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she/shx/he/hx/it, no they ~ 20 ~ sideblog so i follow from freshidiotwawa ~ send dms and asks yayaya

[chimera-summer]

I'm Amm and I use she/shx, he/hx, and it/its, I'm a bicis bigender manwoman chimera but genderfluid in a trans way. I have a complex relationship with queerness and I hope to explore it a bit more and maybe share a bit about how things are going.

Do not refer to me strictly as a man or a woman (incl. cis man, cis woman, trans man, trans woman), I should always be referred to as a manwoman or a chimera unless you get permission to do otherwise. Please don't call me nonbinary, or use they/them pronouns on me.

My main right now is freshidiotwiwi, so I'll mostly be interacting from there.

Important: This blog is a safe space for advocates who believe in the value of the word transandrophobia, detransitioners, intersex people, those with contradictory labels, and freaks. This blog will never promote tme/tma usage or oppression olympics.

Anyone who comes into my askbox trying to learn or get the opinions of someone else will never be scolded, I will always focus on trying to be productive with my education and advice.

girlboy - hibiscus - chimerism alter intersex - bicis - contradictim noxandrofemme - orchid futch - sundrogyne

[bnyrbt]

“i don’t think i count as disabled but [describes the most obviously disabled experience you can imagine]”

“i don’t think i count as intersex but [describes the most obviously intersex experience you can imagine]”

[this-is-anti-masculinity]

Andronoirism is the fact that black men are statistically more likely to be falsely arrested than black women and white people overall.

Black women also have a higher statistic of being arrested than white women do, but being perceived as a man makes this statistic skyrocket.

Masculinity is viewed as dangerous, blackness is viewed as dangerous, and so these traits together greatly increase arrests.

Here are two resources on the matter, but there are plenty more that exist:

1 in 5 statistic [link]

Incarceration rates [link]

[interspadias]

"Well if your gender fluctuates why don't you just go with genderfluid"

My gender doesn't fluctuate so much as my comfort with the concept of gender as a whole and my standing within it fluctuates, the gendered flavor of terms to describe me without cringing adjust and tweak on a day by day basis, and nothing about it is sensically strictly cis or trans because my intersex traits and experiences have influenced that drastically

also I don't like getting fluids near my gender it makes my hands clammy

[that-grassbro]

I am once again reminding you all to look out for your minor friends. Children are an oppressed class, and deserve protection and safe friendships. They should always be able to come to you if they have concerns about someone in your circle, and it is a responsibility to offer them protection and support.

Especially in the wave of all the 'saying children cant consent is a part of their oppression fake-youthlib pedos'.

protect kids and ESPECIALLY protect young trans kids who may see this behaviour as normal because its their only connection to trans communities.

[polybius-on-gameboy-deactivated]

i actually do think you should draw clocky trans people. no i don’t think they’re a stereotype or caricature. i think that’s a horrible thing to say about real people who exist. i think that’s a horrible thing to say about my friends and my family. i want to see your art of a trans boy with curves and long hair and baby face because that’s me. i want to see your art of a tall trans girl with broad shoulders and facial hair because that’s my friend. stop being scared to draw the people you know.

[polybius-on-gameboy-deactivated]

“I’m not going to draw a clocky trans woman because that’s how TERFs draw them” i don’t think my friends should be forced to only see themselves in artwork made by TERFs and transphobes. They should get to see themselves lovingly drawn by other trans people.

[tboy-cock]

You do know that it's a choice to grow the neck beard instead of literally any other style of facial hair right? Literally no man looks good with a neck beard, it absolutely screams incel.

i think its within peoples rights to look "ugly" (to you) if they want to do that. again, youre not going to win me over by saying "but but but evannnnn i dont like the way they look 🥺🥺🥺 they look uglyyy evan and thats personally offensive to me ))): wont somebody think of me and my eyes?" gouge them out

[that-satireguy-deactivated20250]

I'm realising some people get very uncomfortable very fast when they have to acknowledge that the global south isn't a fictional horror story.

And its noticeable with the sheer volume of faker accusations we get, more so than any minority on this site, as if we're not like more common than you lot.

Its noticeable when some self righteous pompous piece of shit will claim that they've 'studied third-world dynamics' and that I must just be fucking blind.

Its noticeable when you see a POC and immediately think 'diaspora'. And look I know that a lot of the people who share your interest are, and thats fine, but it should not be a resting assumption.

Theres more ideas but I'm calling off work to be tired.

[mrkanman]

[boybeetles]

A lot of people seem to mix up ‘community’ with ‘friend group’ so when they read ‘no one should be abandoned by the community. No matter what they did’ they think it means ‘you have to be friends with abusers’. When in reality it means ‘no matter what someone does they shouldnt be left to go homeless and be denied financial, housing, medical, etc aid’

You don’t have to be friends with these people, no one is saying that. It’s just saying that you should support rehabilitative justice, support programs that help homeless people, support funding for free medical services, and make sure they don’t turn away anyone who needs help.

[autiebiographical]

Pretty sure an autistic world, while not perfect, would at least be more orderly.

[shepandem]

I'm not going to lie, stuff like this bugs me. What people mean when they say the world would be better in [insert ways here] if everyone were autistic, what they mean is that they think the world would be better if everyone were low support needs autistic. They don't mean autistic the way I'm autistic.

