non-stop baby

Tia | Mid 20s | Queer | Tucson, AZ

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In my element

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dolly parton, 1988

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[marshomella]

On her way to fuck Jolene up..

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*on her way to fuck jolene

[notmusa]

i expect ill be able to solve a lot of my problems once my baby brain falls out & my adult brain grows in

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[deerchasingheadlights]

its just me, my escapist tendencies, and these tits

[blackgirlsreverything]

[xenosagaepisodeone]

sure he’s well versed in leftist theory but does he do the dishes

[communitygardens]

this is such a succinct critique of  male leftists who think of it as theory only & won’t even get off their ass to clear the table

[butchflirt]

[toastp1ercer]

@spock-and-uhuras-jam-band literally lmao

[elfwreck]

She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink

I remember my wife often saying how exhausting it was for her to have to tell me what to do all the time. It’s why the sexiest thing a man can say to his partner is “I got this,” and then take care of whatever needs taken care of.

I always reasoned: “If you just tell me what you want me to do, I’ll gladly do it.”

But she didn’t want to be my mother. She wanted to be my partner, and she wanted me to apply all of my intelligence and learning capabilities to the logistics of managing our lives and household.

She wanted me to figure out all of the things that need done, and devise my own method of task management.

I wish I could remember what seemed so unreasonable to me about that at the time.

It’s not just about equal division of labor. It’s also about, “this thing is important to her. If he ignores it, he’s saying that what she wants is irrelevant to him.”

And that’s a guy saying, “I’m only spending time with you because it’s pleasant for me.” He’s already decided what’s “really” important, and her input is not welcome.

If he won’t do the dishes and laundry, he’s looking for fun, not a partnership. And his “leftist” ideals will be the same–something he studies because it’s interesting to him; a form of activism that he thinks will bring him a better life. If he can’t do household tasks that matter to a person he loves, he sure as hell can’t support policies that help people whose struggles he doesn’t even acknowledge are real.

[turnipfritters]

i notice that tumblr dot com has their black history month banner up, and that’s nice, but i feel like any even more fun black history month activity would be deleting all the white supremacist blogs

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That “ grow together“ type of love

[koshergf]

february is going to be full of love and light

[chrisevansfanblog-blog]

so they put up these new signs at the ima and they make the whole thing feel very alice in wonderland kind of

but the ones with words on them are really great

[fishingboatproceeds]

Sometimes a chipmunk.

So thrilled this has 32,000 notes! This work was curated by my wife, Sarah, and created by the wonderful artist Kim Beck.

[mrbiggsproductions]

“The occasional Fox”

[hanwhateverthefuck]

Tag yourself Im “Over there”

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She’s getting so much love and it’s what she deserves

[bibliofilariidae]

GROWTH 😭

[candiikismet]

Wow

[caffeinated-suggestions]

Concept: sleepy kisses in the dark, smiling against your lips.

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