guiltfreak

he/it, adult icon: Baba is You plush, of a nondescript white quadruped with beady eyes. It has an aromantic background. header: Yellow-and-black striped walkway.

[noxidae]

Hi I’m nox idae welcome to my bog

Warnings tagged #word or #word tw. I tag #eyestrain and #flashing lights. Complaining is tagged #(nox neg), personal stuff is #vent.

I’m pro-endo, if you don’t know what that means, don’t worry about it. I’m also uncomfortable with ships of adults/kids or incest.

[breezybeej]

Bunny from psycho

[breezybeej]

You agree

[noxidae]

[ID: Two pictures of the rabbit plush on Norman Bates’s bed. The bed is rumpled and hasn’t changed since his childhood. The plush has an undefined expression and a ribbon around its neck. End ID.]

[noxidae]

i feel like we could make bunny from psycho a character tag on ao3 at this point

[noxidae]

[noxidae]

people are so stupid about DNI lists. sure, i agree, "racists dni" is completely unhelpful, but for more niche positions like-- throws four darts at a board-- "BSFD fans DNI", the point is putting down a line. it's easy enough to hop the fence, but the existence of a barrier is meant to be a deterrent, a filter, not a magic ward.

[godlessondheimite]

In 2026, the chicest thing a gay actor can do is never explicitly come out as gay but also make it abundantly clear that he is. Coming out is too modern. Staying closeted is too old fashioned. But this method merges contemporary freedom with Old Hollywood glamour and allure, and it weeds out the dumbest people who truly don’t get it. I call it the Pascal Method.

[nobodys-odyssey]

Taylor Swift does this

[godlessondheimite]

no she doesn’t

[nobodys-odyssey]

You clearly don't go here or to queer history and signaling, or both, enough to have this conversation and I'm not going to explain it to you. You could have asked questions, you could have done even a modicum of research. You didn't and you made yourself look ignorant. Goodbye.

[sugary--sheep]

I do think most childhoods are pretty traumatic just, by default. even run of the mill taking your shit, grounding you, setting strict rules (which would be absurd for an adult) style parenting. Physical and sexual violence on top of that is more fuel to the fire, and certainly contributes a heavy mental load, but children are fundamentally not treated like people by most of the world. They're an investment; a form of useful property that might someday become an endebted human being. This is the context under which all child abuse occurs; but the context itself is rather deplorable, don't you think?

[grntaire]

breaking my silence. it is insane that a marriage is more celebrated than earning a degree.

[noxidae]

books were never bad in the past but now they are because this generation is uniquely stupidAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[noxidae]

stop talking about modern books like they're uniquely awful. all books are ontologically evil.

[nightlight-selfships]

Imagine your f/o hugging you from behind, their chest pressed to your back. They rest their head on top of yours, on your shoulder, next to your own, whichever you prefer / choose.

[noxidae]

books were never bad in the past but now they are because this generation is uniquely stupidAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

[a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay]

have you ever had a beef with a teacher/prof

yes

no

hard to say

results

Voting ended on4h

[fleetn-crab85]

happy pride month to “Never Will I Marry” from Greenwillow the musical

[yesornopolls]

i just watched a video where i realised that somebody says that you "need to know a person to have a crush on them", know being some version of "we've had conversations together and have interacted irl"

do people need to know somebody else to have a crush on them?

yes/no

Do people need to know somebody else to have a crush on them?

Yes

No

Remaining time: 6 days 22 hours

[tennas-t-v-time]

every time a deltarune fan says "delusional" instead of "in denial"

[tennas-t-v-time]

If you keep misusing words like “delusional” or “narcissistic” or “psychopath” youre going into the creek

[tennas-t-v-time]

Okay actually I've been meaning to like. Make a diagram of this situation to word it better. My only disclaimer is the third example could also literally not even be a delusion and just... Be Tenna getting tricked, but either way it still can count!

BE THE CHANGE 🫵 MAKE FANDOM AND OVERALL GENERAL INTERNET NICER FOR DISABLED PEOPLE 🫵 NOW!!!

[tennas-t-v-time]

Okay, one more addition because I made that part at like 4 am and I wanted to make a few things more clear and explain delusions better:

Thank you guys for sharing ect, btw! It's nice to see people caring about this subject. I know we're all here to play with our toys but it's best we remember these types of things so we can all have more fun together! Have a nice day :)

[nova-alien-brainrot]

this is REALLY important to me as someone who has both NPD and BPD. i very often see people using narcissistic or delusional as insults and it drives me ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NUTS.

narcissistic does not mean Evil Bad Abusive Person. delusional does not mean Crazy Stupid Person With Bad Opinions. dealing with things such as narcissism or psychosis can and will absolutely ruin your life. and i mean, DECIMATE it. that's not to say other people won't be affected either, but the sufferer is the one who has it the worst. do not use words unless you actually know the meaning behind them, and who is impacted.

i should note that there are various different types of delusions, and the way to handle them depends on which specific type they are. persecutory delusions, characterized by believing someone is out to get the person in some way, may require you to be even gentler than normal in your approach due to that extreme paranoia (very common in BPD). but something such as somatic delusions characterized by thinking something is physically wrong with oneself can require a different approach.

generally speaking, the way to handle delusions is to validate the feelings caused by the delusion, without feeding into the delusion itself. this can show up as you saying "it sounds like this is really upsetting you, can you tell me about it?" this helps the person feel seen without having their delusions worsen. obviously this is not an end-all-be-all statement, but you should keep this general sentiment in mind when interacting with someone experiencing a delusion.

dealing with things such as narcissism, psychosis, psychopathy, and more is actual hell on earth which i would never wish upon my worst enemy. please be mindful of the language you use to describe people/characters because there ARE real people out there who are affected by these things. i am one of those people, as are many others.

if someone out there actually takes the time to read this, i hope you learned something! i work as a therapist and am getting my master's in clinical social work, so feel free to ask me any questions you may have about this stuff! remember to be kind <3

[tennas-t-v-time]

EXTREMELY good read into this, thank you so much! I especially appreciate the view from folks w NPD as well(and people in the psychology field that actually care for mentally ill people!!), and it’s great seeing the clinical terms and a deeper look into the specifics! Extremely valuable, tysm!

[tennas-t-v-time]

Sorry that I'm adding another addition four months later- but this also has really been bothering me. I'd say it's incredibly annoying at best to see people referring to a canonically true thing as a "delusion". It's not! Spamton is meant to LOOK delusional to other people in game, but he isn't!

I think content where he has psychosis in some way is interesting, but it often hinges on the idea that something canonically true is what he's "psychotic" about. When it isn't. It can for sure trigger some other type of psychosis, don't get me wrong! Like him acting religious about it for sure could be something else, but it also could just be the fact that he's praying to an eldritch being. We don't know!

The point of this post isn't to go "this character is delusional but this character isn't". It's just asking "hey, you should do your research before you use words about mental health willy nilly or claim something!"

[gwensy]

woah pjackk deactivated

[gwensy]

and on the 72nd day he rose again

[gwensy]

and on the 72nd day they killed him again

[suncaptor]

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