Chriss2847

Okay, where to begin... My name is Christina Blonda and I am 30 years old. I have 3 pets: 2 cats plus one that I had adopted a few years or so ago. Also a mom to a 5 year old son—he is the cutest and I love him lots. He will be 6 years old this November. 👶🏻😊😍 The cats I have are both brother and sister: the male is named Cookie and the female is named Smokey. The third cat that I have adopted is named Razzmatazz but I just call him Razz for short, haha. I’m also a member of a group called Toastmasters and I have been a member for 7-ish years now and it’s been helping me out quite a bit. I still have a long way to go but slowly I’m gaining back some of the confidence that I had lost before. On another note: I’m also excited to say that my son will be going into grade 1 this year and I’m excited to see what new things will have in store for him in September! He’ll have a new teacher but he’ll be seeing most of his friends that he met during the first two years of kindergarten, and I’m hoping he’ll do well this year. :) He does have some issues to work through but eventually(with some help), he’ll be able to overcome those issues and continue to live the best life possible! :)

[chriss2847]

Hey guys...it’s been a while since I made my last post. So to start, just gonna post a song lyric on here that I’ve been liking lately so...here you go: 👇🏻 😊

i_o & Lights Lyrics

"Annihilation"

Tell me why you hurt me

What's your fascination?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you need love

For the entertainment?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

Tell me what the point is

In over complication

You leave and then you're coming back again

I'm running out of patience

I'm so in love with loneliness

And I fucking hate it

Nothing seems to burn me like you do

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you hurt me

What's your fascination?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you need love

For the entertainment?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you hurt me

What's your fascination?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you need love

For the entertainment?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

I was alone when I felt your touch

And it took me back again to the edge of my mind

I was alive when I wanted to die

That was where you left me but I kept coming back every time

Tell me why you hurt me

What's your fascination?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

Tell me why you need love

For the entertainment?

Come and bring your body to me

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

I crave annihilation

#i_oandlights #lyrics #song #annihilation #love #awesome #happy

[chriss2847]

#dontliveinthepast #liveinthefuture #historyisonlyhistory #historydoesntdefinepeople #needselfgrowth #selflove #selfrespect #moveforward

[chriss2847]

I do apologize for what I have posted earlier(throwing nail clippers at the cat). Was mainly blowing off some steam but didn’t realize that someone had seen it from another social media outing. It obviously made the person feel hurt and just downright super pissed off at me for it. It was a very stupid thing for me to say such a thing like that and for that reason, this WILL be my last post for a while...until things cool down at least...however long that’ll be. I am so very, very, very, very, very, sincerely sorry for what I have posted, it was wrong and I take full responsibility for my stupid actions. I also won’t be making any other social posting for a while, either. Not on Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram. I’m sorry but until things cool down, I won’t be around so much for a while. I guess this is goodbye for now until next time. Bye. 👋🏻

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Learning to Love Yourself

We tend to focus on looking for love, hoping for love, and waiting for love. Yet if we look to others to meet that basic need then we’ll always be empty and unfulfilled.

That is, for others to love us in a healthy way, we must first be able to nurture ourselves … and to love and honour who we truly are. The steps below can help you work towards this goal.

1. Decide to treat others with love and respect: As you seek to bring joy into others’ lives you’ll find that they repay you with kindness and love.

2. Practice random acts of kindness: “Play it forward” by doing random thoughtful things. That will turn you into someone you respect yourself – and you’ll also find that others are more generous to you.

3. Let go of the past: What happened in the past is merely history now. Today is a new day, and you are starting a new page. Let go of disappointments, hurts and any grievances you hold against yourself, other people – or the world!  

4. Forgive yourself: We all make mistakes, or we regret some bad decisions. Don’t ridicule, berate or criticise yourself for that. Instead, forgive whatever happened, and give yourself a break. It simply means you’re human – and are not infallible.

5. Practice positive self-talk: Write down and repeat affirming statements and truths … like “I am gifted” … or “I’m a true and loyal friend”. Post these statements on the mirror and repeat them to yourself.

