Daddy's baby 13

I am a submissive babygirl/little. I'm here to share and meet new people. I love to write and welcome all sincere questions. NSFW, 18+.

[beautflstranger]

[abdl2256]

When bad little girls just don’t want to listen. Spankings and line writing usually solves the problem.

[20somethingandstilllost]

“You matter. You’re important. You’re loved. And you’re presence on this earth makes a difference whether you see it or not.”

— Tiny Buddha

[direwolfdominant]

Suck me

[direwolfdominant]

Show me what I own

[direwolfdominant]

Confession

[direwolfdominant]

[pnikfoyld]

Reblog if I can leave you a sexually uncomfortable message.

[katbanicki-deactivated20180605]

please

[love-is-all-youneed-deactivated]

You can try 😉

[87mastera]

Bring it.

[poems-and-word]

[daddysneedfulthings-deactivated]

Needed this morning, and everyday

[cherishedproperty]

Kneeling

Nothing has ever quite spoken to me like kneeling for the person who owns me. I love being spanked. I love asking permission. I love obeying orders and following rules. But there is a special magic in kneeling. 

I am often naked when I kneel, but it’s not exactly sexual. I strip because I am property, and property does not get privacy or dignity. I strip because nothing should come between my Dominant and what he owns. I strip to reveal my true self to the one who knows and sees it all.

I position my body to be most pleasing. Sometimes I hold these positions precisely, according to instruction. Hand placement, back arch, eyes pointed downward or straight ahead. The crop tracing over my curves, checking to make sure every element is in place. Sometimes I kneel for a purpose—to undress him or serve with my mouth. Sometimes I simply kneel in front of him and rest my head in his lap. Fingers running through my hair. 

No matter the position or purpose, kneeling feels like an act of love for me. It reminds me that I chose to submit to this person. I chose to put myself at his feet, to put my heart and my life in his hands. I chose him because he earned it. He is the kind of man who takes responsibility seriously and cares deeply for those around him. I chose him because his dominance speaks to the core of my being. I chose him because he feels like home. 

Sometimes I need to kneel. When the world feels heavy for me, I long to drop to my knees and know that I am safe in his arms. But I also long to kneel when the world is heavy for him. In those moments, I long to kneel quietly at his feet, my naked form displayed for him in exactly the way he desires. He doesn’t have to speak. He doesn’t have to touch me. I just want to serve with my quiet presence. I want him to feel my energy and know there are things that make sense about this world. I want him to know that I am with him. I kneel to offer myself to him—to remind him that I chose him, and that I will keep choosing him, again and again. 

[strictgoodgirl]

🌹gg

[currentsinbiology]

[submissive-seeking]

Read the above. Now think about training, settling, mantras, the submissive mindset, etc. It all starts to fit, right?

Now think about subspace and aftercare being interupted by “life stuff” or using withdrawal as a punishment/correction.

As a Dominant EVERYTHING you do and say has an effect on the submissive brain. THINK before you speak or act. Choose carefully and judiciously. You have a sacred responsibility.

Your submissive has given themselves to you to mold into that which pleases you most. Understanding the brain will allow you to train well. But not understanding the brain makes you dangerous.

Not all marks are visible. Not all marks heal either …

[pretty-little-playtoy]

Pussy spanking is all well and good, but if you really want my attention, make me hold it open for you so you can spank my clit.

[pretty-little-playtoy]

I would literally pay someone to come here and spank my pussy until I cry right now

😩😩😩

[selectivelysubmissive]

Fastest way to get me wet: a couple hard slaps to the pussy.

Honestly, if you want to fuck, skip the foreplay, tell me to lie down and spread my legs and spank my pussy. I’ll do anything you want after that.

[thegingerpowers]

     Submissives both need and want boundaries. We crave the peace that comes from knowing our dominants have assumed the responsibility of making some of those decisions that constantly bombard our lives and trouble our souls. When you cease to provide a solid structure from within which we live…grow…thrive… then we become overwhelmed by the chaos of life, questioning about our need to obey, and unsure of your love. To a submissive… lack of boundaries means lack of commitment. 

     Submission is indeed a gift… but it comes with awesome responsibilities. It should never be accepted by the weak of will or by the disinterested in spirit. ~ G.P.

[empoweredsubmissive]

Tips for Healing

I received a PM asking how to get over a Dom leaving a committed relationship.

This is such an important topic. Thank you for asking how I have healed.I’ll share what I know, what has helped me, and hope that it is helpful to you and many. Some are practical, some are symbolic, but they have all helped me.

*Know that it will get better. Doesn’t seem possible, but it will. It is a process that TAKES TIME.

*Be careful where you focus your attention. “Where focus goes, energy flows.” Learn that and use it, forever.

*Don’t trouble your mind with the what’s and why’s of his decision. This is sooo sooo difficult. As a submissive, our core is about pleasing our Dominant and we naturally assume blame belongs to us. But it doesn’t. He is just as, if not more, culpable.  So, interrupt yourself when you start to blame yourself or figure out what happened in his mind - That takes energy away from YOU and doesn’t change the outcome. Plus, there is never any way you can know his mind with any certainty. YOU are what matters now. Remember, “Where focus goes….”

*Recognize that this pain IS more dynamic than the pain of a ‘vanilla’ breakup.  The degree of trust and intimacy runs far deeper in BDSM, so does the pain.

*Grieve and take care of yourself.  Cry, sleep, cry, eat, lots of water, cry. Stay far away from alcohol and sugar.

*Speak kindly to yourself – just as you would a child who is grieving. “Oh, sweetie, it hurts, I know it hurts….I know you are going to get through this.” “I know you are scared….” No “but’s” allowed in self-talk.

*Clear the space, especially the bedroom. Open windows, regardless of the temp.; light new candles; play upbeat music….wash the sheets OFTEN.  Sounds silly, but the symbolic aspect of that is very helpful.

*Movement! Walks, dancing, aerobics class – just move.

*Write a letter to him. If you are inclined to send it, wait at least 3 weeks. (Making decisions when very mad or sad is ill-advised, at best.)

*Write down memories, pains, whatever you want onto small pieces of paper and then burn them, individually.  Take a moment with each and then release it.

*Journal using paper and pencil – get those feelings out. Tapping keys on a keyboard is not the same.

*Create new patterns and rituals to replace those that existed within your relationship. Make sure they are things that promote your health and joy.

*Know that the people who love you want to help and don’t fault them for not understanding the depth of your pain. Ask them for what you need because they probably feel helpless.

I could go on and on, but these are my go-to’s.

I know the pain is crushing. It will lift. Hug yourself. Hugs from me to you.

[thegingerpowers]