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bettyrightnow

ever since i was a little girl i knew i wanted to put no effort into my appearance

riotd

i’m very self aware. which unfortunately hasn’t solved anything

coffeefocusrat

they should serve eggnog year round as a controversial milk

coffeefocusrat

meant an alternative milk .

correctopinionhaver

me and the family when the eggnog issue comes up

godisafujoshi

It’s uncomfortable how the cutting board and cabinets split the picture in halves.

ygmtwr-atrus

It's meant to symbolize the division created by the eggnog

aquilacalvitium

Write it badly or it'll never be written

aquilacalvitium

Please keep interacting with this post because when I come to tumblr to procrastinate, this shows up again in my notifications and guilts me into writing again

r04ches

am i even mentally ill or am i just living in some kind of infinite torture chamber that would make anyone like this

umbrellanumber5-deactivated2021

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This.

This is why people who stay in my life are neurodiverse like me!

nottoolateforthegame

Huh

thisisnotjuli

this!! I swear I lost like all my friendships bc of this, like I had a group of friends in hs that one day I realized “huh I haven’t talked to this people in a while” and popped in to say hi and they were all awkward?? because they hadn’t seen me in a while?? and that’s when I realized that friendship works different for them?? I was like yeah I haven’t talked to you in like four months but it’s not like I’ve forgotten about y'all why would anything change, and they were all like we haven’t talked to you in four months why are you here again acting like nothing happened? and it was really confusing for me

mimir-bashir

YEAH! THAT!

Also I have a thing where I just put the people on pause. If I don’t see them or contact them, my brain kinda put them in stasis. I don’t think about them nor misses them, and I stay on what I last knew about them (how they look, what they study/work). So when we meet again I’m like “wait, you’ve aged?” and I have the same familiarity with them thanI had before.

gender-snatched

Anyway all my mutuals I haven’t messaged in forever - this is why

official-lucifers-child

oh my gods this makes so much sense??? there are people who i haven’t talked to at all for literally over a year and we’ll pick up like nothing happened, but for their people it’s just like…… falling apart but onesided???? i think we’re still on the same level but actually we’re strangers??

link-the-feral-anon

Ohhhhhh

shark8-my-leg

OHHHHHHHHH….

quarra

Ok but listen, on the other side of this, as a person who moved hundreds of miles away from everyone i knew and then became a hermit for several years, it was SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to get in contact with an old friend and have him be like, “my friendship levels do not degrade, so in my mind we are still awesome close buddies” and i almost fkn cried. I thought he would be mad or would have moved on because i had slacked on my reaching out to him and staying in touch and doing all the friendship things. But NOPE. 800 miles of distance, depression, and life changing circumstances didnt steal our friendship and i am SO GRATEFUL.

thatlittleegyptologist

#came back to tumblr after four years #lottie and I immediately went like that spiderman meme yknow tags via @rudjedet

I have literally no friendship degradation whatsoever. I will not have spoken to someone for 5 years or more, and they’re still as much a friend to me as if I had only seen them yesterday. I’m just very bad at communicating if someone is not in my direct orbit. So when Sonja reappeared on this site I basically screeched into her notes like a banshee because I was delighted and we picked straight back up where we’d left off.