Charlilo @charlilo - Tumblr Blog

spineless-lobster

I am not the divine masculine or the divine feminine I am the divine comedy and you will address me as such

kisseism

undiagnosing myself. there is nothing wrong with me i am #normal

play-exy-be-sexy

Hi I love you all🖤

sufjansjoy

just accepted something i can’t change #yasss

kosmogrl

cbedfordart

Songs that inspired SWC please 🙏💗

just to name a few - there's loads more but these were pretty high up there for getting me through the work and helping me understand it

charlilo

there is something really special about listening to Magdalene bay while scrolling the swc tag and finding out the creator had the same thought.

#swc #i will never not love this game #also the killing eve mention is killing me

butterflypeaflowertea

it’s so nice being fond of people on here :-) like yeah maybe we only know each other in a very limited way but i care abt you guys & hearing abt your lives makes me happy & i like listening to the things u have to say & i really truly wish the best for you all!!! sending my love from a couple states, countries, oceans away

calmdowngorgeous

Destroy the myth that libraries are no longer relevant. If you use your library, please reblog.

hellokittydirtblock

i love my mutuals because we never talk but we still… like… follow each other……….. and i admire that we stick together even tho there is no communication in the slightest………u kno what i mean… hello…

play-now-my-lord

least favorite genre of post on here has gotta be "having mental illness doesn't excuse bad behavior" from people with depression/anxiety, who mistakenly believe everyone with psychosis is simply suffering from distorted thinking like they are. i have the kind of bipolar that causes psychosis under the wrong conditions and it is radically different from the distorted thinking i have when manic or depressed. "distorted thinking" is "there's nothing wrong with stealing those groceries from a stranger's car, they won't catch you and you need it more than them". "psychosis" is "you're not stealing those groceries in that stranger's car, they belong to you and those people are just holding them". (never mind that "i haven't eaten in days and they can afford a car" morally complicates either situation for a moment.)

i have been in a state where i earnestly believed things that were radically untrue and they lead me to cause harm to others. these were not minor distortions in an otherwise accurate picture of the world, they were fundamentally incorrect pictures of the world. some of them were fairly innocuous and are largely water under the bridge. some of them were serious and i still feel shame about them now. but i have also seen people hounded to the ends of the earth over shit they did in a delusional state which would be utterly out of character while compos mentis and it feels cosmically unfair.

loving-n0t-heyting

I would like to reiterate that among the advocates of the “mental illness does not excuse bad behaviour” line is the legislature of the state of California

loving-n0t-heyting

Holy shit the notes are like magnetically repulsed from the point

Mental illness can and does often mitigate responsibility, excuse behaviour, and morally exempt you from “accountability” (social debt). You can’t voice agreement with the op and then add, “Well but of course this doesn’t make psychosis an excuse.” Yea, if you were delusional to the point you had no fucking clue what you were doing then it damn well does, that is the entire point

play-now-my-lord

a part of me really cannot get over how desperate people are for their sense of justice to be answered by punishment. Like someone can be off their nut and taking orders directly from psychic communication by animals and you're gonna want to, what, cross-examine the crows in the neighborhood to make sure they're not just gold-bricking and you're not being deprived a perfectly good chance to punish an evildoer (real concept, extremely important)? Christ!