parabatai are literally so insignificant in tmi and I know it's just bc the parabatai lore wasn't ever supposed to become as significant as it is now but it's kind of sending me regardless bc you're telling me that will and jem didn't even have to be doing all that?
Will & Jem and Jace & Alec are kinda like the two extremes of parabatai because while Will and Jem are doing the absolute most, Jace and Alec are winning the idgaf war. like they're ideal parabatai dynamic is pretending they're not parabatai. and the later books then go on to explain that their bond is Serious and Deep it's just that Jace acts like he's above everything & doesn't need anyone and Alec would rather dig his own grave then talk about his feelings
like I'm reading cols rn & it's takes Alec two weeks to explain to the others that his parabatai bond with Jace feels wrong after he disappears. and he only does it then because Clary asks him lmao
ok so what you're saying is basically it's a scale. like this
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