delicate like a bomb.

call me L. they/he transmasc high femme lesbian. mid-20s. ♡

[crimsonbutch]

butch is an extremely diverse identity that intersects lesbianism and strives for a masculinity that is not rooted in the patriarchy. butch is a gender identity that means many things to many different people, not just cis white lesbians. that includes studs, butches on t, butches who are trans, butches who transitioned, butches who use he/him, butches who have a weird gender, boydykes, lesboys, and especially butches of the working class. if you don't support them then you don't actually support butches.

[artemissoftstepper]

little miss suckable tits would like to suggest a bonding activity

[moonlightfemme]

butchfemme is not stone enough if u ask me everyone get more stone immediately

[azzibuckets]

back to back.

[unknown274777]

Another victim

[allap0log1es]

How to explain that being a lesbian and coming into the femme label has made me present more feminine but also feel less like a binary woman. Like I feel and like to feel super feminine but I just don’t connect to traditional womanhood anymore, it feels completely separate.

Anyways it only has to make sense to me for it to be true but do other femmes know what I’m saying #lol

[pawtheticpuppyboy]

I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.

Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default

[dontratoutyourfriends-moved]

(Image text: “I will no longer entertain debate about my right to exist.”)

Gender Troubles: The Butches

edit: this is now available to watch on amazon, link here.

[the-dyke-from-outer-space]

BTW femme is never gender conformity, and saying so is ignorant. Femme is civil disobedience, pushing femininity farther than men and the patriarchy are comfortable with, and is so much more than just an aesthetic.

[idyllicbby]

fat high femmes, ily

Black high femmes, ily

tall high femmes, ily

high femmes who aren’t hyper-feminine, ily

non-binary high femmes, ily

transmasc & transfem high femmes, ily

he/him & they/them high femmes, ily

& if you’re a mix of some of these, ily times a billion

[august-undergrounds]

never let being a girl stop you from being a boy

[vaesbian]

femme doesn't just mean feminine how long do we have to go over this

[vaesbian]

it's a complex identity that subverts heteronormativity, it has more meaning than just "person who looks feminine". a person looking feminine doesn't immediately mean they're a femme. using this word so lightly waters down its meaning and importance

[holyshitimalesbian]

I love you lezboys. I love you lesbian boyfriends. I love you boydykes and dykefags and butchtwinks. I love you he/him lesbians. I love you butch/stud transbians. I love you femme transmascs. I love you trans women with beards. I love you trans people that don’t have dysphoria and don’t transition physically in any way. I love you lesbians on T. You are not a threat to my queerness. You are not ruining anything for anyone else. You ARE queerness. I love you.

[thesolitarygoblin-deactivated20]

[inuzukahana-deactivated20210106]

Your daily reminder you can download a FREE copy of Stone Butch Blues off of Leslie Feinberg’s website

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You can also read a FREE copy of Transgender Liberation: a Movement Whose Time Has Come here

[inuzukahana-deactivated20210106]

You can also get a FREE copy of Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman here

[inuzukahana-deactivated20210106]

And here’s a bunch of hir articles for FREE about any number of things really

[inuzukahana-deactivated20210106]

And you can get a FREE copy of Drag King Dreams here <3

[littleebambiii]

I think it’s important for femme’s to remember that you don’t need to be hairless, wear a bunch of pinks or dresses all the time to be considered femme.

You don’t need to look a certain way. You don’t need to weigh a certain number. Or do your makeup every single day or even at all. You don’t need to have long hair or perfect skin.

You don’t need to follow a bunch of rules on how to look to be considered femme. It’s so much more than your appearance.

[pissgoon]

i let them hit because they were honest about their intentions and created a healthy, open line of communication between us that made me feel safe and secure enough to let them see me in one of my most vulnerable states