People are generally Not Reliable, well go figure!
This isn’t about friendship. That’s always another platform with it’s own post.
I’m talking about co-workers, classmates, teammates etc. People you rely on good faith to help you to get a common mission completed. But instead, you do all the fucking work because you only take it seriously while others cruise on with life the easy way. Yes, doing the minimum while gaining the maximum.
I’m talking about everything Frank Grimes said to Homer Simpson.
My sister, for example, still depends on someone like me to do things for her because I would do it while she still benefits off my good faith effort. Now that I’m not around her picture because I’m in another state attending law school, she has become angrier and more disrespectful to my family back at home.
I am using legal terms in which the court will focus on in terms of who was in the wrong. Good faith, effort, well I still haven’t used good will.
Hard-working individuals, such as myself, pick up other people’s slack to get the mission done. We take deadlines and problems very seriously because we want it resolved and finished. That’s how you get things accomplished. Others, who do not stress on stuff to live life easily, sugarcoat their capabilities and rely on other’s good will to help them out in terms of getting the hard work finished. It’s quite obvious they do not know what hard work is or how to actually get it to get something done.
I’m still talking about those who have minimal stress in their lives because how much easier it was growing up and able to use their brains to succeed without much work. Those who never did their own homework or any studying, but managed to pass the tests and all those things that mattered at the end. Some of us did not grow up that easy and struggled to get the ends to justify the means.
I absolutely hate team work, group work, partner work, or even working with the instructor! Is it because I do not achieve what I expect out of our time together? Or is it because I struggle with the work that much harder than the other person? Why can’t my partner respond back?! Why can’t my fellow members of a school organization respond back to my emails for our future programming? Did everyone already check out? Why am I the only one all the time to initiate communication on something that needs to be done? Why do I always try hardest the first time around?
No one else will be has hard-working as I am. I fail, but I’m not failing without a fight in trying very hard to succeed. I know I cannot do it all. But I still want to be that superhero. Always taking the extra step going above and beyond.
I cannot trust anyone to meet my expectations. But how to I give people benefit of that doubt, especially when I work with them the first time??
I miss meeting and working with people like myself.
The drive in this society is not there anymore. And that is why I do not want to work with others in the future. I can’t stand to be heartbroken by how people are not reliable. I can only rely on myself. Seriously sad, but that’s why I learned to be independent for the sole reason of living my life out.
