BlueFox's Den

Welcome to my den of words where demons and pain die with a stroke of ink. A place, souls can come to seek help from a fellow fox in the midst of war.

[bluefox1319]

I'll let this speak on its own, though I do think that being yourself is the absolute best thing you can do.

[bluefox1319]

Sort of a touchy subject for me, it might be why I've never force anyone to come out and why if anyone does my first thing is to thank them for trusting me.

Anyway, if you're still taking your time, it's okay just know I'm in the closet too holding your hand, same if you're out.

I'm proud of everyone, you're doing great and I love you amazing kits!

Til next from BlueFox.

[bluefox1319]

I know a lot of us have to pretend to be something or someone they're not.

I'm out technical and I still feel like I am.

So, I wanted to say to you kits what I wish someone would say to me.

It's okay if you have to pretend. It's okay if you're not ready, take your time. The best thing you can do for yourself is be okay with who you are because if you're sure in yourself, you'll be able to break through those locked cupboard doors no problem.

I'm proud of you and I love you kits so much.

[bluefox1319]

Mm, not sure what I could add to this to be honest, it sort of speaks for itself itself. Plus, the tags help.

Oh, I know, we all have that "plushie" that we love so much, whenever it's an actual plushie or it's a person or anything, maybe if we brought a bit of that unyielding love into other parts of our lives it would help makes us feel better.

It's something I definitely need to work on.

Try that as your "try new things"

Also, anyone who gets the mind space of when I wrote this you're absolutely valid.

Til next from BlueFox.

[bluefox1319]

This has the same theme as yesterday's I think.

But I sort of hate not saying anything on my post so....

Home has different definitions to some it's four walls and a roof, to others it's a person.

To me it's more a feeling, being safe and being myself, I think that's why it's not one I feel often.

Except of course when I write.

I hope you have that home where you can be that and flourish.

Til next from BlueFox.

[bluefox1319]

There's a lot of times where we all feel like this whether you're L.G.B.T. Q I know, but I'm here to say that.

You're doing great, I'm so proud of you for waking up or just getting through your day.

If you can please take a moment to do something that makes you happy, you deserve it.

At the very least drink some water today.

Til next from BlueFox.

[bluefox1319]

Maybe it's just me who feels like this. The whole uncertainty about everything, I think that's why I love wonderland and writing. They're both simple in their own ways, wonderland in its clear insanity and writing in the way that it makes the insane, well, sane.

But I'm babbling, my point is that if you have something that grounds you, whether it's writing, art or even a whole world like wonderland. Go with it, things that have a strong pull tend to have its own magic to help you find what you might be missing.

I hope that made sense. Anyway, love you lot.

Til next from BlueFox, 💙.

[bluefox1319]

Eeee! It's Pride, it's pride!!

And I'm not dead yet, lol.

Hi-hi my kits I hope you're having a wonderlandiful first day of Pride!

It's going to be a short and simple start since I'm still working to finish up everything, but I just had to wish everyone a happy Pride!

Eeee, Pride!

Also, it's my drawing.

[bluefox1319]

Let's end conclude Pride on a high. I would say end, but it's like Christmas Pride is always there.

I had so much fun doing this, I learned so much about the flags and I'm so happy I could make it to the end because Pride is so important to me. Thank you my sweet kits.

I'll be taking a break from here, hopefully not as long as I did last time, but I did think I would be good to update you. Of course, my D.M's are always open if you want or need to talk.

That being said I'll let you read what I had to say about this post.

People are amazing in their own way. So, let them be that, without changing who they are.

I love you kits so much and I'm so proud of you. I hope you have a wonderlandiful day/night!

Til next from BlueFox.

[bluefox1319]

Thus the flag meanings have ended.

And because I have an irritating habit of doing opposites.

Let's showcase the bright and happy side of Pride.

[bluefox1319]

The flag for this one was a bit harder than the rest as no one had settled on a look for the lesbian part of LGBTQ+. That's why I did all three of the most common.

I hope I didn't offend anyone with my attempt.

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[bluefox1319]

"Dark Green: Represents aromanticism. Light Green: Represents the aromantic spectrum. White: Represents platonic and aesthetic attraction, as well as queer/quasi platonic relationships. Grey: Represents grey-aromantic and demiromantic people. Black: Represents the sexuality spectrum."

I'm really proud of this one, even if I'm not on this spectrum, but I'm biased.

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[bluefox1319]

"The yellow stripe represents people whose gender exists outside of the binary, the white stripe, people with many or all genders, the purple, people with genders considered a mix of male and female, and the black people who identify as not having a gender."

Not sure what to say when it comes to this one. "So... poem speak for yourself." See what I did. Mm, okay, that was bad, but hopefully it got a chuckle. Anyway, I hope you kits are having a fantastic day/night.

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[bluefox1319]

"The stripes at the top and bottom are light blue, the traditional color for baby boys. The stripes next to them are pink, the traditional color for baby girls. The stripe in the middle is white, for those who are transitioning or consider themselves having a neutral or undefined gender."

Not really sure what I can say about this one. So, I'll let it speak for itself.

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[bluefox1319]

"Black means asexuality, grey means grey-asexuality (a grey area between asexuality and sexuality) and demisexuality, white means sexuality, and purple means community."

I know this is a little weird to call a poem, but I think it really fits with the whole of the asexual spectrum.

P.s. Allo is as I understand it is someone who isn't on the spectrum.

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[bluefox1319]

"Pink: represents femininity;

white: represents the lack of gender;

purple: represents a combination of masculinity and femininity;

black: represents all other gender identities distinctive from strict femininity or masculinity;

blue: represents masculinity."

Everyone is different, for example I know the sweetest person who is genderfluid and they have broken gender rules with a smile on their face. So, I hope I did them justice with this poem.

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[bluefox1319]

"The pink is for same sex/gender attraction, blue is for different sex/gender attraction, and purple is to represent the attraction to both different sex/genders and your own sex/gender; or often considered to be for non-binary people who do not identify with any gender."

Yay, more flag meanings. You kits might get sick of them by the end if this.

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