[ancientdriftwood]

Wire Mother is Kiki

Cloth Mother is Bouba

[iamheavymeta-lll]

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[villapaitahinttari]

ohhhhj the mischevious smiler....

[hussyknee]

How long have you been on Tumblr?

Over 16 years (before 2010) (toddlers in the dawn of the ant colony)

16 to 14 years (2010-2012) (livejournal and Myspace refugees)

13 to 11 years (2013-2015) (you used to follow thebootydiaries)

10 to 8 years (2016-2018) (era of Russian bot conspiracy)

7 to 3.5 years (2019-2022) (post sex ban to Goncharov)

3.5 years or less (2023–2026) (Twitter refugee)

Voting ended onJul 15

Rebagel for science pls.

[everyday-cutephoto]

[funstyle]

Its so beautiful that cats have their own special weed. Mother nature rewarding them for being the best animal

[paprikapony-deactivated20210526]

we’re all gonna be sixty posting shit like: cranberry juice…

[dgdfan-deactivated20240106]

ometimes i want to have sex with a woman

[dgdfan-deactivated20240106]

but i have other problems

[yellow-cat]

when im 45 years old ill still be here posting like take my hand. lets go into menopause together

[shamebats]

Despite it all I was born in the right generation. I love having more than 2 outfits to wear & not being pregnant.

[smsomah]

Tuareg; Niger. Michel Renaudeau

[louisegluckpdf]

holy quaternity

[staff]

for april fools we’re deleting this entire site sayonara you weeaboo shits

[readysetjo]

Can we make a hairy women Wednesday or something??

[readysetjo]

No WAIT Hairy Women Weekend. We deserve 2 days.

[uncahier]

Happy Hairy Woman Weekend to all who celebrate!

[theshadowofthephoenix]

I keep seeing posts from people who claim they will be blocking anyone who posts any content from the new Harry Potter show that begins airing in December.

So I wanted to say you’re all being ridiculous. You consume media all the time by actual rapists. You watch movies with actors who have killed people. You read books written by racists and homophobes. All. The. Time. And it is so unimportant to you that half the time, you don’t even know.

This business with JK Rowling is a witch hunt. She follows a different kind of feminism than you do. And sometimes she’s a little rude about it. (But we don’t tone police here.) She has never put hands on anyone. She has started charities with her own money. And she is an outspoken advocate for women experiencing domestic violence.

She has expressed acceptance for LGBT people, yes including trans people. She just does not believe a person can genuinely change their sex, that some ‘inclusive’ terminology dehumanizes women and that sex segregated spaces are necessary to protect women.

There is a reason that JKR is being derided the way she is, and it’s not because she’s the worst person in the world. And if you step back, if you read her words, you’ll see why.

Anyway, keep putting Harry Potter content on my feed.

[vintage-bentley]

Nicholas Brendon, the actor who played Xander in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, died recently. The response was an outpouring of love: fans affectionately calling him “Nicky”, his former costars putting out loving statements about him, fans sharing stories about meeting him, so many Xander scenes and quotes from BtVS being posted. Fans called for mass streaming of “The Zeppo”, a Xander-centric episode. Nevermind that the creator, Joss Whedon, was/is abusive too.

You’d never know that Brendon had physically abused women.

In fact, when a handful of women pointed this side of him out and cautioned people about pouring love out for an abuser…they’d be told that it’s a complicated situation, that he was a complex person, that it’s okay to mourn the person he once was and just put aside that pesky woman-beating side of him. After all, the poor sweet man was troubled.

Watching this all unfold really put into perspective for me how little people care about women, especially compared to how much they care about worshipping men no matter what they’ve done. You can’t even mention Harry Potter or god forbid JK Rowling without people jumping on you to lecture you about how she’s evil and unredeemable and needs to die. I’ve even seen people call for boycotts of brands just because they did a HP collab. Yet you can post a loving tribute to “Nicky” and people will join in supportively, never once mentioning that he abused women. You can separate the art from the male artist, but don’t you dare suggest doing the same for a woman.

[pissyliquor]

It makes me genuinely sick how men think that the victims of Ted bundey where just shallow women doing whatever he wanted because of his looks.

He literally pretended to be hurt and begged for help. his victims were kind and compassionate people willing to help a stranger. .

[magnificentempress]

And this is why I will ALWAYS stand by saying that women should not help men.

A man addresses you on the street, asks something? Just shrug and keep on going, dont say anything, dont react, just walk on.

If he needed actual help he would have asked his brothers in chromosome. The reason he asked you is because he knows that men will not tolerate his bs request, and because he thinks that you as a woman should put up with it instead.

I repeat: when men want actual assistance, they go to other men. He is not in distress, he is just mildly inconvenienced. He can either deal with it himself like a big boy or find another man. There is nothing, i repeat, nothing in the world that you can do for him that another man cannot. He is lost? Looking for some building? Needs a ticket home? Can't use an ATM? Kittens in his car are starving and he is dying to feed them and he needs your help? Well that sucks. He should deal with it tho. The risks of helping a man are simply not worth it.

[uncertainwaters]

"A woman could offer no greater cooperation to her soon-to-be attacker than to spend her time telling herself, “But he seems like such a nice man.” Yet this is exactly what many people do. A woman is waiting for an elevator, and when the doors open she sees a man inside who causes her apprehension. Since she is not usually afraid, it may be the late hour, his size, the way he looks at her, the rate of attacks in the neighborhood, an article she read a year ago—it doesn’t matter why. The point is, she gets a feeling of fear. How does she respond to nature’s strongest survival signal?

She suppresses it, telling herself: “I’m not going to live like that, I’m not going to insult this guy by letting the door close in his face.” When the fear doesn’t go away, she tells herself not to be so silly, and she gets into the elevator.

Now, which is sillier: waiting a moment for the next elevator, or getting into a soundproofed steel chamber with a stranger she is afraid of? The inner voice is wise, and part of my purpose in writing this book is to give people permission to listen to it."

- The Gift of Fear: Survival Signals That Protect Us from Violence by Gavin de Becker, 1997.

[thoodleoo]

if your website has an AI "assistant" that keeps popping up in the corner of my screen i hate you forever

[thoodleoo]

no. begone

[tesdradgon]

They truly are awful. I have to show you (/gen) the strangest one that I have seen.

Would you like Emperor Nero to help you figure out how to visit the Colosseum and the Roman Forum? Probably not, but here he is.

[thoodleoo]

"speak with nero" i'd really rather not i think!