do things and it’s just innocent nobility because they think as a man the right thing to do is to “take charge of the situation.” Unconsciously they don’t even realize that that means, the man knows better. They beg you because they’re used to getting what they want. They don’t realize it’s a sense of entitlement they really feel. An unconscious male will always be sexist because he has not yet questioned the natural, assumed authority he’s been given. He will always look down upon women no matter how much he thinks he praises them. Because once he really questions it, he questions everything.

[cecaeliawitch]

the notes are a travesty. some of you all will defend #notallmen to the death

[whyyoualwayssoradical]

Not me he says as he cuts her off before she finishes.

Not me he says as he uses misogynistic slurs when women are not around.

Not me he says as he watches porn every night.

Not me he says while having zero women friends that he isn’t trying to fuck.

Not me he says as he raises his voice to drown hers out.

Not me he says as he pressures her into unwanted sex.

Not me he says while not believing what women say.

Not me he says as he makes rape jokes while playing video games.

Not me he says as he “jokes” about why prostitution should be legal.

Not me he says as he punches the wall in anger.

Not me, no never me, I’m nice, I’m a listener, I’m a good guy he says as he thinks about how much he hates that women don’t like “nice guys”.

[starinyourhand]

Every man thinks he’s one of the ‘good’ ones.

[cheekless0nion]

I think it was Hannah Gadsby who said that men always construct the narrative about their treatment of women in a way that enables them to see themselves as a “nice guy.” They draw a line between what is good and what is bad behavior in a way that always lands them on the “nice guy” side. Whatever it is that they do to women, a truly bad guy is the one who does something worse. Yell at and threaten his girlfriend? It’s okay, the really bad ones are the ones who hit women.

This is why men get so incredibly angry whenever women talk about their boundaries. Because those boundaries, those lines, are drawn by someone else, and cannot be conveniently moved around. The angriest are those who have already crossed those lines, and now can’t stand being called out. (A memorable example of this, from just a few days ago, was a guy who claimed that pressuring a woman into sex cannot possibly be rape, because that would make him a rapist.)

[sojournerliveurtruth-deactivate]

Black people, queer theory are the masters tools.

[beardedmrbean]

[mrspankhurstsraspberryjam]

Any claims about science backing gender identity ideology are ludicrous from their inception because gender identity is subjective. There is no room for subjective experience in science. Science is not subjective, it is objective, it is empirical and above all science is replicable. Gender identity is not objective, it is not replicable. Gender identity cannot be observed or assessed independently of the person claiming an identity. Gender identity is like any science based scam...lots of people running unreplicable experiments without proper lab conditions, study parameters, no control subjects and each study on a cohort of one and saying our research shows...but you can't actually ask questions or see the data.

[byelmfaoooo-deactivated20220301]

#girlslikeus was a hashtag for survivors of trafficking.

Cotton ceiling was taken from the term “glass ceiling.”

“Nothing about us without us” was from the disability movement.

Think about that for a minute.

[pastafem-deactivated20211225]

- #TransGirlMagic (original: #BlackGirlMagic)

- #TransExcellence (original: #BlackExcellence)

- #TransIsBeautiful (original: #BlackIsBeautiful)

- #TransLivesMatter (original: #BlackLivesMatter)

- #StopTransHate (original: #StopAsianHate)

- "This is what I was wearing when I was misgendered" (original: "This is what I was wearing when I was raped")

- "Trans rights are human rights" (original: "Women's rights are human rights")

- "Coercively assigned female/male at birth" meaning "doctors gave me a gender identity when I was born" (original: intersex terminology for genital mutilation happening to intersex babies so they "fit" a certain sex more, not necessarily their actual sex but whatever sex the doctor decides)

[in-di-visiblewoman]

It infuriates me because Asian-Americans VERY CAREFULLY chose “Stop Asian Hate” over “Asian Lives Matter” because we knew it would be inappropriate to appropriate terminology from BLM. I’m incredibly angry the Trans movement has hijacked both of these instead of making their own slogans or terminology.

Also, someone else mentioned it somewhere in the notes but “passing” was also stolen from POC.