6. Think through what you really want in life – You can carve out your own path and you choose your own destiny. Your life is a gift and you can choose what you will do.

7. Be persistent: Work wholeheartedly at loving yourself. If you’ve suffered in the past then be compassionate. Be ready to acknowledge and work through your pain. You deserve that respect – and it will help to set you free.

8. Celebrate your accomplishments: It’s easy to ignore or to downplay what we have done – but don’t be blind to your successes and accomplishments. They ought to be acknowledged as they’re part of who you are.

9. Think of someone you want to be like and emulate them: Doing that will build those qualities into your life as well – so it is easier to like, love and accept yourself.

10. Be yourself and trust yourself: Be true to yourself – and don’t care what others think. Learn to trust your instincts and to follow your own heart. Also, learn it’s OK to say “no” and to do your own thing … And you don’t have to feel guilty for not pleasing everyone.

11. Don’t compare yourself to others: Every person on the planet is different and unique. We all have different talents and different histories. Discover who YOU are and then invest in being you!  

 12. Work on receiving love: When someone pays you a compliment or tries to show you love, don’t quickly brush it off – but try and see it as a gift. That is, a gift that shows you’ve value and are loved, and loveable.

[chriss2847]

Most of these things here is what I should try to really work on for myself. :)

[chriss2847]

Reblogging because I can

[chriss2847]

Need a new start for the new year or just before the new year? Just throw away any trash that’s come across your life. You don’t need any of it, because it’s all TRASH and it’s been sitting around for too long to not even giving a shit lol. Just throw it away and start off fresh after the new year...or before. Your pick! :D Have a safe and happy new year everyone!! :D

[chriss2847]

“Shout Out To My Ex” Lyrics by Little Mix

"Shout Out To My Ex"

This is a shout out to my ex

Heard he in love with some other chick

Yeah yeah, that hurt me, I'll admit

Forget that boy, I'm over it

I hope she gettin' better sex

Hope she ain't fakin' it like I did, babe

Took four long years to call it quits

Forget that boy, I'm over it

Guess I should say thank you

For the "hate yous" and the tattoos

Oh baby, I'm cool by the way

Ain't sure I loved you anyway

Go 'head, babe, I'mma live my life, my life, yeah

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never bring me down

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never, you'll never bring me down

Oh, I deleted all your pics

Then blocked your number from my phone

Yeah yeah, you took all you could get

But you ain't getting this love no more

'Cause now I'm living so legit (so legit)

Even though you broke my heart in two, baby

But I snap right back, I'm so brand new, baby (I'm so brand new)

Boy, read my lips, I'm over you, over you

Guess I should say thank you

For the "hate yous" and the tattoos

Oh baby, I'm cool by the way

Ain't sure I loved you anyway

Go 'head, babe, I'mma live my life, my life, yeah

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never bring me down

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man (You're really quite the man)

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never, you'll never bring me down

You'll never bring me down

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I'm

All the way up, I swear you'll never, you'll never bring me down

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man (You're quite the man)

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never bring me down (You'll never bring me down)

Shout out to my ex, you're really quite the man

You made my heart break and that made me who I am

Here's to my ex, hey, look at me now, well, I (you just look at me now)

I'm all the way up, I swear you'll never, you'll never bring me down

You'll never bring me down

#shoutouttomyex #lyrics #littlemix #you’llneverbringmedown #takingbackmyconfidence #feelinggratefulagain #needtomoveon #letgoofthepast #focusonthepresent #neverlosemyselfonthepast #needtogrowupansbestrong #icandothis #:)

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[hexingkyriachy-deactivated20200]

Man

gay porn is something else

[morbidlizard]

I’m crying they all look so happy

[zumbadorcito]

I CAN’T BREATHE!!!

[tothemoon5]

Oh my god at first I thought this was gonna be an old spice commercial

[chriss2847]

New posting...sort of.

