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@bpdprobs
lol hi to the 5 people left on Tumblr!!!!!
I logged on because mental illness is HITTING and I was like wow remember when I made all those posts that were funny? Lemme go read those. And here I am. HOW HAVE WE BEEN BPDHOES?!!!
You guys are so sweet. I might keep this blog around just to post every now and again. I love all of you!!!!
Wrongly diagnosed
Hey friends! It’s been like a long ass time since I’ve posted here. MAINLY because I found out that I in fact do not have BPD. I was wrongly diagnosed when I was 18 and went to treatment for it for no reason at all. Just because a shitty therapist got me all wrong. I feel terrible. Instead of having BPD I was diagnosed within the last year with C-PTSD. It’s not an official diagnosis as it is not recognized by the DSM. I’m sorry to everyone who follows this blog. I never knew I didn’t have BPD. In fact, my whole identity was built around BPD itself. When it was taken away, I had some kind of break down. So, long story short, I’ll be shutting this blog down. I feel like a fraud. I had no idea. I’m sorry to everyone. I love you guys. Thanks for being there for me, friends.
Goodbye,
Jenny
PS: I have my main blog that is just random shit and it’s scoobyandjenny
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my bad
thought I was on my other blog and accidentally reblogged some political stuff on this blog. OOPS. Have a nice day!
Thank you
Thank you to all who helped me yesterday and today. I really appreciate it. An update for all of you: I’m still not doing great. I’m managing. Which is about all I can do right now. My therapist is at a training all this week. Woooo we all know how this week is going to end. At least I made it this long without self-harming. I’m hoping to hold on just a little longer. Life is hard, guys. When does it get easier? I hope soon.
You can get through anything seeetheart I believe in you 💕
Thank you, love!!!! ❤️❤️
anyone feel like doing the honors of talking me through something? I’m freaking out a little. Okay... a lot.
im a mess today. ughhhh
uhh me
As someone who has borderline...
Anyone else feeling bad about things they like? Problematic favs is NOT made for the BPD 'this is good, bad, or not o my radar' extremism mentality. "Oh, everything is shades of grey" NO SIR MA'AM U DONT UNDERSTAND MY BRAIN NEEDS A YES OR A NO HELP I LOVED A THING BUT I AM SPLITTING AND FEEL GUILTY AS SHIT AND HORRIBLE
I’ve read this like 10 times and I still have no clue what you’re talking about. Can some of my followers explain this to me so I can maybe help?
HOW DO YOU KEEP FROM IMPRINTING ON SOMEONE 😭😭😭😭😭 RIP ME
Okay, so I don’t exactly know. I know that’s not what you wanted to hear from me! I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I don’t claim to be an expert on BPD. I just have it myself. I hope you can find someone who can help!
I'm assuming you (and most of your followers) probably deal with this but how do you make "normal" friends? My life is run by emotional chaos and physical medical issues too so when I meet new people (outside of therapy) it's almost impossible to make casual conversation. And then they ask what kind of person I am and what I like to do and all that my anxious brain can think is "I like to cry and think about death". How do you make new friends without lying or scaring them with the truth?
Hey there! So, what I have learned in my years of mental non-healthy-ness is that there is no one normal. Everyone has something going on with them. Now, my advice is that you do a SLOW reveal of yourself. This isn’t lying its just being picky about what you choose to share about yourself. Stick to the facts when you’re introducing yourself. I’m Jenny, I’m in school to be a vet tech and I have a dog named Scooby. Right there I can talk about my school or my dog and have a really easy conversation. After that, always ask about the other person. Don’t interrogate them, but you can causally ask questions. Have some pre-made questions in your mind. (You can look them up online) That seems to help some people. Meeting friends outside of our bubble is scary and can be really frustrating. I am in a fairly new circle of friends and I’ve found it easier to, like I said, reveal a little bit over time. I’ve noticed that with each person I reveal a TINY bit to, they tend to reciprocate and tell me a little bit about them too. It makes your friendship stronger as well.
Also, I know its hard not to throw your whole life story at people (trust me I know first hand) but its a better relationship if you go slowly. There are some things we reserve for just our therapists if you have one. Some people may disagree and say that friends can know everything, but I disagree. I think there are some things you just shouldn’t put on people outside of therapy.
I really hope this helps and I’m sorry this is so long. I just wanted to share my personal experience on how to make “normal” friends.
Have a great day!
Jenny
When your old therapist texts you
When you get a new therapist and they’re all like
Making faces at DBT group members like
Does it always have to hurt when my emotions change?
I don’t know the answer to that. I’m sorry you’re hurting.