measure once cut twice @catboy-grant-wilson - Tumblr Blog

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Dungeons and daddies hyperfixation has got me in a chokehold rn so I'm making a blog for it. This isn’t my sideblog, it is my main and ONLY active tumblr blog.

Call me Nick. Trans ppl and friends can call me Nicky :3 Pronouns and stuff!! I'm 22 and live in the USA. Also a catboy. Obviously.

Find me on ao3! I'll also post links to my stuff here under #my writing and #my fic.

18+ can DM me for my NSFW writing. Age in bio or get blocked - “adult” or “over 18” does not cut it.

Non-fan works can also be found under #my writing

I also draw sometimes. Search #my art

#txt is for miscellaneous personal posts

Right now I mostly post kiddads stuff. Specifically Grant lmao. I'll probably explore other characters in the future as well :)

My favorite character is Grant Wilson, I think about her all the time and I am shoving her into the torment nexus as we speak. Turning her into a beautiful butch transhet woman also

I love the Glark fight club concept and also ship them as a toxic, mutually destructive QPR.

Please do not hesitate to DM me or send me asks!! I would really love more friends to talk to about DnDads.

¡Siéntete libre de hablar conmigo en español! Todavía estoy aprendiendo, pero no es demasiado difícil para mí leer y escribir en español.

Basically just be nice and we can probably get along :-)

#dungeons and daddies #dndads #grant wilson #glark fight club #kiddads #my writing #my fic #my art #txt #practice room #my wips #asks #glark #grannick

epiphainie

slow burn where they're already having sex. such a beautiful combination i cannot put it into words

#glark

mail-me-a-snail

everytime i think about the concept of soulmates i mourn the fact that it's never turned on its head as a tragedy

mail-me-a-snail

stands up on my chair i think having a soulmate should be a kind of divine punishment

future-crab

The key to writing good fanfiction is to harbor a deeply humiliating desire, and the trick there is that even pretty basic and societally-accepted desires like “being held” and “being wanted” CAN and WILL be humiliating if they’re intense enough. Become so estranged from human connection that the idea of someone playing with your hair fills you with yearning so deep you feel like you’re going to throw up and you will write some banger fanfiction. It might have some other consequences too but idrk about that.

some-kin-of-snowgrave

my view on my plurality changed drastically when i stopped thinking "am i really plural?" and switched to "if i'm wrong that's a later me problem".

like. i already procrastinate consequences over literally everything in my life, so why not plurality?

i'd 100% recommend trying to switch to this mindset if you're burdened with denial. it's not a fix-all, but it did really help me out :]

#what always helps me is reframing it from ‘am i plural’#to ‘is plurality a useful explanation for what i’m experiencing’#it’s much easier to assess the answer to that question imo #plus like. now we’re just talking science babey #sometimes you have a theory that works for a while and then you find a new theory that explains things better #there’s no shame in that #and sometimes you realize yep this is just the explanation. im settled

remembering how i suddenly stopped identifying with the name i’d been using comfortably for 3 years after experiencing a series of traumatic events which made my dissociation a lot worse. which could mean nothing

#noticing things #<- this is just a tag i have now LOL #txt

creekfiend

thing I am proud of: when the doctor started going on a weird rant about long covid not being real I paused and listened to his nonsense for a bit and then very calmly said, in a polite and curious tone, "you don't believe in post-viral illness?" and he like. stammered a bunch and was like OH WELL I'M NOT SAYING -- I DON'T...I just think ..! and backpedaled awkwardly while I just sat there like :3c interesting :3c thank you so much for clarifying your stance on this :3c

creekfiend

an important skill for chronically ill people to develop is the ability to treat the doctor as though they are simply a person you are interviewing to find out how much they know about your condition.

nightmare-from-heaven

Holy shit op this is LITERALLY in the book 'Never Split The Difference: Negotiating as if Your Life Depends On It'. Written by a guy who did hostage negotiation and then tried doing business negotiation, and mopped the floor with industry experts.

I'm fortunate enough to have a primary care doctor who knows about hEDS, but it's occurring to me that the skills in this book could be medically life changing for chronically ill folks of all kinds. Like. Literally a matter of life and death, especially for BIPOC and/or fat and/or young people who are having their issues dismissed.

creekfiend

HMMM interesting!! will have to check this out

faemorrigan

im realizing very fast that people do not in fact know that sometimes things in stories suck on purpose and it sucking is the point

faemorrigan

"this story is misogynistic!!"

>looks inside

>about the pressures of societal misogyny and how its bad

gayfrasier

i love the phrase "which could mean nothing" i think its my favorite thing to come out of the internet ever i love saying it. it could mean nothing but we all know better. we know the truth.