“You are my SONshine, my only SONshine You make me happy when skies are grey, You'll ALWAYS know dear, how much I love you I WILL LOVE YOU ALL OF MY DAYS” ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ When my son was born, I loved singing JOhhny Cash’s “You are my sunshine” to him as he would fall asleep. But I didn’t love the words so I made my own rendition. Yesterday was #nationalsonsday and I have to say that the love I have for my boy breaks my heart sometimes. He’s kind, sensitive, stubborn, and loving. He is confident and smart and at times a tad spoiled when he doesn’t get his way (but really, what 4 year old isn’t?) I remember the minute he was born, I gave up preconceived notions on what it means to be a “man” and have let our little guy be (and do) whatever makes his heart soar. We try to build his self-confidence in the following ways: 1. Creating a safe space to express emotions - kids are humans. They feel sad, frustrated, angry and all other kinds of emotions. Bubs has seen daddy cry both happy and sad tears and knows that he can too. 2. Give lots of praise and encouragement - Bubs has lots of confidence and is very social, but sometimes I see him holding back when he is unsure. We praise and encourage him to push his boundaries and have confidence in his decisions 3. We don’t promote competition, but rather doing ones best - When we put Bubs in soccer we thought he would be the next Lionel Messi. It turns out he’s more into the social aspect of soccer, as opposed to the actual game. We love it just the same, and so does he! 4. We model and emphasize sympathy and empathy in the home - When baby girl was born, Bubs was not too happy. It took him some time to realize his strength and that his little baby sister couldn’t do all the things he could. Today they are best buddies and love each other more than anything. When his little sister falls, he is the first to check on her and help her up. How do you build confidence in your son? @carryonwithkids #familylife #son #myboy #sonday #nationalsonday #momasboy #love #familytravel #familygoals #familylife #momgoals #momlife #momsofinstagram #familyfirst https://www.instagram.com/p/CFufg-ilLgR/?igshid=dhx396ou4tm5