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bookaddict24-7

❤

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vioq

Love

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actuates

I really don’t like my handwriting but I’m sharing this with you anyways

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capsizeyeahimfine

"I don’t love him but he’s here and you aren’t"

fluohrine

perhaps one day when the world will make sense we will meet again just to start where we left for now i am sending my love to the stars they still shine for you anyway

k.m (via fluohrine)

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madgirlf

something has gone wrong or maybe something has just gone. he loved you and then he didn’t and now you are left to practice distance in small ways. you take the long route to school, circle your car through the streets to avoid that one. you make your bed in the morning then spill coffee on your shirt. if it burns, it only burns for a moment. something has gone wrong and you are not being brave about it. you are so loud in your aching and no one can look. you run quickly from one thing to the next because the space in between is horrifying. the space in between is quiet. there is a better way to live through this but you don’t know that yet. you aren’t that girl yet, the one who can live through something like this so you’re just dragging yourself around until the day that you are. my god, you look so tired and small. my god, you look so haunted. there is a better way to live through this but you’re living and for now, that’s enough.

Fortesa Latifi (via madgirlf)

peppernine

The next time I see one of those “millenials will be photographing the end of the world” posts I’m gonna scream because let me tell you, I just went through a natural disaster and Snapchat literally saved people’s lives. Thanks to snapchat I knew exactly what roads were flooded, what stores were open, what my HOUSE looked like (since I wasn’t there), and which shelters I could go to. People were snapping/tweeting asking to be rescued and THEY WERE. I didn’t get my news from the tv, I saw it in real time on social media and I will never not be grateful for that.

rndmboo

Milennials are just more innovative/resourceful than previous generations want to believe and that frightens them. Especially because it’s not a traditional way of being innovative/resourceful.

liberalsarecool

On point.

We have a problem of giving to the most fortunate.

ithelpstodream

Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson has a tiny puppy named Asterix and it’s amazing.

princeofbellehair

whoever did this, thank you.

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kilomonster

I am all about this…

optimysticals

What makes this even better is the photo of him with his brothers:

squeeful

HOW THE FUCK IS HE THE SMALL ONE?!?!

friendly-neighborhood-patriarch

Hafþór Júlíus Björnsson and his family are why people used to fear Scandinavians. Holy Shit.

saiyanshewolf

HE’S SIX FOOT NINE AND HE’S THE SMALL ONE

teddytrumpet

He is also one of the strongest men in the world

helly-watermelonsmellinfellon

6′9″ AND IS STILL THE SHORT ONE!

nickyvmlp

I’m staring at the tallest one, trying to figure out if he’s in the NBA

autoimmuneamy

“Do you want to talk about it or be distracted from it” is honestly the best thing you can say to me when I say im sad/in pain etc.

luckytwodollarbill-deactivated2

this is really good advice to say to anyone who is upset

elaxisfae

Alsooo may I add: “do you want advice or do you just want to vent?” Is also good to add because often unsoliticited advice can further hurt someone who really just wanted a listening ear.

sandersstudies

If you and your partner practice frequent, non-sexual consent, your relationship will be healthier and easier.

“Are you comfortable with me ranting about my day for a few minutes?”

“Oh, this is your poetry? Would it be okay if I read it?”

“Do you mind if I use your phone for a few minutes?”

“Wow, your meal looks awesome. Could I try some?”

It will save a lot of grief, especially in a developing relationship. Eventually, with consistent “yes’s” and “no’s” you can figure out more permanent boundaries and guidelines.

“I need to ask before ranting about my day or taking their food, but my partner is okay with me using their phone whenever. However, my partner does not like me reading their poetry unless they offer first.”

sandersstudies

And this goes for friendships too! Even just stuff like “do you mind if I leave this door open?”

filmnoirsbian

Not to be a downer but if i had to, at 12 years old, listen to my mother tell me all the different ways men would want to hurt my body, and how i might prevent that, then i really feel like teenage boys can handle a conversation with their parents that starts “let’s talk about consent”