Tips for coming out as an ABDL to your significant other
• avoid using negative talk about yourself so you can explain the lifestyle in a positive way
• don’t relate your desire for ABDL to a trauma or abuse that happened to you in the past
• make it sound fun “I have this super kinky idea that I think might be fun"
• Explain the aspect of humiliation that you may enjoy
• Don’t bring up anything about kids. If they ask, then tell them the truth: this has absolutely nothing to do with children.
• Be sure to take the pressure off of the conversation by giving them an out: “I realize this is something new and may be uncomfortable for you. I just want you to know that this is something I *want* … this isn’t a need by any means so don’t feel any pressure to do anything you don’t want to.”
Keep the conversation light, be honest, and be confident. Don’t make this seem like a huge deal. Whether they accept or reject you just carry on as your awesome self.
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- Lo <333
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super helpful advice:3
This is actually all really really good advice and can apply to pretty much any kink.
Don’t pressure them to be into it, but yeah for letting your partner know this is great XD
Thanks guys!
