NOTWHATSHERL

Bad at making posts, pansexual, non-binary, Rakdos/Izzet, >18, please pronouns me, basically just reblogs (but occasionally trying to post)

[cephalopodvictorious]

modern Snow White where instead of a magic mirror it's just an AI chatbot driving the stepmother insane because it's programmed to agree with her and confirm her fears

[fawnpalmer]

quarterly reminder that if i reblog something ai-generated it is 110% and always an accident and for the love of god please tell me so i can delete it from my blog

[puppetition]

all we will ever have is love. above everything, we *have* to love.. love until the end and past it, love no matter how late it starts, love.. eternal. love with every second we have left. love even those who dont have the words to say it. love will keep us together,, love will keep us alive.

[anglaised]

everytime u go outside ur spending $60 automatically its crazy $60 is the new $20

[pursebeer]

Stop buying food and coffee and make it at home. I'm begging everyone.

[anglaised]

ok well i filled up my car with gas and got cat food for my cats so idk how this applies to me also the “don’t buy coffee anymore” thing is rlly annoying from ppl acting like buying coffee is the reason ppl r struggling to keep purchases under 20 dollars instead of capitalism inflating prices for shareholders to buy another five houses like. eventually yall gotta stop doing the “no more avacado toast!” thing to ppl bc there is no budgeting that is enough to outrun inflation

[littlemut]

oh for sure

[pillowspace]

Just saw an AI generated image of a leaf sheep sea slug with AI generated information on it, don’t you dare AI generate my beautiful daughter ever again

[pillowspace]

[pillowspace]

(these photos are real) They have to put my daughter through AI because they can’t handle her true beauty

[antsday]

yk what i have thoughts about this. to me the whole convo re: "racebending" or, in more uncharitable terms, "blackwashing", reveals a lot about how people consider race to be functionally immutable. like people respond to edits/art of idk black hatsune miku as though something is being taken away by making her black, like it's somehow racist to portray her that way, as though it's simply not possible to be black and japanese. and people draw one to one comparisons with 'whitewashing' all the time, and ignoring the fact that whitewashing has an established history of harm that the inverse 'blackwashing' simply does not possess, the fact of the matter is that even in the abstract people don't think of these concepts the same way.

[browningtons]

Cock shame vs pussy facing the world

[riverlarking]

whenever i reblog a serious feminist post in the middle of silly things

[mustikkaotso]

please help a trans woman get back on hrt!!

i'm making this post on behalf of a trans woman named Pandora Holmes, who is currently being forcibly detransitioned while being held in a mental hospital. every day she spends there is dangerous for her.

please contact the hospital to help her!! the hospital location: Priory Woodbourne Hospital, Birmingham. hospital phone: [phone]. hospital email: [email protected]

her youtube channel where she posts updates can be found here

her paypal if you want to give her money

you can also send her letters and gifts while she's there. more information here

[klapollo]

at planned parenthood and they're playing regular show

[klapollo]

[cutecipher]

"dude if you don't get this abortion benson is gonna fire us"

[valtsv]

oh my god i almost forgot to tell you all about how, while my dad was visiting, i had an infestation of every single kind of bug in my house that hasn't been a problem before or since. like i'm not kidding i evicted so many creeping crawlies that week and couldn't for the life of me stop mosquitos from stealing my blood, but as soon as he left they vanished. and i mean, sure, there's a perfectly rational explanation, because two people make more mess than one and he has a habit of leaving the windows wide open enough to fly a jet engine through day and night, but i can't help but think how symbolically on the nose it was. the ancestral rot at the heart of my family so gothic it's got ants and flies buzzing around its decaying corpse.

[valtsv]

hey so update but i haven't been harassed by a single freaky little beast since my dad left even after leaving some crumbs on the floor as an experiment to see if they attracted any ants so i think my dad might just be bugs actually

[inkpanic]

[feitclub]

“Hey, how do you spell Massachusetts?”

“How should I know? Just grab a handful of Scrabble tiles and let fate decide.”

[kaible-deactivated20181205]

this is like a beautiful unicorn of mispellings

[milkyteatime]

Welcome to Boston, Msaeachubaets, I’ll be your guide today.

