clitpostbot

passionate misandrist & cringe meme maker

[clitpostbot]

oc (i make misandrist memes on ig)

[djuvlipen]

tonight at the political meeting we discussed women's rights and the patriarchy and the woman who was hosting said "some porn movies show a very distorted image of what sex is like but I don't want to vilify porn"... when I say my hands went STRAIGHT UP to Tumblr... I pulled open all of you gyns' anti porn masterposts then I went "why shouldn't we villify porn considering that 88% of porn scenes show explicit physical and verbal violence against women and are linked to prostitution?" she didn't reply but the other women in the room agreed and at the end I talked with one of them and we planned on organising anti-porn and anti-prostution formations/meetings 😎😎

[strvngevsvngels]

The best building in all of Manhattan

[jeunefillerangee-deactivated202]

Something that never ceases to amaze me is the difference in how women and men express their sexual attraction. Even when women use hypersexual language, they still retain a level of respect and admiration for the men they desire, and they still see them as more than objects of lust. But when men express their desires for women, it is almost always violent and dehumanizing. It's like their respect for a woman decreases the more they want to sleep with her. Female sexuality is the total opposite! The more we desire a man, the more we cherish him! And still we are told our sexuality is shameful, when in truth our desire is pure and beautiful.

[loser-tomboy-deactivated2024063]

I work in a male dominated field and at one point the dudes in my class were talking about sex. One man said his biggest dream is to "bang her mouth while another dude bangs her pussy". He follows up with "I would never be able to look at her the same though". I usually ignore everything these scrotes say unless it school work related for obvious reasons but that made my ears perk up. So I asked him why. He said "it seems so degrading". So I asked "so your ultimate fantasy is to do something degrading to a woman?" He didn't have anything to say about that

[shoobie-doowop]

remember in School of Rock where the black girl was afraid to say she wanted to be a singer because she was fat and didn’t want to get laughed at but Dewey was all “who gives a shit, I’m fat too and so is aretha franklin but we’re still valuable and we rock” and then the girl felt better without having to be told that beauty comes in all sizes or some other bullshit. thats the kind of body positivity I’m looking for. tell these babies that they’re worth a damn without tying it to any other arbitrary ideals

[bookshelfdreams]

Also like. when she asks him why he isn’t on a diet. and you just know she has heard this dumb “tip” a million times before (“just go on a diet!” “if you really apply yourself you can easily use x amount of weight!” “you just don’t want it enough!”)

& Dewey just

there’s nothing wrong! with liking food! and being hungry! you don’t need to starve yourself to fit into some bs aesthetic! eat food!

[genovianxprince]

Also that he cited a fat black woman singer specifically as it was the black girl who asked. gave her a direct representation of someone just like herself instead of citing anyone else

[ms-demeanor]

how do you find love?

You have to be willing to be hurt and trust people not to hurt you.

But also go out and do regular activities with people who share similar interests. I'm extremely unromantic in terms of how friendships and relationships are built. Go out and spend time with people who are into the same stuff that you are into and eventually you will probably find someone in that group who you are romantically compatible with and who is open to a relationship at the same time you are.

Like there are tons of jokes about various communities being insular and socially incestuous but, like, the reason improv groups have all dated each other is because they spend a lot of time together doing things they like and that's actually a pretty good foundation for a relationship.

Also, real talk: you have to be okay with being alone. You have to like yourself enough that it wouldn't be the end of the world if you were all you had. That is really difficult for a lot of people, but genuinely one of the ways to start liking yourself more is to go out and do things that you think fun and interesting people would do until you discover that you have tricked yourself into becoming a fun and interesting person.

But also take that with a grain of "I lucked into a long-term relationship at eighteen because I met someone cool at a coffee shop where I worked."

(however, being regulars at a coffee shop did legitimately used to be a way to meet people, I know lots of people who met at the coffee shops I worked at and found their partners there, but that's because coffee shops used to be the kind of place where people would go and hang out for hours after work every day and interact with new people and I'm not sure how much that's a thing anymore, which is why you have to manufacture it by, like, joining an adult kickball league or getting deeply involved in your local larping scene or whatever)

[ms-demeanor]

If you're so traumatized that you can't trust people then you SHOULDN'T be dating, you should be working on getting yourself to a place where you are able to trust people. You can do this by spending a lot of time in low-stakes interactions and building friendships and acquaintanceships with people who you aren't investing romantic interest in. Build trust with other people in a way that allows you some resilience if you do end up having your trust betrayed by a partner.

If you're mentally ill to the point that you believe you can't have interests or hobbies as a result of that mental illness, you ALSO shouldn't be dating, and should be working on getting to a place where you are interested in the world around you and can enjoy doing things for the sake of doing them.

It's not "nobody is going to want to date you if you don't have hobbies" it's "it is fucking terrible for you and for any potential partners if they are the only thing you have going in your life."

Those are really really good indicators that you *aren't* in a place where a relationship would be good for you. If that's where you are, you SHOULD be alone because you need to work on being okay with yourself.

"I'm so depressed that I can't have any hobbies" - my friend, you don't need someone beside you in the lifeboat, you need to start bailing out the lifeboat.

