you sold your life away to rock n roll and chevrolet

call me wm or nico she/her late teens terminally online and mentally ill virago biggest cute boys liker in the world. i complain a lot. follows from i********s

[cerberusmon-wm]

hi

if everyone else gets to make an intro post i get to as well okayyy

hi im nico and im a cishet cringe emo weeaboo wannabe-androgynous virago and also the laziest person in the world

on this blog im probably gonna post about being gnc/RR or whatever you wanna call it and also feminism. terfs fuck off and die. im the #1 gender hater. not an information blog but im opinionated as hell sometimes

i have severe social anxiety disorder and lv1 autism and am extremely emotionally sensitive. im prolly not gonna post about them here but my special interests are pokemon, vocaloid, danganronpa/similar games, and cats. i also like cute boys a lot a lot

my viragoness is mostly in the sexuality/relationships way (im too small and ugly to be seen as anything other than a little girl) but im so glad theres a community of people like me that isnt infested with obnoxious creeps. usually talking about this kind of thing just gets a reaction of "why do you give a shit this is the most frivolous thing ever get over yourself straight girl." heres to hoping people start actually caring about our existence one day

also i have a really bad habit of blocking people on a whim for minor annoyances. i try not to do it in the community but its nothing personal probably

notsfw tag is #not safe for unemployment

complaining tag is #unemployed person complains

[unwastelandunbaby]

idk I think maybe 2000s/10s feminism talked too much about “unrealistic beauty standards for women” that people forgot “beauty standards for women” is already fucked up

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[shirimoto]

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[cerberusmon-wm]

IM SO FUCKING SICK OF THIS SHIT

[cerberusmon-wm]

"let that woman get dicked down" NO 👎👎👎👎👎👎❌❌❌❌❌❌

[viragoposting]

Can we talk about the Virago desire to be taller than men? I absolutely think it's hot and I can't date anyone without it. I figured you'd be the one able to translate feelings into words.

This is because of sexism and a sprinkle of Gynarchophobia. By being taller than men, as a woman, your masculinity as it pertains to your strength cannot be challenged, that security is very attractive based in that dynamic. This is why it's common for RR or feminine virago to experience attraction this way exclusively. It's typical of society to diminish the comparable strength women have to men, this placement of a clear difference is very attractive for masculine (or dominant in some cases) women,

[ilynpilled]

it is this 4ever everywhere u look

[courtmartialme]

i know everyone is tired of hearing it from me but i'll never be free from how people think you can only ship a het ship WOKELY if the man is a pathetic useless idiot and the girl babysits and pegs him and has the personality of a door. i promise you won't get your woke card revoked if you spend five minutes of your time to consider the girl has a personality and the guy might be a competent person. and maybe she likes getting dicked down and is a little pathetic too. have you considered also liking the girl and maybe wanting her to be a spoiled baby too? also I'll Kill You

[renegadeblue18]

okay but have we considered that we can also WANT more het ships to have confident and bossy women? I can not like the heteronormative dynamic of “petite naive girl with her strong and dependable man,” AND also dislike the “she’s the intelligent one that babysits him” dynamic because those are both misogynistic stereotypes (submissive woman VS women are emotionally intelligent and reign in their more wild husbands).

I REALLY do not like this reactionary culture shift away from “Girl power!” “Girls can do anything boys can!” into shit like “omg she’s just a girl teehee” “pathetic girlfailure wants her daddy heehee” it feels like such an intentional regression back into “women need to be put in their place”. I’ll take a million stale girlboss/pathetic man ships ANY DAY over going back to “divine femininity that must be pampered and spoiled and NEVER in charge 🥰💖”

blegh

[hyenaswine]

i think people are starting to confuse class analysis with bioessentialism. like... no not all men do this, but Men as a constructed social class do do this. that's still okay to say. that is regular material analysis of the world around us.

[sunburnt-brian]

[cerberusmon-wm]

what the fuck was her problem

[finnu1223]

virago science time

so, this may not be news to some of you, but i thought it was cool and wanted to share. i suspected this for years, but had no idea the actual scale

you know Man The Hunter? the theory that the "two sexes" evolved differently due to a gendered division of labor that our ancestors practiced? men hunting and women gathering?

its bullshit. turns out they were determining the sex of the skeleton BY THE GENDER ROLES THE PERSON HAD FOLLOWED, and got it wrong about half the time. women were hunting big game. regularly

Ancient women were hunters — and grandmas were the most skilled ones, study suggests

Scientists have long held that early human men did the hunting and women the gathering. A new review of data on foraging societies in modern

i want to stress: gathering has always been much more essential for sustaining a village. hunter-gatherer societies mostly eat forage (which was also a major source of medicine as well) and if they regularly eat meat, its usually fish, or smaller game (of which are hunted by women in 80% of societies)

big game is more rare, but a third of hunter-gatherer societies regularly teach girls to hunt it. as in, chasing down and killing large mammals.

the data was skewed for so long because male researchers were much less trusted around women and observed them a lot less. big surprise there

anyway, they found more efficient ways of finding the sex of skeletons instead of just looking at them and taking a guess

strict, inflexible gender roles exist to preserve and justify a strict, inflexible patriarchy (that exists to preserve a strict, inflexible hierarchy). they want you to believe that afab and amab bodies "evolved differently" due to hundreds of thousands of years of natural selection. and the truth is, there are some differences, but theyre not absolute, they arent as exaggerated as theyve been presented, and they dont make two biologically opposite categories of person. we have very low sexual dimorphism compared to most mammal species and lived in egalitarian societies for most of our existence

anyway, i felt like we needed some good news in this community. if you want to know more about this topic, theres a really cool vid here:

[quioro]

I think I'll leave the virago community and hetgnc since the term rolereversal is excluded; I know i am masc before being rolereversal, however, it is a totally special expresión for me.

Furthermore, in this community, it implies that role reversal is very "heteronormative". Honestly, I don't see something as heteronormative if it doesn't have a system to support it, but I guess that's just me.

Why do straight main couples have a system, but rr people don't (neither the hetgnc who likes role reversal)

But that doesn't matter, that's another topic. I identify a lot with Virago but I don't think I'll post anymore. Anyway thank you very much for yall knowledge and activism; about hetgnc people I have never felt as listened In other communities like yall

[viragoposting]

I don't know if I like the new definition. I always felt like virago was a term best used to communicate my identity and sexuality, less so as a means of organizing or as a political identity... The latter is important, yes, but it was nice to point to virago and go "yes, this is me" and I dont feel like i can do that under these circumstances. (sorry if this comes off as dismissive I can't really articulate how i feel about this well)

No it's completely fine to feel how you feel. Although the intention is to build greater solidarity, it's okay to feel if it's reductive. I much rather have a prolonged conversation first than just make a decision most aren't happy with. Role reversal, I figured nobody would mind, but the inclusion of gnc4gnc is...really big.

I'll hold off on the GNC4GNC portion because of your input.

Virago has always been a clump of intersecting gnc communities and the idea was to bring the final pieces of that together. It's not a political identity, but an identity that's conception is formed due to collective political ostracizations.

I'll put up a poll. Please

GNC4GNC inclusion?

Y

N

Voting ended onJun 5

[secretscents]

I'm on the fence because the most effected by this change are hetgnc people. Before Virago, there was nothing at all. No for now.

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[viscasi]

LMAOOOOO