bunpilled life

[campsis]

湯口 萌香 (@moekayuguchi)

わたしだけ違ったの(2024)／磁土、木

I was the only one who was different

Porcelain clay, wood

[stuckinapril]

No exaggeration but theeeee most critical lesson I learned in my 20s was letting go when it was time. It’s so cliche but it’s so true. I used to hold on so venomously to people, put on a tap dance for their approval, force relationships to last past their expiration date, carry the heavy lifting for reaching out because I didn’t want to feel “passive.” But when someone doesn’t want your effort it’s not about passivity. It’s literally about self respect, not wasting your time, and gravitating only to people who have your best interest in mind and celebrate you. I’ve met so many older people who don’t know how to let go and it truly scares me that this could easily be me. It’s better to develop this skill early than it is to spend an entire lifetime begging for love and belonging.

[sisyphusshrugged]

having a hard time focusing today. i've also had a hard time focusing for the previous 15 or so years leading up to now but this post is about today.

[yurucamp]

recent oil paintings

[pnglove]

[berrytart]

it’s so important to post like you’re unemployed even when you work a full time job

[deadbeatdawg]

If your parents arent homophobic youre bourgeois

[tastylemonbread]

im finding more and more thay the solution to not wanting to do stuff is to do stuff anyway even if you really really dont wanna like really dont wanna

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

I just need a beautiful woman to tell me that my bizarre imitation of human social skills is alluring and sexy

[goldensunset]

ok i’ve been curious about something. can you name a character who is, all three at once,

1. canonically female (no variation)

2. canonically the protagonist of her story (if it’s an ensemble cast you have to say you can legitimately see her as The main character)

3. your personal #1 favorite character in that story (ties are acceptable)

?

yes

no

super nuance bald extract button (use this wisely)

Remaining time: 1 day 12 hours

[kikuism]

embroidered snoopy for the first time! 🌟💓🎉

[bevsi]

[crochethub]

Finished this gorgeous tapestry after months of working on it! by Emotional-Grape-3304

[awkwardlyeverafter]

2026

[vyva-melinkolya]

I have a really bad feeling about this (the rest of my life)

[skinsthemeplays-deactivated2022]

who knew I’d become a 98 year old forgotten woman in my 20’s

[mythicdove]

hey. i'm outside. hey look if u could just. hey. Let me in. it's really cold out here and i see you've got a bowl of baby spinach there. I love baby spinach. Please let me in