More important than asking “why doesn’t this person want me?” Is asking “why am I attracted to someone who isn’t interested in me and doesn’t value me?”

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More important than asking “why doesn’t this person want me?” Is asking “why am I attracted to someone who isn’t interested in me and doesn’t value me?”
Someone Should Talk To This Principal
My school used to do this
Fuck them
Our school used to ask children who were late questions about maths, but those that they can’t answer yet. And then they made kids write down that they don’t know math. My 11yo classmate (who was always great at math) was crying after this.
Oh god, my elementary school was hell.
I remember this one music teacher who, for some reason, REALLY fucking hated autistic kids. I would know, because everyone in my weird therapy group was targeted while everyone else was ignored.
I saw her physically drag a kid out and threaten to get him suspended because he was to scared to dance solo in front of his peers.
There was also “lunch detention,” and they didn’t fuck around with that. They didn’t isolate the students like that, they fucking shoved them in a separate room and forbade them from sitting together or talking. They slowly brought in several teachers and eventually the principal, and they all, one by one, told us that we were horrible, reprehensible people who would never be successful.
And you wanna know HOW you got lunch detention? Not finishing your work on time, even if it was a one-time thing.
State sanctioned child abuse
‘Child abuse’
Y’all are insane.
It may not be child abuse but honestly, some of this shit is fucking insane and harmful to the students than it is helpful.
I mean.
It is abuse.
Emotional Abuse is a thing
I’ve seen or been the target of every thing listed on that image from teachers. Some teachers hit every act on that image. Many of these things were codified into how the school punished all students, like in the examples above.
Education is an hierarchial disciplinary system. Abuse comes at no suprise. And since this system reproduces the hierarchy of society, poor kids, disabled kids, ‘weird’ kids, kids of color etc are the main targets.
it’s so frustrating too, because they literally teach us NOT to do that stuff in education school. Good teachers KNOW that that’s not good or healthy or even remotely helpful. But some teachers, particularly older teachers, don’t care to change the way they do things. Our education system is screwed up in so many ways…and it really makes me furious because there are a lot of systems in place that make it HARDER and more INCONVENIENT to be a good teacher. Grrrrr…..
When I was in elementary school, the music teacher always threatened to throw kids out of the classroom and down the full flight of stairs right outside the door for even the smallest mistakes. Hit the wrong note on the xylophone? She’d threaten to throw you down the stairs. Laugh at the class clown’s antics? She’d threaten to throw you and the class clown down the stairs. Ask to go to the nurse or the bathroom? She’d threaten to throw you down the stairs.
So Tumblr is kinda fucked up
So as it turns out, Tumblr is filled with fucking child porn. And I’m not talking about “hurr muh cartoons” either. I’m talking about actual, physical children. To say I’m disgusted is an understatement. If you see that crap anywhere, for the love of god, report it. This shit needs wiping out.
Oh, and to the people posting the filth; there is a special place in hell for you.
put yr orientation and favorite frozen drink in the tags
(i’m a milkshake lesbian)
Where’s the straight option tho
everywhere else in the world
fuck me for wanting to participate in a fun tumblr thread then i guess
there’s not a straight option because straight people arent allowed to drink smoothies, actually. :/ go drink some sleet off the ground
hi! Im in a straight relationshio and i like banana smoothies
sorry, but you aren’t in the original post, so you can’t tag yourself in this chart! :)
i did, however, make a separate alignment chart that includes straights <3
first of all, nothing justifies treating straight people like shit. if it weren’t for the heteros i know personally, i’d have been dead by now
second, if they want to get involved in this meme, that’s fine.
funny how over such disputes some queer people wonder why we’re treated like crap. but sure, it’s always easier to yell “homophobia!” than to admit that you got the boomerang treatment.
bro chill @forever-emo33
I am straight and I, in fact, enjoy semi-frozen pond water
@thisworldisindecay sorry about that. it’s just that i see a lot of hate towards straight people on this hellsite and now i can’t tell if an anti-hetero comment was a joke or not
Amazon CEO Jeff Bezos received a hostile reception when he arrived in the German capital to pick up an innovation award on Tuesday (Apr. 24). Some 450 Amazon workers, who are members of the powerful Verdi trade union, amassed outside the offices of publisher Axel Springer, where the awards ceremony was taking place, carrying placards reading “Make Amazon Pay.” Amazon workers from other countries, including Poland and Italy, also traveled to Berlin to join the demonstration.
