Hello , hello! ^u^
I hope you're doing well. I don't mean this to be , a .. weird or odd question? But do you have any advice on trying to not worry about insecurities? Or have a clean mind from them? I've been trying to practice on having a positive mindset.
hi anon !! im so sorry it took me so long to reply to this, so i hope you still see this. honestly, as much as i try to hide it and deny it, i do have insecurities, as everyone else does. but i think the thing is, you need to remember that everyone has them, and no one notices them as much as you do ! truly .. i know i hate when people used to tell me this, but you rarely ever think the worst of people's appearances, and vice versa ( unless you're a monster lol ) .. i think a thing that helped me a lot is journaling about all the things i love about myself, and also all the things i dislike about myself. try to enhance all the things you love about yourself, to the point where its so hard to focus on your insecurities.
and i know some people think this is a horrible thing to say, but i think its realistic. be honest with yourself about your insecurities, how can you change them ? because if you don't like something about yourself then theres no reason why you shouldnt want to better yourself. you should love yourself !! but theres also absolutely no harm in bettering yourself and attempting to make yourself fit your OWN BEAUTY STANDARD. and i say this with the most love in my heart , you should absolutely never try to change yourself for someone else. only ur beautiful self.
im sorry for the rant btw ..