I knew a man with severe level 3 autism back when I lived in my first host home. He was fully nonverbal, and essentially noncommunicative, minus a couple of sign approximations that only his caregivers understood. He was incontinent, and aggressive towards himself and others. I couldn't spend much time around him, because he would scream, or randomly touch me, and set off my sensory issues, and my fear of men.

People like him make up 25-33% of the autistic population.

If the whole world were autistic, a quarter to one third of the global population would be dead of dehydration or starvation in a matter of weeks, unless the autistics who functioned closest to neurotypical level took over their care. That's equivalent to the losses seen during the boubonic plague epidemic that raged through Europe and Asia from 1348 to the mid 1350s.

Then there are people like me. I can talk sometimes, and I can bathe myself when reminded, but the government has determined that my ability to work is so limited that I couldn't survive on the amount of income I earned from the amount of work I'm able to do.

Neurotypicals aren't bad. My caregiver and support staff are all neurotypical. Autistics like me need neurotypicals, or neurotypical-functioning people, in our lives.

When you say the world would be better if everyone were autistic, you're erasing the autistics who can't function and be "productive" the way you are. The austistics like me.

[pixierainbows]

Pixie usually really like this comics . But . Very much Seconding what em and shep wrote about this one .

With out Pixies guardians and ( usually neurotypical ) caregivers , support staff , doctors , etc , Pixie would die *horribly* .

And . Also . A very big majority of ( low support needs ) autism people that Pixie have actually met in person want Nothing at all to do with Pixie , specificly because Pixie too disabled ( by autism ) .

This reads dangerously close to “ aspie supremacy “ ideas . And . Pixie feel kind of really awful about it …

[five-thousand-loaves-of-bread]

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[birdofmay]

Yes!

I always say that if there were only autistic, we'd set each other's sensory triggers off 24/7 and that's just it.

I'd also die because I can't be around most low support needs autistics and medium support needs autistics and higher usually can't care for me properly

[probuccalfat]

[queercripintersex]

I will never forget how post-9/11 the Sikh community where I live took a strong stance that the only appropriate response to being mis-targetted by islamophobia is to fight islamophobia as though they were Muslim, rather than to educate people that Sikhs are not Muslim.

[therapatical]

the constant, patronizing drive to remind transmascs not to be misogynistic is itself a type of microaggression & tbh not a lot of people are ready to hear that yet

[intersexcat-tboy]

People need to understand that the "99% of rapists are males" is bc most places do not see someone with penis being forced to penetrate as rape. Countless countries define rape as a penis entering vagina, a penis penetrating, or a man[...].

I'm not going to go onto a whole rant citing numerous studies that are over a decade old that have obviously shown us for a while that men's sexual victimization and exploitation experiences are more common than society tries to lead us to believe. I just wanted to share this.

Researchers have gathered data "suggesting that not measuring this type of victimization may dramatically underestimate the extent of men’s sexual victimization"

The "data also suggest[s] women’s perpetration of forced penetration is fairly common and in need of specific preventative efforts"

From: The Assessment of Forced Penetration: A Necessary and Further Step Toward Understanding Men’s Sexual Victimization and Women’s Perpetration (link)

[this-is-trans-joy]

Hey I’m the angel on your shoulder, you should make that character trans. I don’t care what kind of trans, just make them trans. Yeah, that one too. Maybe even all of them, have we considered this.

[this-is-trans-joy]

No, you’re right actually. I’m the angel on your shoulder and I want to see more intersex characters. I want to see more transfemmasc characters. It is always correct to make your characters intersex, remember this.

[egot1stical]

I, aromantic, follow this very devoted self shipper I like the art of on Twitter. I have only now realised that my profile picture is the character they self ship with … on top of an aromantic flag.

I can’t help but envision appearing in their notifications constantly like this and laughing

[noxidae]

[ID: Doodle comic. A person presents their art, saying, “Here’s art of me and a character I love dating!” OP gives them a thumbs up while wearing a shirt with a stick figure on the aro flag captioned “I think this guy doesn’t want you like that”. End ID.]

[this-is-linguicism]

this may be deemed a hot take but it needs to be said:

out of all 7000+ languages in the world, there is not a SINGLE one that doesn't deserve to be protected. from english to the languages on the brink of complete extinction. from the north pole to the south pole. the right to speak or learn your native/heritage language is a human right, regardless of what country you're from or what your opinions are. there is no language that is 'better' than another and i will fight tooth and nail to make sure that as many languages and dialects as possible are preserved until my final breath.

the death of a language is the death of millions of voices throughout history. a language goes extinct every two weeks, and it's alarming how few people are concerned about that on this site.

if you disagree with this, please leave now.

[this-is-linguicism]

traducción al español: (no soy hablante nativo, por favor corrijan mis errores)

de los 7000+ lenguas del mundo, no hay ni una sola que no merezca ser protegida, desde el inglés hasta las lenguas al borde de la extinción total. desde el polo norte hasta el polo sur. el derecho de hablar o aprender su lengua materna/lengua del patrimonio es un derecho humano, sin tener en cuenta su país de origen o sus opiniones. no hay una lengua 'mejor' que otro y lucharé con uñas y dientes para asegurarse de que se conserven el mayor número de lenguas y dialectos posible hasta que mi último aliento.

la muerte de una lengua es la muerte de millones de voces a lo largo de la historia. una lengua se extingue cada dos semanas, y me alarma que muy poca gente se preocupa por eso en este sitio de web.