kowalsmith🐭

祝日 / Permanent Vacation
Monterey Bay Aquarium
dirt enthusiast
Stranger Things
todays bird
trying on a metaphor

Kaledo Art
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"

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will byers stan first human second

JVL
Alisa U Zemlji Chuda
One Nice Bug Per Day

shark vs the universe
Mike Driver
NASA
cherry valley forever
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hello vonnie
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kowalsmith🐭
gta logs
If I remember what I’ve drawn, I’ll post them later on 😔
Ideas to Show Secret Pining
"Why don't you join me?"
"I'll give you a ride, don't worry."
*does something they don't like* "What? I like it."
*immense staring at every chance they get*
*thinking of their crush while listening to songs*
"You said you liked it so I brought it for you."
*finds ways to spend more time with them*
*friendly bullying intensifies*
"I'm looking forward to seeing you there."
"Are you gonna be there?"
"How about we sneak off, just you and me?"
"Why don't I cook for them? What's their favourite dish again?"
*aggressive google searches about how to propose to your crush*
"I'll join those dance lessons, maybe then she'll notice me."
*hopeless around them*
*failed flirting attempts*
*increased compliments*
"My problem is that I like them a little too much for my sanity."
*gets jealous* "So, are you seeing them or something?"
"Are you okay?" // "Completely okay!" (definitely not okay)
*tries to sabotage their crush's date*
*gets into trouble so they can be scolded by their crush*
"I want you to come with me, please?"
-ashlee
Writing tips: He said, she said...
Readers don't tend to notice 'said', while it's there in the sentence, it doesn't give the sentence any life. It gets the job done, mostly...
Here are some options to try!
whispered / muttered / mumbled → soft or secretive
shouted / yelled / barked → anger, urgency
growled / hissed → danger, teasing, frustration
murmured / breathed → intimacy, vulnerability
snapped / barked / snapped back → irritation, defensiveness
laughed / chuckled / giggled → laughing, fun, playful or flirty
asked / questioned / queried / inquired → curiosity, questioning
demanded / insisted → authority or control
sighed / groaned → fatigue, exasperation, longing
When you're looking to replace said, think about why. You'll generally want to do this when you need the following:
when the tone of the line needs more context.
when you want to show emotion instead of telling it.
when your character’s body language, action, or expression can do the talking instead.
Take a look at the scene you're writing, is the character saying their line? Or are they yelling it? Screaming it? Are they enraged, or perhaps is their voice a broken whisper from grief?
That being said, you shouldn't always avoid using 'said.' It's easy to read in long sentences, and it keeps the focus on the dialogue rather than the rest of the scenes. That may be beneficial and a key component to parts of your story.
Lycèe Togainu no Chi trading cards (Ver.Nitroplus1.0 set, 2007).
keisuke it's almost like we're in a 2005 eroguro bl visual novel
Celebration of EROGROS anthology covers, volumes 1 through 5 ♡♡♡♡♡
Formatting tip for Ao3
Sharing this in case anyone else felt my pain. I used a variety of different text editors for my fics, but regardless, when I copied the final draft into the Ao3 text box and submitted it, there was an annoying extra space between paragraphs! So it made something
Like this
For example
Into something like this. Not as bad as this (holy cow) but close to it.
Tip: This works for Google Docs. Haven't tested it with others, but if you can find similar settings try it out. In the default new doc window, go up to the upper right under Line & paragraph spacing and choose Add space before paragraph. Also found under the Format menu. Then when you copy to Ao3, it'll have the correct paragraph spacing.
If this helped you, pass it along to others!
Smut dictionary bank (NSFW, 18+)
I’ve been compiling a smutwordlist and other handy tools, so I thought I’d share them in case they’re useful for other smutwriters💜
Tumblr resources:
The Smut Writer’s Dictionary by @maybeeatspaghetti
Smut Thesaurus [18+/NSFW] by @prurientpuddlejumper
smut guide by @iguessweallcrazyithinktho
A list of terms for smut by @thebleedtheory
Writing Smut 101: Overcoming Smut Shame by @slightlyrebelliouswriter23
🌈Is it okay for a straight writer to write smut for lgbtqia characters? Anonymous question answered by @thatspookyagent 🌈
🌈Gender Identity Resource List by @pocunion 🌈
🟡🟤⚫️Praising Beauty Without Fetishizing PoC Anonymous question answered by @writingwithcolor 🟡🟤⚫️
🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 1 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️
🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 2 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️
