Hello!
I'm here today because I need to ask for help, I'm giving a bit of life update for context (or full context if you didnt know me), but yeah I'd really love if you could take a few moments of your time to read, and consider whether or not you can and are willing to offer me financial support in the realms of what's possible for you. If not, I hope you can at least consider a reblog, though a reblog is welcomed even if you do help me financially!
If you don't know me, storytelling and writing is in my lifeblood, I do it out of love for my ideas, sharing for the sake of those that will enjoy what I have to share, which is why I chose to be indie (not let anyone else "control" or "rule" my passion) and also to share my works for free. I share online (site: chriscassar.carrd.co , note that I mean to revamp how it looks like, but the url will still be the same) and I simply set up Ko-Fi, Patreon and Paypal for those that wish to support me financially in my journey. You can follow the links directly now if you want, but I advise to read the rest of the post, for the context but also for the "gift for gift" option if you do end up supporting me financially!
(I also say it at the end, but I'm putting that part here too: For the support, any amount is welcomed. I'm making this a one time post I'll reblog from times to times, but if you're curious to keep an eye on me, and/or offer regular support, you can follow my indie writer blog (chriscassarcentral) and/or bookmark the pages you want to remember to check! )
Context
I started with fictional writings, but expanded into non-fiction, I'm working on two major projects (one for each domain), and a possible third secret project (too soon to truly decide if it'll happen or not, although I do want to make it happen if I can). In parallel to that, I'm a caretaker for my mother, which mean I had to learn to balance out caring for her, working on my writings, and self-care. For the past year or so, I've got more on my hands because my mom and I offered to house my datemate (my polyam way of calling someone I'm dating who isn't yet a life partner in my head). He has a son who is little, and it's not always easy, especially as it's gotten a bit harder for three adults and a little kid to live under the same roof (that isn't big enough to give everyone their own "proper space"). We do get along well, but it's just not an easy situation. I say that because its been affecting my ability to work on my ideas and projects, as well as pop online, but eventually, I'll find my footing, and I'll be less quiet online~!
Now, the reason I'm reaching out for help is because my personal financial situation is changing. I'm lucky enough to be housed by my mother, and that her and my brother are very supportive. I'm not going to be kicked out, and we aren't going to be without money. However, I had a financial aid from the government (not enough to sustain myself, but enough to participate in food expenses and have finances in my own name), which until recently, hadn't caused me issue. It's subjected to a contract in relation to "justifying" you fit the criteria to be given the aid, but until now, the people I had to meet to sign the contract wrote down I was a caretaker as well as an indie writer, that neither gave me a "proper income to sustainn myself" and that was that. The contract was signed, this was enough to justify the aid, and me having it added some breathing room to our finances.
I think you can see where I am going. The justification isn't working anymore. It's not enough in their eyes anymore than I'm a caretaker as well as an indie writer. I was told about figuring out a part time activity to "mollify the superiors" so I can keep the aid. This mean adding a third activity into my life, which takes away time and energy for the ones I'm already doing, but here's the thing: I wouldn't earn more. They literally want me to work a third activity for the same amount of money they were giving before.
We spoke with my mother, and we decided this is not worth it. I care too much about her well-being, I care too much about my writings and what I'm doing with my life. I'm not going to risk either to "mollify" those that decided whether or not to give this aid. I'm also so damn angry because I'm lucky enough I can tell "no thank you", because I can't help thinking of all the people who have asked this aid and cannot refuse signing the contract if the conditions aren't working out for them. All the people who might end up following paths they aren't really wanting to do, just because they need the aid and don't have the support to say no to what feels unfair to them and/or doesn't fit them.
So if it wasn't clear: I said no. They still want to see me next week, supposedly they game me time to think about it. But I know I'll say no. The moment I decided, I realized how badly I had been feeling due to the constant need to justify myself to whoever I was meeting to keep the aid. And I realized I wanted genuine support. I had fogotten why my works are free to access: I wanted to work solely with genuine support given freely. So I'm going to say no, my family and I are going to support each other. And in that same spirit, I'm asking for support.
Supporting me&Gift for gift option
If you can and are willing to, the biggest support you can give is monthly, which I receive via Patreon.
In the spirit of giving freely and receiving from freely given support, but still showing gratitude for monthly support, the perks I give on Patreon are previews and early access. You get a bonus from monthly support, you're the first to see new stuff, but eventually it gets shared publically, so I stay true to my wish to give freely my works. Note that I had revamped my Patreon at one point, but haven't had anything to share since then, but I plan to "revive" it properly when I'll have new things to share!
If monthly isn't going to be for you, but you still wish to support me, Ko-Fi works for one-time giving, though you can use Paypal directly, too.
I've been doing "gift for gift" whenever I ask for help, which is not a commission because you aren't paying for a service, you're gifting me support, and you can choose not to ask, but if you ask, I can gift you something in return for the help. I've been considering making it a permanent thing, whether it's via Patreon or Kofi/Paypal, that anyone who gives me financial support, can ask for a little gift.
I'll see about whether or not I do a permanent "gift for gift" option, how it'll be if I do, but either way, right now, I'm open to gifting you something if you choose to support me on Patreon and/or Kofi and/or Paypal. I can do writings (fandom, original, fiction, non fiction), and another thing I can do is card reading (guidance). This is to give an idea of what I know I can do, but you can just ask if you're not certain or have another idea in mind, and I'll tell you if I can! In the same way, the length, etc, we'll just discuss everything together for your gift!
For the support, any amount is welcomed. I'm making this a one time post I'll reblog from times to times, but if you're curious to keep an eye on me, and/or offer regular support, you can follow my indie writer blog (chriscassarcentral) and/or bookmark the pages you want to remember to check!
Thank you for you time, no matter what you do after, it means a lot you took the time to read ♥

