Verdi boss Frank Bsirske said: “We have a boss who wants to impose American working conditions on the world and take us back to the 19th century.” Verdi has for years been a constant thorn in Amazon’s side in Germany, organizing workers strikes to demand improved pay and working conditions.
If someone is wearing makeup in the pool, don’t deliberately splash them. If someone has done their hair nicely, don’t mess it up. If someone in a t-shirt has scars on their arms, don’t ask them about it. If someone doesn’t want to get in the water, don’t push them. If someone still wants to wear jeans, don’t laugh at them for it. If someone has sweat patches, don’t point them out. If someone’s chest is obviously prominent, don’t stare. If you can see someone’s underwear/ binder, don’t comment on it. If someone is blatantly covering something up, don’t try to reveal it.
Not everyone can feel totally comfortable with the fact it’s Summer, don’t make them feel worse.
this is so important
action movie about a guy who pretends to be a hitman and does the whole “25% up front and the rest when the job is done” thing but then just keeps the down payment, doesn’t kill anybody, and stops responding to the client’s calls, knowing that they can’t sue him for breach of contract without confessing to trying to hire a hitman. problem is now a lot of people who are comfortable with the concept of paying someone to kill someone else are mad at him
Don’t stop talking about Dan Schneider yet. This is all far from over.
It has been confirmed that 2 big nick stars are ready to come forward and talk about their stories. There’s lawyers involved and everything. The 2 nick actresses are taking this seriously and not just spouting off random accusations on twitter or Instagram. There is a major child abuse sex scandal going on at Nickelodeon.
Go to Revenge Of the Cis YouTube channel and go to their video titled “Episode 108 Dan Schneider Is Fired”. Skip to the 30:28 mark. Thats when a guy apart of An Open Secret drops the ball that 2 nick actresses are coming forward. An Open Secret is a documentary about Hollywood predators and Dan Schneider was mentioned in that documentary. They said it is 2 names everyone will know and that it’s not Jamie Lynn Spears or Amanda.
Also go to their video titled “Child actress forced out of showbiz”. This is where a woman who tried out for icarly as a child gives just how creepy the process is for casting child stars. She says that in the audition building they asked kids to come in shorts and spaghetti straps…then when they’re in there the kids were asked to take off their shoes and go into the next room with the producer (who was Dan) and run around the room talking about how much they love being barefoot. She said her mom immediately took her away and questioned them for what they were doing. The girl ended up getting zero phone calls for anymore auditions and got forced out of acting because they dared to say that their process was “a little weird”..
THIS SHIT IS FAR FROM OVER.
Don’t stop talking about Dan Schneider yet. This is all far from over.
It has been confirmed that 2 big nick stars are ready to come forward and talk about their stories. There’s lawyers involved and everything. The 2 nick actresses are taking this seriously and not just spouting off random accusations on twitter or Instagram. There is a major child abuse sex scandal going on at Nickelodeon.
Go to Revenge Of the Cis YouTube channel and go to their video titled “Episode 108 Dan Schneider Is Fired”. Skip to the 30:28 mark. Thats when a guy apart of An Open Secret drops the ball that 2 nick actresses are coming forward. An Open Secret is a documentary about Hollywood predators and Dan Schneider was mentioned in that documentary. They said it is 2 names everyone will know and that it’s not Jamie Lynn Spears or Amanda.
Also go to their video titled “Child actress forced out of showbiz”. This is where a woman who tried out for icarly as a child gives just how creepy the process is for casting child stars. She says that in the audition building they asked kids to come in shorts and spaghetti straps…then when they’re in there the kids were asked to take off their shoes and go into the next room with the producer (who was Dan) and run around the room talking about how much they love being barefoot. She said her mom immediately took her away and questioned them for what they were doing. The girl ended up getting zero phone calls for anymore auditions and got forced out of acting because they dared to say that their process was “a little weird”..