AO3 guides:
The Ultimate Guide to Writing Smut Fic by QuinnAnderson
The Fic Writer's Guide to Formatting by AnisaAnisa
The Fic Writer's Guide to Writing by AnisaAnisa
External articles/glossaries:
The Sexy Thesaurus 1
The Sexy Thesaurus 2
The Sexy Thesaurus 3
BDSM glossary
Dictionary of Sexual Terms
How to Write Smut
Here’s Your Everything-to-Know Guide on Erogenous Zones
🌈Gay Foreplay 101🌈
🌈Bottoming 101 🌈
🌈Gay Sex 101: A Comprehensive List of Queer Erotic Terms and Their Definitions🌈
🌈How to Write LGBT+ Characters🌈
TW->Thoughts on the Depiction of Rape in Fiction<-TW
Funny/Lighthearted:
70 Weird and Wacky Words for Vagina
A Definitive Ranking of 30 weird (And Funny) Words for Penis
If you have any recommendations please comment so I can include them!💜🤭
Also, please let me know if any of the sources I use are outdated, not working or problematic in any way so I can remove them or replace them💜
Last updated: September 2025
My masterlist
Smut dictionary bank (NSFW, 18+)
I’ve been compiling a smutwordlist and other handy tools, so I thought I’d share them in case they’re useful for other smutwriters💜
Tumblr resources:
The Smut Writer’s Dictionary by @maybeeatspaghetti
Smut Thesaurus [18+/NSFW] by @prurientpuddlejumper
smut guide by @iguessweallcrazyithinktho
A list of terms for smut by @thebleedtheory
Writing Smut 101: Overcoming Smut Shame by @slightlyrebelliouswriter23
🌈Is it okay for a straight writer to write smut for lgbtqia characters? Anonymous question answered by @thatspookyagent 🌈
🌈Gender Identity Resource List by @pocunion 🌈
🟡🟤⚫️Praising Beauty Without Fetishizing PoC Anonymous question answered by @writingwithcolor 🟡🟤⚫️
🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 1 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️
🟡🟤⚫️The skin tone guide part 2 by @writingwithcolor🟡🟤⚫️
AO3 guides:
The Ultimate Guide to Writing Smut Fic by QuinnAnderson
The Fic Writer's Guide to Formatting by AnisaAnisa
The Fic Writer's Guide to Writing by AnisaAnisa
External articles/glossaries:
The Sexy Thesaurus 1
The Sexy Thesaurus 2
The Sexy Thesaurus 3
BDSM glossary
Dictionary of Sexual Terms
How to Write Smut
Here’s Your Everything-to-Know Guide on Erogenous Zones
🌈Gay Foreplay 101🌈
🌈Bottoming 101 🌈
🌈Gay Sex 101: A Comprehensive List of Queer Erotic Terms and Their Definitions🌈
🌈How to Write LGBT+ Characters🌈
TW->Thoughts on the Depiction of Rape in Fiction<-TW
Funny/Lighthearted:
70 Weird and Wacky Words for Vagina
A Definitive Ranking of 30 weird (And Funny) Words for Penis
If you have any recommendations please comment so I can include them!💜🤭
Also, please let me know if any of the sources I use are outdated, not working or problematic in any way so I can remove them or replace them💜
Last updated: September 2025
My masterlist
Strawberry Delight
This is a light version of the Rasberry Delight skin.
The pink icons are from @zerafinacss, specifically found here on their ao3.
Another thing that would look good with this skin is this, which is also from @zerafinacss. If added, this is what the icons will look like:
heyo! could i request a cute lil pink mymelody skin (from hello kitty/sanrio) ? tia !!! 🩷
sure, no problem!
My melody Ao3 Skin
Replace the AO3 Icons 2.0
A while ago, I made a site skin that replaces all of the AO3 icons with new ones. I was pretty happy with it, but I wanted more options for changing the colors. So I made a new skin with customizable colors!
Here are previews of the three example color schemes I created (default, berry/reversi blue, and pink) in comparison to the old icons:
Almost all icon background colors (and a few other ones) can be changed to any color you want!
Find instructions for adding and customizing the site skin here on AO3:
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
EDIT (20 July 2025): I have added pink icons and updated this post accordingly.
clean pink + cream ao3 site skin
this is a super simple site skin that’s slightly more than just a recolor. i originally set out to create a skin that would get rid of that darn muted users notif and then found myself procrastinating fic writing by customizing a site skin lol
it should be fairly simple to recolor if you like the look but don’t want the pink (or cream), however, the icons are linked images and therefore a set color. so if you’re wanting to change that, the source code uses gray icons so you could refer there (linked below), or you’ll have to upload your own icon images and change the urls accordingly.
other features besides recolor:
-hides “you’ve muted users” notif (ty @ao3commentoftheday for sharing how to do that!)
-changes work stat labels to icons (code from @ao3skin, specifically Tide)
- makes buttons flat (ty to @ao3skin again for sharing how to this!)
skin is shared here w/ installation instructions :)
hello kitty ao3 skin
get the skin and learn how to install it HERE :)