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I wish i could have back that one wonderful week where i was completely at peace with not being a real person. Before the Everyone Is Better Than You brainworms came back...
BREAKING NEWS: this guy is somehow allowed into heaven
âi love being aromanticâ i say as i feel my chest cavity rotting from the inside at the unquenchable desire for love in a way that is truly a secret third thing but its not a secret i want to keep it is a secret nobody is willing to listen to and im trapped in a state of isolation of my own making because no matter how much love i have to give it will never be enough. it will never be enough. it will never be enough.
tumblr marxist who never actually learned what material analysis is: yeah trans men belong to the male class so they have male privilege. itâs just common sense. their material conditions are the same as cis menâs because they are both men. obviously. materially they are the same as cisgender men. the logic behind men = privileged so trans men = privileged is rooted in real world analysis of what trans menâs lives are like and is not purely based on categorizing identity. i am not just using marxist buzzwords. read whipping girl.
so this post was about the misuse of marxist terminology in discussions about transandromisia but aside from that honestly i think a lot of this logic boils down to subconsciously assigning the category of âmaleâ/âmenâ this default cisgender and perisex quality.
this idea of a âmanâ is not expansive and does not include what this can look like outside of the cis and perisex norm: it comes with a connotation that implies manhood ought to be and both preferably and typically is imposed and perceived consistently, unmistakably visible externally, and lacking complexity. âmenâ as a whole in these discussions is referring to the class whose manhood is assumed to be non-queer.
itâs not that trans men* arenât being counted as men as a gender - at least within these discussions. itâs just that the default state of âmanâ as a group and as a class is cisgender and perisex, and trans men are a special type of men that extend the category, rather than a natural part of the group that belongs without saying.
*and transmascs; thereâs an added layer of misgendering and exorsexism to this where more complex identities are stripped away in order to be measured against the patriarchy in a way that makes sense according to binary feminism.
like, for example. male privilege. as i said in the tags, itâs not an amorphous concept thatâs gone without specific examples. feminists have clearly defined male privilege as not only âprivilege that men are granted and women are not,â but there are plenty of examples that anyone can name and that are conveniently omitted in these conversations: lower rates of sexual and domestic violence, higher income and career opportunities and respect in general, social dominance, good media representation, societal sympathy and benefit of the doubt, access to reproductive healthcare; <- YOU DO NOT NEED TO GOOGLE THESE THINGS. you also do not need to be an expert in transmasc issues to know that these privileges are not afforded to transgender men and mascs as a group.
and the easy explanation for this is that trans men, under the cisheteropatriarchy, are not viewed as men, and are not granted the benefits that are supposed to come with manhood. and this exception is the same exact one that is made within cisgender and transandromisic feminist discussions - trans men are an exception to manhood.
the âmaleâ in male privilege refers to cisgender men. the concept and model we currently have of male privilege is cisnormative because historically feminism has been cisnormative - the fact that these privileges donât apply to trans men is proof of this! transfeminism and transmasc theory need to expand this model, thatâs a given. thatâs something that we can and should all do.
transgender men = men = privileged logically does not work because the middle, unspecified âmenâ is really referring to cisgender men. itâs not manhood as the expansive and fluid category that it is, itâs men as they are counted within cisgender feminist framework and as they are counted within male privilege.
the fact that it even needs said in these discussions that trans men belong to the overall category of men is proof of this. the insinuation is that trans men donât naturally belong to this group, that trans men arenât obligated to it in the same way that cisgender people are.
your queer feminist theory needs to include transmascs, including trans men. this isnât men talking over women or men making it about themselves; stop pretending like thatâs punching up when trans men are both seen by the vast majority of people, including feminists, as tranny freaks and mentally ill women. the definition of man, male, and manhood must include transgender men and mascs from the beginning, and with no room for misinterpretation. leaving the implication that transmascs are exempt unspoken is both dangerous and plainly misgendering.
Group of Austrolopithecuses kidnapped Crag's buddy Grog. Filthy stinking ape-men drag Grog into they unholy lair and smash Grog's head in with a rock. His blood pour down crudely made stone altar and taint the beautiful stream of water that valley downstream drink from. Could hear Grog scream in agony, then the cold heavy thud of a stone slamming down.
Oh well! Crag can make other friends
I feel like people struggle to understand that my life as an aorace person is not centered around an absence of relationships. There is no romance shaped void that I am trying to live with, or live around, or which my life's purpose is to fill somehow.
I go to university and I go to work and I volunteer in my community and in the in-between moments I drink tea with my friends and I plant tomatoes on my balcony and there is no need for anything else. There is no room for anything else anyway.
When I am asked how I deal with 'the hole in my life' or what I do with 'all my free time', I know these questions are not about me at all. They are a reflection of the person asking.
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Wenn der Wein so Arsch ist, dass Frau Holle höchstpersönlich meint "SchĂ€tzchen wie wĂ€rs wenn du einfach KlöĂe machst, ja?"
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For me quoiromanticism is the third path between romantic and aromantic but still distinct from being greyromantic.
And its not *just* "cant tell the diffence between platonic and romantic"
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