Brin 4 the Win

Hi, I'm Brin (24). My pronouns are they/them. I'm mostly going to use this page to talk about my experiences with Queerness, K¡nk and Paganism.

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Nerdy, way to show devotion, but I made The Morrigan and The Dagda as I picture them in hero forge.

Is it an offering of time and focus? I guess? I'm I also a bit of a dweeb? Yeah absolutely.

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Song by: Jeangu Macrooy

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Just finished setting up for my pride month spell for tomorrow. It's a pretty layered spell and takes some work to set up but I love this community so much I'm happy to do it. 😁

P.S. see last post for deets.

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Gilbert Baker Pride Flag Spell

1 Pink candle, rose, and rosé quartz for love

2 Red candle, chilly flakes, and tiger’s eye for protection

3 Orange candle, chamomile, and clear quartz for healing 

4 Yellow candle, lemon balm, and amethyst for joy

5 Green candle, basil, and moss agate for abundance

6 Light blue candle, mugwort, and lapis lazuli for creativity

7 Dark blue, lavender, and selenite for peace 

8 Purple, rosemary, and unakite for connection

Anointing oils

1 Ylang Ylang 

2 Tea tree

3 Eucalyptus 

4 Orange

5 Bergamot

6 Frankincense 

7 Mint

8 Garden Sage

Repeat this before each verse: Upon the first of June. Upon the rising Sun. Bless my queer family

1. with the pink blush of queer love, whatever form that may take

2. with the red fire of a long fulfilling life free from violence

3. with the orange glow of healing, for wounds both physical and psychological 

4. with the yellow sunshine to illuminate the unhidden beauty of their queerness

5. with the green vibrance of Earth, whose natural order knows no binary

6. with the turquoise veil of Magic and art, as queerness has alway driven culture

7. with the indigo cloud of serenity, that they may lay down the burden of being misgendered, outed, closeted, and targeted

8. with the violet cloak of spirit , that they may walk through this life led by our queer ancestors and spirit guides 

If you do this feel free to sub out ingredients for what you have!

(inspo for the wording came from somewhere but I can't find it again to credit. if you know it lmk so I can edit post)

Stay tune for the post where I show how it turns out this year!

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These pictures aren't mine. But they represent the things I want to sell on my Etsy shop once it's up and running. It's not going to be up and running for about a year because start up funds are a b¡tch.

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If you were to go to a metaphysical event what would be at your dream booth?

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I asked my tarot about selling spellcraft services on Etsy and got the Fool and the Hermit. I receive the message that it may be a good move but I should think about it first. I put them back in the deck and began to shuffle and they both JUMPED out of the deck again! I guess I'm gonna start brainstorming about how I want to set up my business😅

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Layered spell to:

A. Bind money to me

B. Open up pathways for money to come to me

C. Protect the money I have

D. Heal my relationship with spending money

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My girlfriend's girlfriend isn't doin' so hot today. She forgot to take work off today for Valentine's Day so she's pretty disappointed. I tried making her some tea and I think she appreciated it but she's just having a bad day. I wish I could help more.

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My family: "witchcraft is evil" "You're working with dark forces you don't understand."

Me: Makes my girlfriend's daughter a blessed tea with orange peel so she's happy, elderberry so she's healthy, clove so she's protected, and hibiscus so she loves herself.

Yeah... so evil...

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As we enter the shortest day and darkest night I give thanks for the rest the darkness provides. As the light returns let it bring with it peace, love, abundance, and safety. Happy solstice!

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It's interesting being nonbinary and being in a relationship with someone who's binary. Like when we get married she'll be my wife and I'll be her spouse but when I refer to both of us I'll probably refer to us as "spouses" or "newlyweds" I'm kind of... Ungendering her in an attempt to not misgender myself.

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Doing a spell with my future step daughter. We used salt for cleansing, pepper corns for abundance and protection, and sugar to bring sweetness into our lives. We said "Bring us peace bring us love. Bring us gifts from up above and let us always be together." My heart is so filled with joy.

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My girlfriend and I have narrowed it down to two potential wedding venues. Notice how I said girlfriend and not fiance? I don't know if I'm allowed to propose yet. She used to say that she wasn't ready whenever I would talk about proposing or getting married in the future. She hasn't said that in a while. I don't want to propose before I know she's ready. I have a date picked out but I don't know if I should expedite my plans.

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Just had a great day with my girlfriend and her kids. We went to a Viking festival! The kids got to fight with foam swords. We watched the fire dancers. We went to IHOP afterwards it was just a really fun day.

My gf is a pretty stressed out though after a long day and the kids are wound up. I'm trying to help her and take some of the parenting load off of her but also trying to not over step.

I'm hoping that once the kids are in bed she'll be able to relax for a bit before bed. 2 more hours to go.

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Your noise canceling headphones? Those things that literally protect you from negative outside influences? Yeah them's a veil now. You can take a paint pen and decorate them with sigils or runes, anoint them, or just say "these headphones protect me from negative energies".

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I want to have a fall wedding and a bonfire reception. Everyone's on blankets. We have a few big area rugs laid out on the grass as a dance floor. The kids are running around with glow sticks. We have a hotdog roast and a s'mores bar. There are games singing around the fire. We have a ceremony where we offer herbs to the fire to bless our marriage. Then finally after everyone's gone home me and my new wife share one more solo dance under the stars.