[chocolat-thin]

“Confidence is not ‘they will like me’ Confidence is ‘I’ll be fine if they don’t’”

— things everyone should know

[tatiyayo]

a WORD.

[moneyattractionsb]

pro tip

[hermajestyimher]

Likewise if your environment reinforces detrimental and negative habits you will end up emulating those habits as well. Don't be afraid to move away from spaces that are detrimental to your betterment as a person.

[bareniabirkin]

U need 2 hold the image u want of urself, in ur mind, so strongly that other ppl see it too. Everything u need is already inside of u. U know what u need 2 do. So look inside and stop seeking it outside

[4444555666777888999]

Dudes r like “I cannot help my fetishes or who I’m not attracted to because basically I’m monkey :/“ And then say “so are you really unable to look past the fact that I am ugly? Unbelievable. If only you’d use your brain and see that I could make you happy. But such is the life of a shallow whore, I suppose.”

[frenchsiren]

Black girls in leisure — moodboard

[sexpensed-deactivated20210529]

When your client extends the date and you need a reason for not texting back your sd for 5 hours... text them with typos saying you’re soo drunk out at a bar with friends. I take pictures of me doing basic stuff and hold on to them in case I need to fake my where abouts another time. I’m on a date with a client but I’ll send him pics of me chilling on the couch from 2 months ago. It’s really how I have managed so many SDs that were convinced I was loyal

Also screenshot the picture from your camera roll and crop it because if he saves it to his phone now it will show an updated date and time taken

[loverofbrownsugar]

Some things are not meant for me.. Poverty is one of them.

[feminite-noire]

I second this! Just a thought for my fellow black women: Femininity & Opulence > Poverty & Caping

[jeune-et-joliex]

I will always reblog this because it is so damn inspiring 👏🏻

[moneyattractionsb]

pro tip

[frenchsiren]

Black girls in luxury —Moodboard

[gagosianwife-deactivated2019120]

Rich Girlfriend Culture Only!

I really hope the sugar daddy era dies. I can’t wait to see the day we are all wealthy girlfriends/fiancées/wives and going to cute fancy dinners and gifting each other Chanel bags and expensive jewelry❣️ Please only deal with men who give you *everything*. Men are so simple and highly moldable. They are easily impressed by women’s sexuality, persona and at times, even our indifference. You will not get the most bang for your buck sugaring. In sugaring, men try to mold you to their advantage. You will get the most for dating and marrying a wealthy man who is generous in dividing up his wealth for you. Sugaring doesn’t land you a billionaire. Escorting has the potential to since it’s a numbers game- but the online sugar dating will likely lead you to trouble; wasted time, lowballing, scams, assault, legal trouble. Ladies build your personal brand of who you want to be. Brand is everything. Start waking up as her, start dressing like her, start motioning through your day as her. Get your clothing tailored, even your hoodies! This will make you feel so expensive and elegant. When you’re out running errands hoping to meet your Billionaire whale husband, act like you’re an off duty model, or like you’re in between fancy appointments. Write yourself a cheque for 20 million dollars and store it in your favourite wallet and wake up feeling secure; you don’t need to hunt out men, you have that 20 million dollars (even though you don’t, insist on believing you do). You have everything you need. Focus more on these small loving details and your synchronicities will pile up. This will alter the way you interact with men and you will end up finding one person who will take care of everything; your bills, shopping, debts, school, misc/emergency costs. Everything. You don’t need a million semi-potentials, you only need one man who will do everything for you. The more we hold men to this standard, the more we will repel shitty men from our community entirely. There is simply no room for men who can’t solve our problems. Women deserve to value, love, trust and believe in themselves and each other. 💞✨

[moneyattractionsb]

pro tip

[twelvehousemoon]

i am manifesting my best life. the universe hears my heart’s desires. beautiful things are coming my way.

[blackfemininity]

black women in leisure — moodboard

[chaneldiorxoxo]

I want this too.I throw this out to the universe that this will be mine.

[unfortunatesun]

[moderndaywarriorsawyer]

The Money Tubbs only comes around every 5628 seconds. Reblog the Money Tubbs and you’ll find money!

[modelinterrupted]

Bitttchhh the last time I reblogged some bullshit like this I booked a 2k 30minute shoot lmao

[play6irl]

[thug-gifs]

Reblog this within 10 seconds and unexpected extra money will cum to you this week

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

I love that I attract money & can make money out of thin air wherever I go. Lack isn’t in my financial vocabulary 🤩😍

[blacknbougiee]

if he flies you out

his city or vacation… these are my rules/tips

1. He needs to give you the money and can book it yourself, he brings up trust then ask him why is he going on vacation with you? Or his dumb ass can book the flight and you could be a no show smh

2. Get your own room, a separate room…It doesn’t matter if he has a mansion in the hills or a villa on the countryside, he needs to respect your privacy.

3. I can’t say this enough NEVER GO ON A DATE BROKE, A DEFINITELY NOT OUTTA STATE OR OUT OF THE COUNTRY!!!!!!!!!! Trust me theres a lot of girls who think they may have met prince charming and shit does completely left when you actually hang out with him for an entire 24hrs.

4. Find Friends on all the time so ya girls can keep track of you. and keep your phone charged at all times.

5. STAY SAFE AND ALWAYS HAVE A LOWKEY WEAPON. There is some nut cases out there and you never want to end up in a bad situation trust your gut.

[pghpluggirl-deactivated20190217]

Success Update

Hey Ladies,

I’m truly amazed with my experience in this new bowl so far. I’ve only been doing it for 2 months and I already have an allowance, a man that pays for my upkeep, and a credit card at my disposal for shopping.

This actually makes me think of a post I read a long time ago by Asiansugarbaby who I don’t think is on here anymore. She had many men paying for different things while here main SD gave her an allowance to cover her main expenses. I always admired her lifestyle and I hope to follow suit.

One thing I learned in this new bowl is even with the saturation of lowballing newbies, men are still paying top dollar for experienced sugars. I literally had a guy who told me he went on dates with sugars before and never had an arrangement of any kind. By the third date I had this man asking me how arrangements worked and how much I would need to continue seeing him.

Most of the men I deal with literally keep me around just to talk and “learn” things from me. The main statement I hear all the time is how easy it is to have sex with what they consider sugars but how hard it is to hold conversations with them or take them out to nice places. I don’t know what some of these girls are doing but they’re missing out on lots of money doing the bare minimal.

Now this statement is in no way meant to attack women who are new but there’s definitely still a lot that you all need to learn if you’re looking to get real money out of these men. I hope to put an advice post up soon about how I got these sugars so fast.

But do remember ladies, I didn’t come into this bowl new so the quickness of my results came from experience.

I hope to post again really soon,

Much love,

T