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pronouns are whatever | fic writer | Icy | adult | don't call me an inspiration

[catcrumb]

( hi everyone! it's that time of year again... expect me back sometime in august! in the meantime, consider donating to direct relief for earthquake recovery in venezuala! )

[wouldyoueatthisfood]

Would you eat this?

I would eat this

I would not eat this

I have eaten this (positive)

I have eaten this (negative)

Remaining time: 3 days 7 hours

Food: Mexican conchas

Ingredients: butter, powdered sugar, flour, cocoa (optional), yeast, sugar, salt, eggs, milk, vanilla, vegetable oil

[rubysapphrald]

i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people

[rubysapphrald]

people with ARFID and people with very few autism safe foods and people with contamination OCD and people in ED recovery and everyone else with a complicated relationship with food that no one takes seriously GET BEHIND ME!!!!!!!

[cure-icy-writes]

you can never JUST have a good bitch about your symptoms; you also have to clarify how big a deal they are which is not proportional to how you're reacting to them. because otherwise you'll get well meaning advice like "omg that sounds serious, you should go to the hospital"

its like. "no no, this is a regular occurrence. i assure you the hospital won't be able to help. no, they'd probably just gaslight me about it and the wifi there kinda sucks. anyways, as i was saying, i'm seriously freaking the fuck out about not being able to breathe-"

[vivitur-moritur]

the sewing machine is a delicate breed of horse

[vivitur-moritur]

update: i’ve made it through the user manual and have sewn myself a cravat. the sewing machine is a delicate breed of horse with anger in its motion and spite in its heart.

[kyotoagnes]

And it bites too.

[athanza]

From Veronica Tucker via Pinterest

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[phantomrose96]

When you meet Edward Elric he gives off the impression that he's the short-tempered hot-headed "violence is the answer to all life's questions" kind of protagonist, and it's in fact incredible character craft that he's actually the character who ends the series with a negative-3 kill count.

[phantomrose96]

people killed: 0

direct orders of "you really really need to kill this guy" ignored: 1

ongoing murders being committed by Ed's own friends/colleagues that Ed got in the way of to specifically stop that murder from happening: 2

[phantomrose96]

God's worst soldier Edward Elric. Showed up as the youngest member of the Amestrian army, took millions of dollars from them, never followed a single order, helped dismantle their fascist regime, left with a lower kill count than he arrived with, then fucked off to go be a house-husband. Character of all time.

[evilyoyo]

I think it would be funny if Celine managed to make sure Rumi had no self esteem issues with literally everything that wasn’t connected to her patterns.

Rumi has zero body issues (besides her patterns) she doesn’t feel bad for eating as much as she needs to, she doesn’t feel awkward about the fact she’s utterly ripped or for being bigger than most Idols because Celine made SURE she ate when she was a kid.

Rumi knows she’s awkward and kinda weird but doesn’t feel bad about it because Celine was like ‘don’t worry you can be as weird as you want off stage and I’ll make sure you know how to fake it’

Sexuality crisis? Not for Rumi! Celine, having been devastatingly in love with a woman in the late 90’s/early 00’s was like ‘I’m too emotionally constipated to have this conversation but here are some books if you feel curious’

I guess this isn’t funny in a ha ha kinda way but it’s funny to ME. I’m imagining Mira and Zoey side eyeing Rumi post movie like ‘Girl what other issues are you hiding from us????’ But besides that bit about her patterns that’s it. Totally open with everything else.

[cure-icy-writes]

Hey. Don't cry, okay? Put one part short or medium grain rice and one part water in a ziplock bag and freeze it to break down the structure. Move to the fridge and let it thaw. Take a measuring cup and put one scoop of the wet rice mixture in the rice cooker with six scoops of milk and a dollop of cream cheese. Let it cook until done with no lid. Drizzle honey or jam over the top for flavor.

[a-silly-poll-side-blog-yay]

do you have a hobby that's expensive as fuck

yes

no

all of them

absolutely 0!!!!

results

Remaining time: 2 days 4 hours

[canichangemyblogname]

This June, I need Gen Z queers to understand that some people are closeted.

[canichangemyblogname]

I am saying this as a Gen Z queer, before y’all get your guns out to fucking shoot me.

But I need y’all to understand that if someone doesn’t give you their government name in a queer space, it’s not because they’re “mysterious,” and you do not have permission to take it upon yourself to figure out their “real identity” and go digging for them online like a private investigator. First, that’s creepy and a violation of privacy and reasonable boundaries. Second, some of us keep our private and professional lives very separate because we need to keep food on the fucking table and a roof over our heads, and our private life could jeopardize that.

[canichangemyblogname]

“Why won’t you tell me about your parents?” “Why can’t I know your real name?” “Where do you work?”

1.) Not all our parents would bake us a fucking cake when we come out. Some of us are closeted. Surely you understand this? You also do not need to know my parent’s names or occupations; we are both adults. I do not need nor want to mix you and my private life with my parents and my public life.

2.) Trans people do not owe you their dead name or government name

3.) I’m not telling you for the sake of job security. I am a government fucking caseworker working amidst a fucking lavender panic!

“There’s no way you’re a different person outside this; you’re still you at your core. What harm is there—”

No, I am a completely different person. A different person with a different personality and different interests and a different name and presentation. I am a completely different person because I keep this life and my public life private to avoid fracturing 90% of my interpersonal relationships and 100% of my professional ones.

“You’re not out? But you’re so confident.”

See— that’s part of the issue. Y’all assume someone is in the closet because they hate themselves or lack self-identity. Some of us know exactly who we are, but need to prioritize financial stability or else our entire life gets exponentially harder immediately.

[canichangemyblogname]

You meet queer people over the age of 40 and one of the first/earliest questions is “who knows?”

I need y’all to start bringing that energy. Because it’s not always safe for someone to be out and not everyone is safe to be out around.

There is a misnomer that “the closet” inherently means “doesn’t know they’re queer” and not “isn’t out widely and publicly.” “Outness” is often a patchwork.

[dreemurr-skelememer]

anyway,. back to your usual queue'd posts.

[fenixseraph]

To celebrate 6/25, also known as Yuri Day.

Ever since Aionios Moments explained the deal with Lucky Seven and the Fists of the End, this mental image would not leave my head.

[explodingsilver]

I've seen some posts trying to make fun of former gifted kids by comparing them to former student athletes who insist that they could have gone pro if not for a specific injury, and those posts always backfire, because my reaction to them is "You're right, we should treat former student athletes with more compassion than we currently do"

[self-loving-vampire]

I went from being very physically active to getting the "your body doesn't make energy properly anymore" disability so I can completely understand the grief that comes with circumstances outside your control destroying parts of you you were once proud of and locking you out of the life you could have had. It's not a good feeling.

[derinthescarletpescatarian]

... was that not the whole point of that comparison? Are we supposed to dislike the kids who were pushed into overworking and permanently damaging their bodies at a young age by people who should know better but value second hand glory over the health of kids?

[lavafell]

this comic was beamed into my mind the second i saw this post. happy yuri day everyone

[crazysnor1ax]

I don't "grade cards", I don't "rip and ship", I don't "pull for chasers". I COLLECT cards. And if I don't pull any special cards, I love all the other ones I get anyway.