Gender Fucked

I’m a non-binary bisexual disabled person. CHD. POTS. Battery powered via pacemaker.

[paranoidgemsbok]

i hate when people are like UHM FRUIT ISNT ACTUALLY GOOD FOR YOU IT HAS A LOT OF SUGAR like shut the fuck up go eat your nutritionally complete meal powder you bought off a fucking kickstarter project okay let me enjoy a clementine 

[zooophagous]

God SAME.

It even goes beyond that, like if I ever eat a raw vegetable for my own health I always get shit like “yeah but the dressing is super bad for you so you canceled it out by eating ranch with it” or “carrots have tons of carbs they’re basically sugar”

And I’m just like for real? I can’t have a baby carrot with ranch? I can’t have some fucking grapes? If the only truly “”“pure”“” food I can eat is raw celery and a daily multivitamin I’d quite honestly and truly rather just be dead.

[dredsina]

Just because something has a lot of calories or sugar doesn’t mean it’s bad for you. Veggies and fruits have a ton of vitamins and minerals and fiber and you NEED calories for like…your body to work. So who cares if you smother them in ranch. Just don’t dip a clementine in ranch

[hokuto-ju-no-ken]

I’m gonna dip a clementine in ranch.

[quinzelade]

Why do you hate Jesus

[hokuto-ju-no-ken]

Jesus is my homeboy but God has a lot to answer for and my rebellion will continue until he does so.

[bumblebeerror]

Nothing about this post prepared me for that raw ass last line.

[sa2ha]

mood

[mitski-miyawakis]

[that-twink-over-there]

Reblog if you’re a little internet friend who finds this funny

[squirtle-daddy-deactivated20250]

[schrodingers-anarchist]

[free-range-tiddies]

[tchaikovskaya]

people being upset that an event they were looking forward to attending or watching was cancelled due to proactive containment measures doesnt make them callous or self centered, you’re just obsessed with performative social justice tweeting. let people be disappointed about shit, damn. sorry your life sucks and you have no interests or hobbies outside of policing others’ moral purity online lol

[gabbythegawd]

This is who Thanos THOUGHT he was. She is the Original. This level of power, with no infinity gauntlet? Thanos could never.

[imoverallofit]

Bro… She deflected one chair, then caught the other..WITH ONE HAND ✋

[blvckgeezus]

I still want to know what led to this

[one-in-lemillion]

The one who can beat Thanos

[sistermaryfake]

all these years later and there’s still so much to unpack and so many questions left unanswered

[customrolex]

UM I JUST LOOKED THIS UP

THIS IS THE END OF A FASHION SHOW IN NORTH CAROLINA. OUR LADY CHAMPION DIDNT LIKE THE JUDGES DECISION SO SHE DECIDED TO THROW A CHAIR AND THINGS ESCLATED TO THIS AMAZING FILM.

WERE THE POLICE CALLED YOU ASK? WHY YES! YES THEY WERE!

NO CHARGES WERE FILED AND NOT EVEN A REPORT WAS MADE BECAUSE “NO ONE ON SCENE WAS WILLING TO COOPERATE WITH ANY INVESTIGATION”

No one would even make a statement! I’m losing my mind! Snitches get stitches! Don’t even tell the cops the time! Fuck em throw chairs!

[sollike]

FINALLY SOME CLOSURE. this video has kept me up at night for years

[lesbianbroccoli]

[xwiredearbuds2014x]

*orders you a bowl of cheesy broccoli soup and winks at you from across this Panera Bread*

[arirna]

[iraffiruse]

[lady-feral]

Damn.

[glumshoe]

Hey… this is just. A small shout-out to those of you who have successfully left cults and/or are in the process of doing so. What you’ve done is very brave, and you are not wrong or evil or selfish for wanting to escape from that, even if the obstacles between you and freedom are psychological rather than physical, even if you feel foolish for thinking of it as a “cult”.

[glumshoe]

Furthermore: it is not strange rituals and clothing that defines a cult. It’s far less about religious beliefs than it is controlling group dynamics. It may be more useful to think of a cult as a type of emotionally abusive relationship in which members are groomed and manipulated by a leader and each other… the “theme” might be a god, an individual, or even something as innocuous as fandom. There may be cults within larger religions - even individual churches can construct group dynamics typical of a traditional cult.

[tyson-ot-nw]

Having gotten into paganism in the late 80′s and early 90′s I came across the  Advanced Bonewits’ Cult Danger Evaluation Frame.  Over the years I have found it useful not just religiously but also socially to avoid some pretty toxic groups.  Not only religious groups (bible studies and recovery groups mostly), but I have seen high ratings in secular things like Multi-Level Marketing schemes, primitive skills groups, and even a Pirate Reenactment club.

[touyahikaru]

we recommend Steven Hassan’s book, Combatting Cult Mind Control, it’s an oldie but a goodie by an ex-Moonie who does exit counseling for cult survivors

[droideka-exe]

NB 👏 Does 👏 Not 👏 Mean 👏 Woman 👏 Lite

[ayellowbirds]

it’s one of the most insidious forms of transphobia

[loudestcrowdever]

Y E S

This whole thing is getting out of hand.

If someone is non-binary it means they are non-binary. Their assigned gender at birth does not define whether or not their nb identity is valid.

