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i think the fact that "transandrophobia" was coined by a detrans nazi twerf should have been the end of the conversation right there. the fact that some people are still using it is actually insane. there's no hope for you.

just a heads up im very tired and not good with words please give me a little grace with this, might revisit when i have more brain power. tw for transmisogyny and talks of SA

Maybe im talking out of my ass here but the way that people use the excuse against having trans women in womens spaces is "oh i have/people have trauma with penis-havers, and need to be sheilded from that :(" is, of course fucking vile, but also it carries this undercurrent of dismissiveness for people who have sexual trauama with vagina-havers (hate those words but thats what i see a lot so eh) which is also once again just more misogyny. As if its inherently less traumatising, afab people are weaker, they cant traumatise someone as much, not like the all powerful evil penis. thats what some of you fucking lunatics think. If someone has a trauma with cars, are they meant to stay away from any public place with them? no, its something they have to learn to live with an get over. why is that so different only with dicks? i cna tell you why, its because youre just using it as an excuse to be a transmisogynistic piece of shit. Fuck you.

I was a victim of COCSA by a cis girl. i sometimes use mens changing rooms or facilities. Do you think, if i see a trans guy in there with his pussy out, i am justified in saying he doesnt belong there? that he should be banned from all mens spaces because it makes me, ✨ a victim ✨, uncomfortable? No. thats insane. That is on me to figure out. and it is NO DIFFERENT the other fucking way around. the only difference is you see trans women as monsters and are even too much of a pussy to admit that so you have to twist it in a way that makes you a weak little victim thats justified in your beliefs, because you cant be expected to work through your own trauma right? everyone in the world has to coddle you about it right? but especially trans women, they have to coddle you the most dont they.

it also completely dismisses trans women who have trauma from SA with men which, lets be real, is not uncommon. but im not a trans woman, so i dont want to speak over them. i just wanted to talk about something that has been annoying me every time i read those kinds of posts.

#transmisogyny #op is tme

dykesis

switch vers vampire girls b like yeah i’m Bite4Bite

dykesis

switch vers robot girls b like yeah i’m Byte4Byte

silima

it's always funny to me when ppl act like it's somehow incestuous for characters who consider each other found family/chosen family/whatever u wanna call the trope to date each other, and it's funny for many reasons, but most specifically it's funny because irl when you meet a person and get really attached and decide that you want to be family with them, there's a very popular legally recognized way of doing that & it's called marriage

derinthescarletpescatarian

Marriage promotes incest because then you end up having sex with a family member

butchbitchboy

thats the plot of Vanishing World by Sayaka Murata

blasfemmeous

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divineeroticmelody

Little Miss Bruisebait needs to stop intentionally angering women she knows can and will put her in her place.

divineeroticmelody

Little Miss Bruisebait is looking up at you with a smug smirk on her face, saying “You’re not gonna do anything!”

tpwrtrmnky

"Trans women are actually women for real, not in a metaphorical sense, not in a "anyone can be anything" sense, but genuinely actually make more taxonomic sense to classify in the category of women than any other group you could classify them in" is a position you'll find is pretty radical even in queer spaces

taliabhattwrites

I recently posed a question to my cis followers on Bsky about whether they could defend the idea that trans women are in fact women.

The overwhelming response was, while well-meaning, sorely disappointing and along the lines of "of course trans women are women, 'woman' is ultimately a meaningless category, you can be whatever you like".

It was such a profoundly sobering experience because I realized that most people have framed their conception of trans rights around owning bigots and dunking on them in arguments instead of an affirmative understanding of trans marginalization, a comprehension of the struggles we face in a cissexist, patriarchal society, or even a basic familiarity with how we are seen and regarded and treated institutionally.

'Woman' is not a meaningless category in a patriarchy. It is a positionality, one that trans women undoubtedly occupy, and most cis people--even allies, even the ones who believe they want to do right by us--do not fundamentally accept the premise that we actually inhabit this position and navigate society as women.

It's an epistemic chasm I don't quite know how to cross, which is unfortunate as I've inadvertently dedicated my life to doing so. Ascertaining just how wide that gap in understanding is was alarming, if necessary.

To cis readers, all I can say is that if you only think trans women can be women in a world where the word 'woman' holds no meaning, you're more aligned with the Gender-Conservative position on us than you think. You might want to unpack that.

gogurtgirlsucker

hi - i was futchcassidyandthecumdancekid

i used to be glaivegirl also gutwound

staff deleted my blog after 17 years

pls reblog to help my find my friends

blasfemmeous

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barkrk

a boot is a kind of sex toy if you think about it

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jellyamp

HEYA! DO YOU SEE THE THREE BLOGS IN THIS SCREENSHOT?

they are just a few of over 30+ different TMA users who WERE JUST DELETED

that number is STILL GROWING AS WE WRITE THIS POST

many of them have been getting emails from tumblr about their blogs being deleted and the most common email seen is an "internally generated report" (meaning staff intentionally took the action) and the only explanation given is a reference to tumblr's tos that says:

"WE MAY CHOOSE TO STOP PROVIDING SERVICE TO AN ACCOUNT AT ANY TIME, FOR ANY REASON, OR NONE AT ALL"

several users hadn't been posting anything that could remotely be a TOS violation and the only commonality they could find was that they were mutuals with one or more of the other deleted blogs

STAFF IS EVIDENTLY BANNING TMA USERS BY ASSOCIATION NOW

could everyone who has been raising the alarm over tumblr's shit reblog changes this week maybe also RAISE THE ALARM ABOUT THIS TOO?!?

this is transmisogyny plain and simple

these girls do not deserve to be removed from the platform (and with not even the barest attempt at an excuse from staff either)

it is completely unacceptable

swagophile

[trying to hypnotize you but i'm not really into it] okay uhhhh listen to the room around you or whatever do you fuckin- do you hear the sound of the birds chirping by the window? yeah that. focus on that. okay yeah now take a deep breath i guess uhhhh yeah feel like how your muscles are relaxing or whatever, everythings just like, whewwwww yknow like whewwwww deep breath just whewwww.. yeah you get it.. just let yourself relax.. like.. whewwww.. chill.. yeah yeah.. and then uh.. it feels nice right.. like you like this.. uhhhh.. uhhhhhh.. here.. just focus on the warmth overtaking your body i guess.. like.. dont even think about anything else yeah just that, yeah yeah, just like, fuck me this is taking too long can you just start doing exactly what i tell you?

swagophile

ok well don't get mad at me you ASKED me to- no dont look- no. look at me. me. i'm talking to you. keep your eyes right here. yeah. you ASKED me to do this to you. you WANTED this. you can't be upset at me, maybe this isn't how you wanted it but this is what you told me to do! eyes here. don't move your eyes. i'm trying to get something through that thick skull of yours. when you put yourself in a position like this, demanding something of someone, you can't be mad if it doesn't go how you expected. i didn't want to do this. you wanted me to. this is what you wanted. you wanted me to sit here and talk you into some kind of trance so i could mess with your mind and make you do whatever i wanted, thats what you ASKED for. how'd you like it if- no don't talk. don't look away. stop it. i'm trying to tell you something here. don't think about anything else, i have to impart this on you. i didn't want to do this. you're forcing me to do this. this is all because of you. i'm sure you wouldn't like it if i made you do things you don't want. look. i'm making you listen to me right now and you don't want to, do you? see how it feels? i'm sorry i can't do it how you expect me to but i don't even like this shit. hypnosis isn't real. i can't hypnotize you. i don't want to hypnotize you. you're not being hypnotized. hey- hey. eyes on me. you need to understand this. you're not being hypnotized. i'm not gonna- did you just cum?????