[instant-wife-microwave-only]

[johnnycrass]

my dad ask me to do anything um maybe I’ll think about it 😐🤷‍♂️ my mother ask me to do something I will move heaven and earth

[sapphosimulacrum]

Take my uquiz: Which iconic 70′s feminist would you have personal beef with

[nonbinaryperspectve]

weird how women’s music festivals are often seen as historically ‘violent’ and ‘exclusionary’ places and yet the only lgbt related violence done in relation to them has been the murder of two lesbians and their son by a trans woman 🤔 

[vladtheunfollower]

the murder of two black lesbians and their son by a white trans-identified man “trans woman”

[vladtheunfollower]

Police investigating the triple homicide in Oakland that claimed the lives of Patricia Wright, 57, her wife Charlotte Reed, 56, and their 19-year-old son, Toto ‘Benny’ Diambu-Wright

[seeuspacelesbian-deactivated202]

i don’t want lesbians and feminists turning to conservative news sources. they’re not our friends any more than liberals and TRAs are. So if we have nowhere to go, let’s make the shit ourselves!

[bauliya]

i'm never getting over the fact that romance as a genre, as the HIGHEST selling genre, exists largely because straight women fantasise about being loved and treated kindly by men and men constantly make fun of this because they think it's just that unrealistic that they could cherish women and that women are stupid in the first place for wanting such an impossible thing

[basedlesbo]

Oopsie looks like they have to find a new flag...

[womenarehuman]

*feigns shock*

[medicineterf]

“fetishist” do you mean pedophile?

[chadradfem]

Creator of Trans Pride Flag Was Admitted Crossdressing Fetishist

The creator of the trans flag forced his wife to participate in his fetishistic cross-dressing and wrote 'forced feminization' stories, incl

[gnder101-blog]

“Scott writes that all 23 women interviewed for the paper described doing both male and female chores. Men, on the other hand, talked mostly about male labor. Unless specifically asked, only a third of the men interviewed mentioned any work traditionally done by women. One apple grower described his orchard as a one-man business that his son would eventually inherit, with his wife and daughter only minimally involved. But, in a separate interview, his wife said that while her husband and son took care of the trees, she handled seedlings in the nursery, coordinated sales, hired seasonal labor, kept the books, and helped make decisions. She also mentioned that their daughter ran the farm’s fruit stand. The men were also more likely to emphasize male ownership of family enterprises—“my grandfather’s farm” or “my tractor.” In contrast, the women usually referred to “my grandmother and grandfather’s farm” or “our tractor.””

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GENDER AND FAMILY FARMS: AN INVESTIGATION

I’m going to buy a farm one day, and hope I have daughters to leave it to: break the cycle.

(via biodiverseed)

[ms-gay-frogs]

soooo … men of all types and generations have overemphasized their labour and devalued the often longer (and unpaid!) labour of women in their families? who woulda thunk it!

[auntiewanda]

Pretty easy to do when they conveniently label anything their wives and daughters contribute as unimportant work that’s beneath a man to perform. 

[saltmarsh-rush-deactivated20211]

"this is a racial and economic justice issue"

yeah tell that to a wealthy white classmate of mine who blew her own guts out with her father's shotgun at 14 after her religious nut parents wouldn't allow her access to a safe abortion

[saltmarsh-rush-deactivated20211]

everyone wants to talk about how abortion disproportionately affects black and hispanic communities but nobody wants to talk about how black southern evangelicals and hispanic catholics view abortion and treat/talk about women within their communities who opt for abortions

[saltmarsh-rush-deactivated20211]

this is an attack on women's reproductive rights by religious fundamentalists, full stop. the ones supporting the laws belong to all racial and economic backgrounds and their targets include women of all racial and economic backgrounds

[blackfemalerage]

this is such a weird take?

you can say this without dunking on Black women (or Latina women, but i'm speaking for myself here)

i see they're deactivated, but just generally, you can talk about how this issue affects white women without trashing communities you don't belong to whose members suffer from the same problems you do in addition to ones you don't, especially considering white men are just as bad in their common actions as men of any other race

this whole post is just this person's excuse to be racist and i'm unimpressed. just say you don't care about Black/Latina women next time 🙄🙄

[blackfemalerage]

I FORGOT THEY MENTIONED CLASS

i don't even think i need to explain why dunking on poor women because...people feel sorry for what they have to go through, i guess, is bad

this post reeks of "what about me?" and the thinly veiled disguise of female solidarity isn't helping