Sorry guys, I haven’t posted in a while and it’s been a long time since I made my last post. Anyways, I’ll just get right to it: As of the last few months or so I found out that I was expecting a little boy. My second ex at the time wants nothing to do with the kid—he wanted for me to either have an abortion or have the kid adopted out. That’s NOT happening as I am keeping my child and raising him on my own, along with some help from my family. I’m very fortunate enough to have all the love and support from my family and friends and that’s all I could ever ask for. :) I am 37 weeks but I’m also due next month on the 2nd. However, I can be due at anytime between now and then. I just hope that I can last long enough to go to my appointments, haha.

Another thing, too: I’ve come to realize that some guys out there are just plain JERKS. If I can make it out before having to be single from my first ex(who I’ve now become friends with again, which is fine with me)...I can definitely do it again being a single mom for a good LONG while. Because having to raise my son is MORE IMPORTANT than needing some guy around helping me out. Okay, yeah it’s nice to have a guy around. But I have more IMPORTANT factors in my life right now and I don’t NEED a guy in my life to help take care of a kid. I don’t have time for that nonesense. All I have left to be is to be strong and knowing that whatever the future will hold for me, just to embrace it as it is. I know I can do this and I know that I’ll be strong enough to overcome anything that comes in my way and I need to show my little boy that it’s okay sometimes to make mistakes in life. But at the end of the day, just have to pick yourself back up again and just keep trying and to NEVER give up! :) Perserverence pays off when you don’t give up trying over and over again. And that’s the truth! :D

#single #singlemom #dontneedguys #friendshipiswhatmatters #verysoontobemom #unbornbabyboy #babyboy #perserverencepaysoff #livelifetothefullest #happy #strong #confident #dontbeafraidtobeyourself #bewhoyouare #behonestwithyourself #loveyourself #selflove #takecareofyourself #beabetteryou #deservebetterthanthat #caring

[chriss2847]

I finally got my game that I had pre-ordered a few months back! :D I'm excited to start playing it!! :D

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My cat Smokey trying to get at a cursor on my computer all the while of me moving it up and down a little. 😸 #sillygirl #toocuteandfunny #catprobs😸

[chriss2847]

So this happened earlier today: my dad comes home from work and tells me to go get a box that's sitting on top of the freezer. To my surprise I found this sitting on top of it! I was more surprised and if anything, excited to have gotten this. However, it's not exactly new...it is slightly used. So, this Smart-board that I now have has belonged to someone before me and my dad had got it for me. I am so happy and grateful that he went out of his way to surprise me with something like this! Be it to say that it's a very late bday gift...but I would like to think that perhaps it could also be a very early Christmas gift, too lol. Thank you @oblonda for getting this for me, I have been wanting this for a good while now and I'm happy to have it! All that I'm missing now is some elbow pads, knee pads, wrist guards, and a helmet. I'll have to go out and buy those things before I eventually try out the board! :) #smartboard #latebirthdaygift #possiblyearlychristmasgift #lol #excited #happy #surprised #feelingloved #omg!! #:)

[chriss2847]

My cat Cookie laying on me being all cute. :3 #lovehim #sweetboy #catsofinstagram #mycat #sweetie

[chriss2847]

Just hanging out at a friend’s house all the while of me wearing @toxicraspberry’s(Raiya Kilby)cat ears headband! 😊😺 #catears #headband #cute #ilookcute #imacat #lol #funtimes

[chriss2847]

Lucy, though you were a lovely bird to have, you always were the first to greet in the morning while you did your chirping. I'm going to miss the way you used to do your cat calls and other little chirps that you had made. You were always loved by all, no matter how noisy or loud you got because of the excitement that was going on. Though unsure of what happened to you exactly, you are no longer suffering and can fly freely up in the sky. :( R.I.P., Lucy, we are all going to miss you dearly.

[maneljavier]

New Pokémon for Sun & Moon

[chriss2847]

I'm excited for these games to come out! I've heard about it for a while and I can't wait to get it! :D

[chriss2847]

A nice sunset and bonfire going over at a friend’s campsite over in Goulais Bay that I had went to last night and spent the night there with some good friends. :)

[chriss2847]

A nice sunset and bonfire going over at a friend’s campsite over in Goulais Bay that I had went to last night and spent the night there with some good friends. :)