[thedreamthieves]

i think one of the worst things the left wing internet ever did was push the idea that oppression is basically a virtue, and being oppressed is a sign of your morality. it has made it like…impossible for some of you to hold the idea that most people are privileged in some ways and oppressed in others. AND a lot of you seem to have it in your mind that terrible people cannot be oppressed, and that oppressed people cannot do terrible things, which is a dangerous rhetoric to hold imo.

[doyoulovethewayzeylily]

thank you for being so kind to all the girls! your presence is like the sun on this site and your posts help me feel a lot better about stuff

being sincere, especially sincerely affectionate, is a fundamentally humiliating act unless ☝️ other people are doing it with you.

the big secret is that people want to do it with you so much more than you know. have you ever felt loneliness as a pain in your chest? cold sharp tight metal just wanting behind your breastbone?

we all have.

start saying "I love you" to your friends. they'll be surprised, the first time, and that's your first opportunity to learn something about them. were they startled? flustered? scared? it's your first opportunity to teach them something about you. you can grow to trust that you will be gentle with each other.

they'll start saying it back. we all want to be loved.

it'll start with one person, succumbing to the patient invitation. the two of you together shine a little brighter, the glow of it a little more irresistible. that little glow is infectious, nobody wants to be the only one left out.

you've already forgotten that it's humiliating to do it alone, haven't you? it works just like that, I can't remember why I ever felt ashamed.

[mousidy]

What is your opinion on Misandry? I have been told frequently that it doesn't exist, but I think it is the foundation on which a lot of TERFs hate us. The concept of a rape organ, or that trans women are men invading women's spaces seem rooted in this idea that men are evil. I value your take

the logic of the patriarchy is that men are strong and capable, while women are weak and helpless damsels, justifying men's control over them. but because women are cast as ineffectual, a class of women the patriarchy wants to violently suppress must be rhetorically masculinized, or else they could pose no convincing violent threat worthy of said violent suppression

if terfs thought men were evil, they wouldn't collaborate so happily with the very structures of patriarchy that oppress them just so they could stick it to a marginalized group. the masculinizing rhetoric doesn't serve on its own to paint us as evil--only strong enough to be capable of enacting evil. it's the transfemininity that actually provides the "evil" part of the equation

[mousidy]

to build on this further, terfs never seem to take any issue with men having close proximity with and/or power over cis women

I don't see terfs protesting male doctors treating cis women, I don't see terfs protesting the catholic church, which frequently gives men close access to and power over cisgender women, and I don't see terfs protesting the unit of the family itself, in which fathers have extremely high levels of access to and power over their children, including cisgender girls

no, terfs have no issue with men having close proximity to and power over women. they have an issue with trans women

[mousidy]

surely any day now terfs will start protesting male gynecologists

[mousidy]

if terf rhetoric were ever actually meaningfully "misandrist" there would be a massive male counter-movement working against it. but there isn't, because terf rhetoric doesn't bind men, it empowers them

it serves the interests of the patriarchy very comfortably, reifying the myths of male superiority and the fragility of women while pinning all of women's oppression not on men, but on an extraordinarily marginalized class of women. it's a great way to obscure the reality of the patriarchy while upholding the logic that it's built on

[mousidy]

reifying the fragility of women makes the patriarchy appear natural. it tees the patriarchy up to go:

"of course women aren't holding positions of actual power. it's not because men oppress women, it's because women are too weak to do the important work. therefore, women need men to do all the heavy lifting for them, so the best thing they can do for themselves is become appealing and valuable to men. systemic oppression? what are you talking about? it's just biology"

[shinosarna]

I literally plainly asked a terf once that if she doesn't want trans women in women's prisons, why is she okay with male guards in said prisons. She said she doesn't care because they 'belong' there.

[muzzlesbian]

you have to love the tgirl but you have to let her love you back too

[muzzlesbian]

transfem affection and attraction is painted as inherently predatory to a degree that drives us to be constantly on edge. it makes us fucking paranoid. do you know how awful it is to worry if it’s safe to lean your head on your close friend’s shoulder? to be openly desired and even flirted with but never flirt back for fear of being labeled a creep? to be unable to cuddle up with your date because you’re terrified of how they might respond? do you know how much that fucks a person up?

you have to let the tgirl love you back. you have to.