Soft

"Be where it's calm. Be where it's safe." Thirty years old on a quest of positivity and healing. This is a collection of soft things that make me feel good. Hoping to reconnect with my feminine side.

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calling myself babe when I'm talking to myself. in a pitying but loving way. like babe you gotta get up. babe why are you doing this. babe you're giving me nothing here

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December will be filled with happiness.

December will be filled with blessings.

December will be filled with progress.

December will be filled with kindness.

December will be filled with love.

December will be filled with positivity.

December will be filled with peace.

December will be filled with opportunities.

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missionary so we can continue our argument from before

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Doggystyle so you can watch the PowerPoint presentation I made outlining why you were wrong

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i read something the other day that’s stuck with me.

self care shouldn’t be solely about becoming productive again.

instead it should be a reminder that you are worthy and important without productivity.

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Don't you worry about the distance, I'm right there if you get lonely.

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concept: I lay my head on your chest, my hand intertwined with yours. your gentle heartbeat rocks me to sleep.

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Must catch all the snowflakes

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To myself, raised in an environment that glorified and romanticized restriction and suffering:

There is no victory in skipping dinner, or lunch, or breakfast, or morning coffee, or dessert.

There is no victory in refusing heaters and air conditioners and fans and heated blankets.

There is no victory in denying yourself sleep, or showers, or movement, or water, or a comfortable bed, or taking the elevator vs. the stairs.

There is no victory in refusing pain meds and heating pads and ice packs and medical help.

There is no victory in punishing yourself needlessly, in telling yourself that this pain you feel is because you are bad to the core and deserve it.

There is no victory in choking back your laughter and your tears, to keep an imagined equilibrium of safety that is really just a dry, cracked, empty, endless emotional desert.

You are here. You are in this body, and this body is yours. You deserve good things. You are alive, and that is messy and loud, and messy and loud are okay.

It’s okay to live abundantly. It’s okay to make mistakes, it’s okay to indulge. This paralysis of self-punishment, self-restriction, self-loathing is not healthy or good for you.

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