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[i-enact-postvore]

You ever think about many peices of media have zero women and thats just perfectly normal but if a peice of media has an all female cast people get... like that? Women should be allowed to kill over this btw

[love-for-carnation]

Flowers in a Glass Vase, 1667 Jacob van Walscapelle (1644-1727, Dutch)

[stuckinapril]

“Do it scared” “do it alone” are all great tips, but my biggest takeaway from therapy is do it messy. This is especially true if you’re getting out of a burnout, which I experience often. Literally just do it messy. You don’t need to pick the perfect trail to walk, the perfect playlist to listen to, whatever the fuck it is. You don’t need to have a meticulous to do list and wake up at the exact time you planned and drink the exact amount of water you planned to drink. Like the biggest thing for people like me to remember is sometimes it’s okay to do it messy. Put on a random yt workout and just get it done in sweats. Do 5 minutes of a daunting task and go from there. Sometimes just getting up is a win during intense burnouts or depressive funks. Literally just do it messy.

[spaceboytoy]

Hello bisexual community

[spaceboytoy]

Begin killing

[tartrazeen]

[pmamtraveller]

"Sweeping Off the Male Gaze" by Japanese illustrator Yuko Shimizu.

[saltoncity]

work tomorrow is one of the worst things that can happen to you

[clemmytinee]

choice feminists, choice anti capitalists, choice anti racists, choice abolitionists. the revolution will always start in some mythical tomorrow in the same way it’s a mythical labor force you exploit on a case by case basis, not the one that’s staring back at you. how utterly convenient

[vintagehomecollection]

[geniusbee]

these are getting weird

[onlinebeast]

Old Yeller just parried the bullet

[100493503004422]

thought this was a shitpost but it's actually a temu ad of stuff I guess they think people want. very disappointing

[clemmytinee]

okay one more because the sink was a good moment for them too

[clemmytinee]

i woke up thinking it was all heaven and I feel like everything wants to prove me right

[theelusiveemily-deactivated2024]

are you hoes on lol mode yet ?

[fforsythiaaa]

Once when I was in undergrad, someone described something as “problematic” in class and our professor was like, “That’s cool, but ‘problematic’ doesn’t really mean anything. It means that the thing you’re describing has a problem, and in and of itself that’s not bad. Art, especially, should always have problems, or else it’s not interesting and not art, either. It sounds like you’re trying to say that this is bad, but you don’t want to say ‘bad.’ Is that right?”

So from then on whenever one of us called something problematic, he would make us talk it out until we could name the “bad” thing we were hinting at. In this particular class, 7/10 it was some type of oppression, and the remainder was like, “I’m uncomfortable because this is very new/confusing/pushing boundaries that made me feel safe.”

Once we stopped calling things “problematic” and stopping at that, class got way more interesting and... we all had to say, like, “that’s racist” or “that’s misogynistic” or “ew capitalism gross” out loud, which a lot of us had never done in a classroom before. Or we had to be like, “Uhhh... I’m not sure what’s so bad?” and confront our own beliefs and that was maybe even more useful.

Anyway. Whenever I see the word problematic, I can’t help but think of this professor being like, “Good starting point, now let’s get specific.” I think when we have to commit to saying “that’s ___” it requires a lot more careful thought about the truth and impact and complexities of whatever we’re claiming. Sometimes there really is some bullshit afoot, and also sometimes it’s art, and it should be full of problems, because that’s what art is.

[komsomolka]

why is this so funny 😂

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happy pride 😢💕🫶🏽 im a Black nonbinary lesbian artist in recovery for some p severe trauma, please donate if you can so i can afford soup to take my meds on a regular basis while i get a lot of painful dental surgery and go through physical therapy c4$h4pp v3nm0 p4yp4l k0fi

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goal is soup, please help if you can my friend’s cat just threw up and we have to take her to the vet, still havent gotten to eat

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still on the bus to the vet er, havent got to eat, even $1 will help <3

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and i have more dental surgery at 9am 😭 genuinely feeling unwell

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we just got here and they said its $190 just for his cat to be examined!! they are also a Black nonbinary lesbian please please please if you can help please do i do not know what to do but i can ask for help

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just got home, his cant couldnt be seen bcs neither of us passed the credit check and couldnt pay out of pocket enough even combined for her to be seen. my friend has work tomorrow so ill have to try to take her somewhere to be seen after my dental surgery, please consider sharing even $1. i still havent got to eat. grateful for any help bcs truthfully im overwhelmed

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gm <3 have dental surgery and then i have to take her to the vet, please help if you can <3

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a ride to the vet is literally $50 both ways or two trains and a bus both ways, even $1 will help