THIS SHIT IS FAR FROM OVER.
this one’s for all the fat girls who’ve cried in dressing rooms 💗
You’re fine. The clothes are made to be easy to manufacture on machines, not for bodies. The clothes suck, not you.
They’re also manufactured to look attractive on hangers, and very few of us are shaped like hangers. You’re fine.
😱😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭thank u please more of this type of body positivity I need it
Legit though! I’m a hobbyist seamstress and these are my experiences when shopping mainstream:
For example, most H&M blouses these days don’t even have boobdarts. Which means they will sit awkwardly on literally anyone with boobs, no matter the size. But on hangers or when folded on display? They look fab as fuck. Because hangers don’t have boobs. And the models chosen to show them on the catwalk are usually chosen for their lack of boobage too (unless it’s for lingerie), other requirements including ridiculous size and weight requirements. As for the average (EU available) clothing shops, the worst offender I’ve encountered yet was Zara. Everything’s way too long and way too flat: clearly aimed to look good on the catwalk models but not intended for normal people. At all.
Also sizes are just numbers. Shopping online has taught me that I’m a European M, an American XS-S, and a Japanese L-XL. And then these sizes even vary from shop to shop in the same country: I’m an XL at Apples but an S at Lola&Liza, for example. They’ve also been reducing the sizes of these numbers throughout the years to make people feel bad about themselves and to sell more weight-loss products. Don’t let a number get you down, it does not define you.
So please don’t feel bad about yourself when shops refuse to cater to your size. The clothes they sell are not aimed at real human beings. They are the ones in the wrong here, not you!
body posi posts are the ones
I will never get tired of this
Why is it that being broken is romanticized, but only a specific type of being broken?
Starving yourself is dramatic and beautiful but overeating is just disgusting
Hurting yourself by cutting or burning your skin means your scars are beautiful but if you pull your hair out or pick at scabs that’s just gross
Smoking cigarettes or pot is rebellious and cool but the line is drawn when hard drugs are involved
Drinking vodka straight from the bottle is ever so dramatic but when you’re puking and blackout drunk no one thinks that’s poetic
Smudged eyeliner and black clothing makes you mysterious but it stops being attractive when you haven’t showered for a week or changed your clothes
Having depression or anxiety means you’re interesting but having OCD or schizophrenia or bulimia or BPD makes you a freak
Mental illnesses aren’t cool, or pretty, or romantic. It’s not aesthetically pleasing or dramatic or adventurous. It’s not red lipstick and black hoodies and ripped jeans and colorful hair. It’s nausea and exhaustion and acne and infected wounds and vomit and greasy hair and dirty clothes and red skin and bad breath and numbness and fog and desperation.
Stop making it pretty. It only encourages people to keep their unhealthy habits, or start unhealthy habits so they can be cool. It prevents people with issues from fixing them or getting help. And it convinces people who don’t have mental illnesses that life is like a movie and they need a manic pixie dreamgirl or a broken artist boy to make themselves happy.
Again it disturbs me that people in their early twenties are ashamed of being virgins as though it should be normal and expected for middle schoolers and high schoolers to be fucking lile crazy particularly when those are the most vulnerable amd likely to be taken advantage of by adults. This world’s fixation with sex is disturbing
This is so sad to me. A 17 year old co-worker was talking about being a loser cause they were still a virgin. I told them how I am almost in my mid twenties and I have never so much as kissed anyone. I hoped that it’d help them feel a little better or something but then they just kind of looked at me with pity and then I started to think maybe I AM a loser. But honestly I wouldn’t change it. I’ve never been ready for that, but I am so tired of people acting like that somehow affects my worth.
i feel like raj koothrappali every time i think of my marital status. i always wonder if there’s something wrong with me since i’m 20 and still single
Dear ‘pedosexuals,’ you are not welcome in our community.
Pedophiles will never be a part of the LGBTQ+ community.
The LGBTQ+ community supports relationships between consenting individuals.
A child can not consent.
You are taking advantage of a child.
Here in the LGBTQ+ community we do not support relationships between children and adults.
You are not welcome here.
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