NON-BINARY AMABs ARE FUCKING VALID AND I WILL DIE BELIEVING IT

[ithelpstodream]

[gayvetforlife]

but… they’re not. Trans is short for “transitioning” which is to say you go from one gender to the other. Non-binary people are not transitioning to another gender. They’re just not moving from one to another.

[baroquecourse]

trans is not and has never been short for transitioning you dumb hoe

[gaydiskhorse]

trans is short for transgender dumbass

[underwaterarchived]

also for those who don’t get it, the creator of the trans flag herself (monica helms, to be exact) has stated verbally, herself, that the white stripe in the flag was for nonbinary individuals + that nonbinary ppl are absolutely trans

if you exclude nonbinary folks and tell us we’re not trans go fuck yourselves

[gahdamnpunk]

Look at her opening doors to thousands of girls (if not more) around the world! 😍

[jamaicanblackcastoroil]

That blue!

[exhibitaids]

[themaninthegreenshirt]

Eartha Kitt looks at her reflection in a full-length mirror as Hubert de Givenchy adjusts her dress during a fitting, Paris, 1961

[reimagination]

Everyone, even Eartha herself, has the same expression upon seeing Eartha Kitt

[whitepeopletwitter]

[badfey]

if self harm marks arent fresh people shouldnt have to trigger warning their own bodies. ppl w visible scars dont have to put warnings on their selfies and tattoo pics and videos they don't have to hide their bodies. some ppl tag their scars and that's fine good for them, but like Think before u ask someone to put warnings on themselves. how is it any different to people telling someone they should only ever wear long sleeves to hide themself? if you cant cope to see it, just unfollow, and if the person is your friend maybe talk about it but ultimately u need to realise that people have a right to live comfortably in their own skin, even if that skin is visibly scarred

[yehudah]

why did polyamory ever start becoming “cringe” on here lmao

[yehudah]

like damn REGs will go on and on about how they only bully the “cringe asexuals” because they dont face any sort of marriage discrimination or legal/societal issues but suddenly when it comes to the topic of polyamory this logic is completely destroyed

i see so many posts on here abt how polyamory is so “annoying” and polyamorous ppl are “cringe” and dont face any sort of oppression, as if half this fucking website forgets that in most, if not all, western countries outlaw polyamorous marriage

like there are posts and posts on here about how polyamorous people dont also face societal oppression, as if polyamory isnt frowned upon in western society? as if saying “my boyfriend’s girlfriend” or “my girlfriend’s husband” isnt a common fucking joke punchline, and will give you weird looks if you try to drop it casually within a conversation

yall cant make the “i only bully the minorities that dont face oppression 😖” argument and then completely throw polyamorous people under the bus and make them face the same bullshit as they always have lol

[renthony]

My boyfriend’s mother straight-up threatened me with a gun after finding out we were in a polyam relationship, and proceeded to kick my boyfriend out of the house. He hasn’t talked to his family in years now.

We regularly get told that our relationship isn’t child-friendly. Concerned parents corner us and ask us not to “bring our lifestyle around their children” even though we didn’t do or talk about anything inappropriate.

My city apparently has an ordinance that prevents more than three people living together unless they’re related by blood or marriage (not that we pay any attention to it, but our landlord could LEGALLY evict us if she found out).

When we had to take my wife to the emergency room due to severe chest pains, our boyfriend had to sit out in the waiting room, scared and alone, while waiting for me to text him updates.

And I’ve just resigned myself to not being able to have kids because of all the legal issues that could arise if a bunch of polyamorous trans people tried to adopt.  

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[aveimperatormagnus]

This reminds me of the time when I was sitting with a co-worker during a slow period and she was texting on her phone and laughed. I asked her what was funny, as we do- we share memes all the time. SHe says ‘oh, my girlfriends boyfriend just-’ and froze. Like. Terror-froze, and looked at me. The amount of relief on her face when I was just like ‘your girlfriends boyfriend just what?’ to try to continue the conversation was… Heartbreaking. I had to interrupt my own ‘please continue’ to say something to the effect of ‘Like, you’re Poly, right? You were saying something funny?’ But just … The fact that she ‘slipped’ and was so afraid I would judge or condemn her for it was.. Fucked up. I’m queer as hell, I get having to be mad-careful about what I say and to whom I say it. But the look on her face when she wasn’t sure how I was gonna react to hearing that… Is gonna be a long time before I forget that face.

[thatonewiththebluehair]

“as if polyamory isnt frowned upon in western society? as if saying “my boyfriend’s girlfriend” or “my girlfriend’s husband” isnt a common fucking joke punchline, and will give you weird looks if you try to drop it casually within a conversation“

[websurfingspider]

I was more afraid of telling my mom I was in a polyam relationship than of coming out to her as trans. My mom had been around queer and trans folks and was basically accepting if a little confused sometimes. My mom’s one experience with polyamory was my dad using it as a piss-poor excuse to cheat on her (aka not really poly bc it wasn’t consensual for all parties), and she saw it as just another word for cheating basically. She didn’t believe poly relationships could be healthy or viable. I was even more afraid to tell her when we later broke up, and I thought I was going to get a nasty “I told you so” instead of the support I needed.

[agizasikmalicikolata]