[yuwamomen]

imagine sitting in your f/o's lap while they ramble about their special interests . they might have you in a loose hold , or their hands might wander-- feeling how soft your shirt is, how velvety , thick , or springy your hair is, or maybe even how smooth your skin is . and of course , you're just happy to be there . happy to give them a space to talk about what piques their interest the most , while they look at you like you're their whole world . ㅤㅤ💭 ﹡  ֗  ۪ㅤ proship , comship & the like, dni

[psychic-amethyst]

I love selfshippers who only have one f/o.

I love selfshippers who have multiple f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have cartoon f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have live action f/os.

I love selfshippers who only have video game f/os.

I love selfshippers who only ship with OCs.

I love selfshippers who only have anime f/os.

I love selfshippers whose f/os are from other pieces of media that I didn't mention in this post.

I love you all! You are valid.

Proship and rpf DNI! This post is NOT for you.

[satellightofmylife]

Imagine f/o giving you a really tight hug. Not so tight it hurts, but a really good SQUEEZE.

[rollforshortcake]

Hyperfem selfshippers who are constantly pushed to the side for their more masculine counterparts, I see you.

You are infact not too girly for your f/o. They LOVE how unabashedly feminine you are. They love that you like pink, bows, lace, ribbon.

They would collect them for you and fashion you little barettes out of their collected material. They’d add little charms too, perhaps ones that remind you of them so you’re always carrying a little piece of them around with you wherever you go.

Your f/o would never undermine your intelligence because you like a little skirt. Because you like to smell of whipped cream or strawberry tarts. Because you like a lash that would make you flutter away. They know you are incredibly smart. That you study hard, and are capable of great things.

They don’t treat you like an airhead or like a lesser alternative because of how you dress, what you like, and the softness in your edges.

Your f/o helps you attach ribbons to your hair and handbag, they are always sending you posts of bunnies or fawn with a “wow look baby, it’s you!”

They glare at the people who imply you are lesser. Dumber. Unworthy. Your f/o would not let anyone even insinuate that, wouldn’t dare let them go about treating you with such disrespect while saying that they love your f/o!

Your gentleness, your sweetness, your kindness and grace, they are all part of what your f/o loves about you, despite what others may say. 🩷

A rough few days reckoning with the realisation that I am treated the way I am by some other selfshippers because they see my softness as a weakness. But Chance loves it, I know he does

𝖼𝗋𝖾𝖽 @/𝖿𝖾𝗂𝗆𝗂𝗇𝗀𝗈 for dividers

[selfshipie]

“nerdy f/o” okay but shoutout to my nerdy selfshippers. your f/o loves hearing you talk! they love the way you get a distant look in your eyes as you get really into explaining! they’re being attentive and asking questions! why look up a question about your favorite topic when they can just ask you? they get to learn and see you be passionate about something you love.

[kiawren]

F/o stretch marks. You agree.

[nebbymakesimagines]

Here's to the deactivated/inactive selfship blogs.

To the ones who were harassed out of the community, to the ones who got wrongfully terminated, to the ones who felt ignored or unloved, to the ones who aren't alive anymore.

To the ones who got burnt out, to the ones who put their health above maintaining a blog, to the ones who stopped selfshipping, to the ones that just wanted to move on.

I hope you're alright. I hope you're still doing well, and that whatever other internet prescence you have, if any, is a pleasant experience for you.

To those who've had harassment or bigotry thrown at them during their time in the community, you deserved so much better, and I hope nothing like it will ever happen to you again. I wish you safety and comfort.

And to those who've passed away, may their memories be a blessing.

[cadmiumflavoredsoju]

Gonna say this now, I do not give a shit if I get shit for this.

You self ship with a rapist? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a racist? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a sexual offender? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a zionist? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a nazi? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a misogynistic piece of shit? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a child predator? Fuck you, you're not valid

You're a grown ass adult self shipping with a child/minor? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with a colonizer? Fuck you, you're not valid

You self ship with someone from the taliban? Fuck you, you're not valid

I do not give a shit if this upsets you, or if this is seen as "drama" or "controversial," this is serious bullshit and fiction CAN affect reality. You're a piece of shit if you do any of this. Thats just how it is.

If you derail this or whine in the comments of being "oppressed", you're getting blocked.

[just-someones-stupidity]

"thats a fictional character" well duh do you think i dont know that

btw im making out sloppy style with said fictional character rn if you even care

[kendymaycry]

if he's a weapon of a man why is his head in my lap so he can get scalp scritches right now...........

[kindaspecificyume]

Your f/o accidentally calls you a pet name for the first time. What do they call you and how do they react?

[fiirstloves]

i want to say, i want people to be very kind to those who use self shipping as a coping mechanism. because i do not wish people to forget there are others who have different support needs than you. its okay to not like every imagine, but recently, its been making me very sad to see people complain its too "soft."

my experiences are biased, i am aware of that, but that is because i am someone who has higher support needs as someone who is disabled + mentally ill. i like writing comfort and scenarios where an f/o supports you because its a struggle to see this support so unconditional! again, i'm not saying others cannot be sad about imagines being soft and not fitting what your ship represents to you, but, please don't normalize the shame that others get if they want to imagine their f/o comforting them after a bad day.

i think both sides of the same coin can exist. if you want more content that is more rooted in realism, or if you have an f/o who is a rude, or if you want to be the one who shows support to your f/o. that is beautiful, its what you deserve to have, its what makes you happy.

and on the other side, if you want to imagine your f/o loves you, its unconditional, there's no fighting, and your f/o is the nicest person in the world. that's just as beautiful as well. you deserve a place here. everyone deserves a place here because all of our needs are different and we should work together to make sure people feel heard without knocking anyone down.

lets work together. support is hard to come from, everyone wants to find the self in themselves, but lets find the self in each other too.

[chuumwah]

go cup f/os cheek rn

[oddlyspecificyume]

f/o who has never once made you feel like you were too much

[nanamisbakery]

Your f/o knowing your triggers inside and out so they don’t hurt you by accident

[orbitaldreams]

your f/o(s) would never make you feel like your problems are less important. they are aware that everyone has their own struggles, and they wish to help you through yours in the same way that you accompany them during their rough moments. they would never invalidate your feelings.

[heartz-and-spadez]

💭 Power out? Scared or nervous of the dark? Not to fret! Your F/O is right there with you. They’re making sure to light an extra ordinary amount of candles about the place to bring some light into the evening. They may joke that it’s kind of romantic being in the candle light to try to lift your spirits up. No matter they will make sure you are safe and taken care of - always staying by your side, reassuring you and taking your hands in there to help lead through some breathing exercises if you start to panic.

Maybe they’ll come up with some games to play! Board games, cards, puzzles. Or perhaps spend the evening just chatting about their life and retelling the first day they met you. 🕯️

And when you start to tire out, they’ll be right by your side; holding you close so you’re warm and safe under a hoard of blankets. Sweet dreams - and a soft hope the power comes back tomorrow so you can once again rest easy.