something to remember:
guilt-tripping is not an apology (eg. “sorry i’m so terrible”)
giving excuses is not an apology (eg. “sorry my life sucks”)
threats are not an apology (eg. continually suggesting to just end the friendship instead of properly apologising)
behaving in a way that makes you the focus, instead of the person you hurt, is not an apology
self-destructive behaviour is not an apology
harassing people is not an apology






















