ENFP Lunacy

ENFP | 27 | Enneagram 4w5 | Neutral Good | In true Ne fashion, this is a random MBTI blog encompassing some original posts, a few memes, and anything else that strikes my fancy.

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How each type look during an argument

This is GOLD

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ENFP X ISTP I love you

ENFP: do you love me?

ISTP: yesss

ENFP: say it

ISTP: (grumpily) love youuu

ENFP: can you say it not mad?

ISTP: nooo

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ENFP x ISTP Castles

Enfp: I love moats

Istp: Moats are the second best part of the castle

Enfp: What’s best? The sea monster in the moat?

Istp: No no...the throne room

Enfp: Eh disagree

Istp: Whaaat

Enfp: Yeah lame. Who cares about all that fanciness when you can have secret tunnels and moats and weird stuff

Istp: I mean the secret tunnels are cool too. I just prefer the throne room cuz I can imagine myself sitting upon it wearing some cool clothes

Enfp: Yes i see. so you’re in it for the glamour

Istp: Nah, I just want a cool cloak a sword and a crown

Enfp: yeah yeah yeah...

Istp: Well while youre in the moat, ill be looking amazing from head to toe. With a dragon as my steed

Enfp: I’m not gonna be in the moat. And I will also be looking fabulous and will be extra feared by my enemies cuz my castle isn’t basic 

Istp: Whoa whoa whoa...you saying my castle will be basic?

Enfp: lol maybe

Istp: I can’t believe this

Enfp: :)

Istp: :[

Enfp: Jk sorry. I will *try* to stop disrespecting your castle

Istp: No no, I see how it is. I’ll remember this day....I’ll remember this day when you realize your castle stands no chance against mine

Enfp: If you say so...i think you are in way over your head here

Istp: You know nothing Jon Snow

Enfp: The wise speak only of what they know. -JRR Tolkien

Istp: You would pull a Tolkien quote. I’ve lost

Enfp: :)

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Mbti random ENFP relationships

ENFP towards ISTP: they are just cute Smolkins who NEED hugs! I LOVE them!

ISTP: *desperately hopes no one else knows that they need hugs

ENFP and INTP: memes, memes, memes, memes... and yet more memes... also the dark web...

ENFP towards ESFJ: does things to purposely annoy them for the reaction

ESFJ: loudly protests but secretly likes it

ENFP and INFJ: theories and ideas 24/7. Naturally play good cop bad cop with everyone. Lo key mess with everyone for the reactions

ENFP and INFP: still more theories and lots of unique plans. They talk about how they are going to move to a coffee farm and own pet sloths but never do

ENFP: obviously looking for something

ESFP: what are you looking for? I can help!

ENFP: nooooooooo I MUST find it on my OWN!! *gives up later and asks where the ketchup is*

Strangely competitive

ENFP and ESTJ: strangely get along. Talk mostly about logistics of whatever crosses their mind at the time

ENFP and INTJ: witty banter 24/7. There never is a clear winner

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Enfp × Istp

Istp: I’m sorry. I’m so cruel and depressed and full of darkness

Enfp: No, you’re not, you’re sweet!

Istp: What no-

Enfp: And you’re adorable and kind

Istp: STOPITIMFULLOFFRICKINGDARNESS

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Okay but what’s with all these thinking types out here being precious sensitive & caring angels?!

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ISFPs are not given enough credit for being the wise, all-knowing geniuses they are.

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ENTJs are loyal AF and low key the sweetest people out there.

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And now I will begin a series of individual posts with my random positive thoughts about the types.

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Mbti random ENFP relationships

ENFP towards ISTP: they are just cute Smolkins who NEED hugs! I LOVE them!

ISTP: *desperately hopes no one else knows that they need hugs

ENFP and INTP: memes, memes, memes, memes... and yet more memes... also the dark web...

ENFP towards ESFJ: does things to purposely annoy them for the reaction

ESFJ: loudly protests but secretly likes it

ENFP and INFJ: theories and ideas 24/7. Naturally play good cop bad cop with everyone. Lo key mess with everyone for the reactions

ENFP and INFP: still more theories and lots of unique plans. They talk about how they are going to move to a coffee farm and own pet sloths but never do

ENFP: obviously looking for something

ESFP: what are you looking for? I can help!

ENFP: nooooooooo I MUST find it on my OWN!! *gives up later and asks where the ketchup is*

Strangely competitive

ENFP and ESTJ: strangely get along. Talk mostly about logistics of whatever crosses their mind at the time

ENFP and INTJ: witty banter 24/7. There never is a clear winner

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*plans ahead further than 3 minutes*

Must be Ni

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INFJ Hugs

Reblog if you agree

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ENTP (sitting at work, stressed about a deadline)

ENFP (confidently rolling into work late): [Our evil boss] told me he’s gonna be gone today and I have a plan!

ENTP: *kicks feet up on desk and leans back relaxed* ahh that’s the greatest thing you’ve ever said

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Caring for your ENFP

Ask lots of questions. 

     Because of the auxiliary Introverted Feeling function, ENFPs often have a difficult time expressing deeper emotions. Many times this is due to not wanting to burden others with their problems or feeling as though they should be able to work through things themselves. This tends to create great internal conflict between the need to communicate (in order to process) and the need to guard (in order to avoid conflict.)

    ENFPs use their dominant function, Extraverted Intuition to brainstorm and process information, because of this, they often use speaking aloud as a way to formulate new ideas about what they are dealing with. This is a coping mechanism that helps to work through anxiety, worry, doubt and insecurity.  

   If you have an ENFP in your life that seems withdrawn, sullen or struggling to get something off their chest a great way to help them “deal” is to ask probing questions. 

    Create time and space to listen to your ENFP, asking questions to help them get to the bottom of the situation, and remember that body language is just as important an indicator of engagement as verbal language. Your ENFP will not open up to you if they feel the conversation is not welcome. These are deep personal feelings we are talking about here… not the fucking weather. 

    Unexpressed emotions lead to unresolved emotions (fears, doubts, worries, insecurities, etc…) which can lead to long-term inability to communicate, resentment, and a host of other toxic elements within their personal relationships. 

   It is important to remember that ENFPs want, more than anything, for our fears to be dispelled and our anxieties to be proven wrong, so we are ALWAYS open to new ways of looking at a situation. Often, ENFPs with a well-developed tertiary Extraverted Thinking function can work through tough issues rather quickly with the help of an interested friend. 

  If you find yourself at a loss with your ENFP, if they seem as though they are all over the place and you can’t seem to figure our what the fuck their problem is… it’s because you haven’t asked. 

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Reblogging to save a life. Mine.

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INTJ Problem #41

Whatever doesn’t kill you makes you weirder and harder to relate to at parties and everyday social settings.

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ENFP: (forgets something)

ENTP: Classic Si