"I'm too traumatized to trust people" - then why on earth would you open yourself up to the potential for further abuse by trying to date people who are interested in a relationship with no trust?

"You have to love yourself before you can love someone else" is trite advice that I don't think is necessarily true, but you are not going to find good relationships if you are so alienated from yourself that you think you can't have *interests.*

[fearsomeandwretched]

I literally COULD NOT care less about middle schoolers making deep fake porn of their classmates being on the sex offender registry for life. Maybe actually facing consequences for their behavior once in their lives will set an example for their peers

[fearsomeandwretched]

So many teenage or pre teen girls are victimized by their peers who are boys in ways that leave a permanent impact on them, their self esteem, and their relation to sexuality and that's been fine for thousands of years. But boys finally actually having to face accountability for like the first time ever is just too much and we need mercy for these poor kids. Straight up fuck them. Girls have killed themselves after guy classmates made deep fake porn of them and spread it.

[stephenroot]

[kibblesandbitch]

Here’s something to chew on.

[coldasaslab]

about me.jpg

[whistlenotes]

honestly

[poesieplease-deactivated2020061]

In case you wanna read the article this quote is from: http://rolereboot.org/culture-and-politics/details/2016-05-daughter-know-ok-angry/

[cygnaut]

Adaptable girls find socially acceptable ways to internalize or channel their discomfort and ire, sometimes at great personal cost. Passive aggressive behavior, anxiety, and depression are common effects. Sarcasm, apathy, and meanness have all been linked to suppressed rage. Troublesome behaviors, such as lying, skipping school, bullying other people, even being socially awkward are often signs that a teenager is dealing with anger that they are unable to name as anger.

Girls, taught to ignore their anger, become disassociated from themselves.

Anger is so successfully sublimated that girls lose the ability to understand what it feels and looks like. Is her heart racing? Does she feel flushed or shaky? Does she clench her jaws at night? Is she breaking out in hives? Does she cry for no reason? Laugh inappropriately during difficult conversations? Fly off the handle over something that seems inconsequential? You can see where I’m going here…those crazy girl hormones, right? Better to just think of it as a phase.

For too many women, however, the phase never ends. It’s lives spent never expressing anger at all and believing that they don’t have the right or ability to do so without great risk.

[greenwire]

you can hardly blame a woman for not expressing her anger when the expression is likely to be at a great personal cost to her

[hjellacott]

[libracorpvs]

article here / archived here

[autismhotpot]

I DONt KNOW WHO NEEDS TO FUCKINg HEAR THIS

BUT JOAN OF ARC HAS NEVER BEEN AND NEVER WILL BE NON-BINARY

SHES THE OPTIMUS PRIME OF THE FEMALE CLASS, DONT YOU FUCKING DARE TAKE AWAY OUR ONE AND ONLY TRUE PROPHET

[cyberthot666]

it’s like they almost get it

[womenarehuman]

They're so close....

[radmadwoman]

some of the most insane mask-off comments on that tiktok (prepare for psychic damage):

“this is one of the reasons i’m non-binary. i cant handle the gender standards and stuff. i just wanna be a human, that’s it.”

“i’m a bit scared that that is the true reason i want to be nb. i’ll never be a pretty girl, but i could be a very handsome they/them”

“its bc the standards for women are so exacting and strict but nonbinary can be literally anything so as long as ur urself that is hot”

“ok so im gender fluid and i go by all pronouns and I've realized that when i don't look my best i usually go for he/him”

and my fucking favorite:

“if you feel ugly as a girl maybe it’s a sign that’s not your gender.”

all presented without a hint of self-awareness. hell world hell world hell world

[pusheen-the-radical]

also why the fuck is this completely nice looking woman calling herself ugly?? because she doesn’t look like an insta baddie/kardashian clone? HELL WORLD

[sisterfhood]

Men like to frame their most apathetic tendencies as a natural result of their superior logic, frequently positing that women are too emotional to make rational decisions. Let me make this clear: empathy makes people smarter. Compassionate people make smarter decisions. Humans evolved to feel strong emotions because THEY ARE NECESSARY FOR HIGHER LEVEL COGNITIVE PROCESSING. If we didn’t feel guilt, rage, sadness, love, and every other feeling we quite simply wouldn’t have come this far as a species. The human brain would never have evolved. We have this in common with other highly intelligent animals such as apes, whales, and elephants. They grieve powerfully, and form significant social bonds that affect their decision-making. If anything the cultural restriction of male emotional development and the encouragement of male rage, jealousy, possessiveness, etc, just makes them (males) closer to beasts operating on the most animalistic of instincts.

[eve-was-framed]

I feel like the way ai is currently being used is one of the various things that completely shatters the incel argument that every woman on earth wakes up hoping they get an opportunity to falsely accuse a man of sexual assault or abuse.

If that were actually true we would have thousand upon thousands if not millions of cases of women using ai to try and frame men for crimes they didn’t commit. but we don’t have that.

but you know what we do have? thousands upon thousands if not millions of men using ai to sexually harass women and little girls.

[crazysodomite]

small talk? it was quite big to me. i love you

[brucefromfamilyguy]

[taehyunsleftshoe-deactivated202]

The radfems in the comments😍