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30s. Nonbinary. Whatever.

[sondu]

happy together in an alternate universe

[bruno-has-definitely-deactivate]

[chilewithcarnage]

[atomicniire]

You can not untangle alt culture and being queer

[bobasquared]

Oh also like I'm 9 months on T and it fucking sucks. I won't lie. This is the same time I detransitioned last time and while I'm not going to do it again, I can understand *why* I did.

My body is turning into weird shapes I don't even know it could make. I somehow have a more feminine shape since I gained weight, despite being on HRT. It's like my body stuck all the male fat on top of the female fat and was like "aaaaand we're done".

I don't fit into mens clothing, I don't fit into women's clothing. I don't pass enough to use the mens bathroom or mens changing room, but going to the women's side is demeaning for me. I definitely struggle to leave the house because I know I'll get misgendered and I'm not sure what kind of "social sphere" I'm supposed to occupy.

Every time I go out with my husband I get to play, "Do they think I'm his teenage son or his extremely confused and masculine wife?"

My support group says in 2-3 years it'll be better, but man, I gotta sit like this for 2-3 years? I'm fucking suffering. I thought transitioning was supposed to be joy and rainbows and my dysphoria would suddenly go away, but instead I'm like having a mental breakdown just trying to buy t-shirts. I feel like I was fucking lied to lol.

[bobasquared]

Hey guys whats happening, I forgot about this place. Last I posted was 4 months ago. Since then...

Came out at work - its been hit or miss. Everyone is nice but they're not good about my pronouns

Came out to my mom and my uncle - they don't get it but they love and support me. Also terrible about my pronouns

Getting top surgery in May. I only saw one surgeon and I'm taking the risk but whatever

I made some friends, which doesn't seem big but it's a new years resolution of mine.

Started couples therapy - she is actually awesome, highly recommend couples therapy. She works with queer kinky poly people and she's literally saving my marriage

My mom is having surgery for a mass they found in her breast. It's benign but we're still nervous

I've mostly been on twitter in Trigun fandom tbh. It's been a good fandom. I'm writing lots of fanfic, and I'm learning how to paint. I hope everyone is doing OK and I can look back on this post and remember where I was in my life when I wrote it.

[voicesbyzane]

No official piece of Overwatch media has come even close to touching the perfection of TF2′s “Meet The” videos.

[voicesbyzane]

The single line “And from that day forward any time a bunch of animals are together in one place it’s CALLED A ZOO” is better than the entirety of Soldier 76′s cinematic

[voicesbyzane]

“It costs 400,000 dollars to fire this weapon for twelve seconds” has more character and charm than all of the Overwatch comics combined.

[hokuto-ju-no-ken]

Incorrect

TF2 will never come close to this precise moment of objective perfection

[campbell-duo-deactivated2023021]

they did it before and did it better 

[korokz-deactivated20190924]

bimbo? ain’t that the dude from lord of the rings

[bobasquared]

Uhhh so I'm trying to come out at work and I'm not sure how to come out considering I don't pass, and I don't know why any of these people should believe me when I tell them I'm a guy now, especially since I'm not changing my name.

And before I hear "passing isn't important", it kind of is to me. So like, wtf do I do.

[fagcreaturer]

when gerard way sings "the broken, the beaten, and the damned" and when kermit the frog sings "the lovers, the dreamers, and me" they're talking about the same people btw

[into-the-weeds]

#mhm#gay people (via @awkwordalex)

[leoparduscolocola]

it’s honestly scary seeing how popular raw feeding for cats and dogs is becoming. for so long dogs and cats weren’t coming down with nutrient deficiencies because of commercially available pet food and now they’re making a comeback, plus people have literally died from the diseases transferred by raw feeding… it’s not surprising, though, that raw feeding is growing in popularity considering how popular anti-science movements for humans are right now too. like you can literally go into a pet store and see signs plastered all over claiming that raw is the best when there’s not a shred of evidence for that. it’s so ironic that pet store employees will tell you that the eVil vEtS iN bEd WiTh BiG kiBbLe only recommend a certain food because they get paid to do so and then in the very next breath recommend an obscenely expensive raw food that obviously gives the store a pretty big profit margin. i get why people might not trust the pet food industry but you don’t have to feed raw, you can hire an actual veterinary nutritionist (not just some raw guru online with a “nutrition certificate”) to formulate a homecooked recipe for you

[labvet]

If you’re in the US and don’t want to feed standard kibble, for the love of whatever god you believe in go to this website to find a boarded nutritionist near you.

American College of Veterinary Nutrition (ACVN) advancing veterinary nutrition & increase the competence of thoses practicing in this field

[wasknijper]

[markv5]

[whitepeopletwitter]

[everyfreakingusernameitryistaken]

Tony Hawk’s Twitter is a gold mine honestly

[everyfreakingusernameitryistaken]

[rosslynpaladin]

We Stan this San Diego Man

[sugawara--san]

this

[dooflizard]

C o m e d yy

[hugtheteadrinkthekitten]

Some recent gems:

[hugtheteadrinkthekitten]

And of course there’s

[theseaissilent]

[disease-danger-darkness-silence]

#where is race war tony hawk tweet thats my fav (via @laughingfish​)

I gotchu, bro:

[trilllizardstrikesback]

[abysmallylost23]

i’m wheezgJmf stoP

[assassinregrets]

[parlezvousladybug]

Honestly every time this thread just makes me laugh. And new additions…excellent.

[c3rvida3]

I'm not a prayin' man, but the night I found out my at-the-time-fiancé had been sending sex horny nasty horny sex asks to my friend on THIS VERY WEBSITE, I sat in the car in the parking lot of an abandoned church and watched a family of deer play in the snow, and it didn't quite feel like a sign because that part of Pennsylvania was mostly deer and abandoned buildings and snow, but it felt nice, and once the tears stopped, I looked down at my phone and my other friend had sent me a text that said, "HE'S TRYING TO CHEAT ON YOU ON THE ONE DIRECTION IMAGINES WEBSITE?" and I realized that life is all about your curated experience. A real choose-your-own-adventure deal. I have never seen someone post about One Direction on here in my life.

[flowersforabel]

It doesn't matter if it's your OC, you shouldn't lewd a minor

Finneas is a 24 year old grown man.

[flowersforabel]

Girl I do no know how to explain that the vast majority of adults used to be children.

[punchline229]

The tags are all great here but this one made me look at it for a couple seconds. I don’t recall jesus being born an adult im very certain he was also a baby at some point

[starfieldcanvas]

there’s a very popular holiday about it, in fact

[transgarrett]

microsoft outlook is taking the bioware approach and giving me the option to romance my coworker now 

[julieterbang]

[postingtreyf]

Can we collectively agree that Judaism is not a major world religion?

There’s probably multiple folk religions with more adherents than there are Jews.

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[hachama]

There are approximately as many Jews in the world as there are residents of Pennsylvania.

[keshetchai]

I frequently point out that Jews aren't even in the top three largest monotheist religions.

Sikhs are monotheists, and there's about 25-30 million of them.