The kindness of an “enemy” and the cruelty of “friends” - How a ten second scene made me *ship* two characters I don’t even care about.
So I watched the S2 finale of Victoria last night and for some reason this scene had me in tears - strangely even more so than a certain horrible death happening (that had me angry despite my rationally knowing that it ‘had’ to happen bc of a historical fact).
But back to the often hated, much dreaded Baroness Lehzen and this unexpected, somewhat whimsical gesture my Mr Penge. I knew she had to leave, we all saw it coming, and even if I was with Albert on the whole Get-Vicky-a-doctor thing (and actually imagine it must be dreadful for a parent not to have the ‘authority’ to call a doctor when your child is ill because your spouse has it and dismisses your worries) I still feel that Lehzen is often falsely ‘demonized’ because she is inconvenient now and overestimates her importance in Victoria’s life. And this is not entirely her fault as Victoria admitted herself that Lehzen was the most important person in her life before Albert came. She needed her care, love and attention more than anything during the horrible years of the Kensington System when no one respected her wishes, gave her much affection or agency. Lehzen was the only safety or protections he had when she was severely bullied by Conroy and forsaken by her mother who sided with the man who abused her. Lehzen loved and protected her better than her own mother, and being childless surely came to care for Victoria like actual family, which was her mistake as it made her overstep her boundaries - so in short I think it’s as wrong to call Lehzen a bad person as calling Albert a bad person for requesting her removal. Both meant well in the own way and both want to be the most important person to Victoria because they both love her - but only one can prevail.
Now...I did expect Victoria to be the one standing by Lehzen’s carriage to wave her off - at least after her heartfelt speech about Lehzen’s importance in her life.
Instead we got to see something I felt was incredibly touching and also said a lot about who your true friends are in life. Since S1 Lehzen and Penge have had their rivalries, snarky quarrels and enmities, so he was the last person you’d think would care to see her off, offer her a kind word or indeed a gift as a farewell.
Lehzen had been haughty and let’s be honest, quite horrible at times, she put herself above others in the palace and made life difficult for the likes of Penge - and yet, the relationship she had with Penge was still one based on mutual respect, more on an eye-level and not without understanding... whereas Lehzen became more and more ostracized, disrespected and ignored by the Queen, the Prince and all others “upstairs.” We see this dilemma of governesses being “not quite a servant” but also “not equal” in famous examples like Jane Eyre, and in Lehzen we see what happens when - unlike Jane - there is not a romantic happy ending and you get to marry the master and adopt the child as your own - and a governess becomes obsolete, inconvenient and “replacable”: she is sent packing.
Of course Lehzen was granted a pension by the queen so she was taken care of economically, but on the emotional side of things, this was a woman who had dedicated her entire life to a single child and may now be too old to marry and have any children of her own. Part of me would have liked to see that aspect explored in the character of Lehzen (as almost everyone - including Penge - gets some sort of contrived romance arc...just not the “old maid”).
So in the end...the only person who showed her any kindness, consideration or care in the end is ironically enough the man she had been quarrelling with since the very beginning. But unlike Albert, who turned out to be her true nemesis, Penge does not demonize her or even gloat at her misfortune (as one might have expected). He warned her before of coming between wife and husband, but at the moment when he could have smirked and said “I told you so.” or “Good riddance” he is not petty or small - he is only kind and human.
And that got to me on a level few storylines do these days. And it does actually make me question the characterization in Victoria a little bit when I feel there is more genuine love, affection and true human feeling between minor characters than major characters of late...
I’m not sure what it is, but at this point, I care a lot more about Ernest and Harriet and their fate than about Victoria and Albert’s relationship (though they were always one of my favourite couples in all films and books about them), I also cared more about Lord Alfred and Drummond than about Skerrett and Francotelli but that’s another issue more related to ‘story telling’ and ‘chemistry’ I think. And in the end you don’t choose what grabs you, it chooses you.
But I will say this: At the end of this episode, I was far more invested in the Lehzen/Penge dynamic (crying over it tbh) and whatever will happen to Lehzen now in Germany than to see ‘Uncle’ Leopold gift the kids with a pony.
Sorry, this just kind of wanted out. I’m sure lots of people might disagree, but I couldn’t help myself and felt sorry and touched by this scene...