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Who you’re thirsty for
Aries: Everyone but especially Leo
Taurus: Sagittarius and Leo and
Gemini: Capricorn sometimes Pisces
Cancer: Pisces
Leo: Yourself and also Libra
Virgo: Capricorn Capricorn and Capricorn and Cancer
Libra: Scorpio and Leo
Scorpio: Libra and a little Aquarius
Sagittarius: Scorpio and Taurus
Capricorn: Money and Virgo sometimes Cancer
Aquarius: Aries
Pisces: Gemini and Libra
35 Powerful Affirmations That Can Change Your Life
Life extends from the thoughts and emotions that you experience. This means that employing affirmations of positive words can have a powerful effect on how you feel and help boost you to new levels of achievement.
Affirmations are proven methods of self-improvement because of their ability to rewire our brains. Much like exercise, they raise the level of feel-good hormones and push our brains to form new clusters of “positive thought” neurons. In the sequence of thought-speech-action, affirmations play an integral role by breaking patterns of negative thoughts, negative speech, and, in turn, negative actions.
Repeat the below aloud and with conviction in the morning and after a few days you will notice the shift in your mood, perception, and interpretation of any given situation.
1.) I am the architect of my life; I build its foundation and choose its contents. 2.) Today, I am brimming with energy and overflowing with joy. 3.) My body is healthy; my mind is brilliant; my soul is tranquil. 4.) I am superior to negative thoughts and low actions. 5.) I have been given endless talents which I begin to utilize today. 6.) I forgive those who have harmed me in my past and peacefully detach from them. 7.) A river of compassion washes away my anger and replaces it with love. 8.) I am guided in my every step by Spirit who leads me towards what I must know and do. 9.) (If you’re married) My marriage is becoming stronger, deeper, and more stable each day. 10.) I possess the qualities needed to be extremely successful. 11.) (For business owners) My business is growing, expanding, and thriving. 12.) Creative energy surges through me and leads me to new and brilliant ideas. 13.) Happiness is a choice. I base my happiness on my own accomplishments and the blessings I’ve been given. 14.) My ability to conquer my challenges is limitless; my potential to succeed is infinite. 15.) (For those who are unemployed) I deserve to be employed and paid well for my time, efforts, and ideas. Each day, I am closer to finding the perfect job for me. 16.) I am courageous and I stand up for myself. 17.) My thoughts are filled with positivity and my life is plentiful with prosperity. 18.) Today, I abandon my old habits and take up new, more positive ones. 19.) Many people look up to me and recognize my worth; I am admired. 20.) I am blessed with an incredible family and wonderful friends. 21.) I acknowledge my own self-worth; my confidence is soaring. 22.) Everything that is happening now is happening for my ultimate good. 23.) I am a powerhouse; I am indestructible. 24.) Though these times are difficult, they are only a short phase of life. 25.) My future is an ideal projection of what I envision now. 26.) My efforts are being supported by the universe; my dreams manifest into reality before my eyes. 27.) (For those who are single) The perfect partner for me is coming into my life sooner than I expect. 28.) I radiate beauty, charm, and grace. 29.) I am conquering my illness; I am defeating it steadily each day. 30.) My obstacles are moving out of my way; my path is carved towards greatness. 31.) I wake up today with strength in my heart and clarity in my mind. 32.) My fears of tomorrow are simply melting away. 33.) I am at peace with all that has happened, is happening, and will happen. 34.) My nature is Divine; I am a spiritual being. 35.) My life is just beginning.
CAPRICORN: You’re allowed to get your hopes up for this upcoming year. I know that you’ve done this before, have looked to the future with rose colored glasses and said “it’s going to be better, I’m going to be better” only to become bogged down by reality, but you have to keep trying. You have to keep wishing. You have to keep embracing the world and all it has to offer you, or else you’ll find yourself alone at the end of the day, praying for a redo that’s impossible to attain. And if things don’t go as planned, that’s okay too. There’s always another day to wake up for. AQUARIUS: Stop shoving all of your needs onto the bottom of your priority list to be picked through at a later date. It’s only natural to have desires, both necessary and not, and 2018 should be the year where you stop punishing yourself for that. There are good things on the rise for you, and you shouldn’t let anything or anyone stand in your way: especially if the obstruction in question is self imposed. Make a playlist of songs that make you happy and dance until your heart feels ready to jump out of your chest. Unleash all of the joy you’ve been stockpiling inside of you. PISCES: You don’t have to be the best at everything you do in order for it to be meaningful. It’s easier to judge your accomplishments based upon those that came before you, or those that have had more experience, than it is to ignore them. Instead of comparing yourself to people like that, compare yourself to who you were last year, or who you were last month. “Am I better than I used to be?” is the only question that you should be asking yourself when tackling new projects, and new frames of thinking. This should be a year of focusing on yourself, and your growth. ARIES: Allow yourself to make mistakes without beating yourself up over them for years to come. There isn’t a person alive that exists without regret of any kind, and you should remember that fact whenever you look around and think that everyone is doing so much better than you are. It’s okay to step into the light, where others can see you, and admit to the nightmares you refuse to name. Nobody is expecting you to be brave or invincible all of the time. Let this year be the one where you refuse to feel guilty for your emotions. TAURUS: It’s time that you stop giving so much of yourself to people that don’t or can’t reciprocate. There’s no reason to settle for relationships that make you feel anything other than warm, and safe. I know that sometimes it feels like this is all you’re ever going to get, that stale friendships and discarded lovers are what’s available to you and all you have to choose from, but that isn’t true. Make this the year the one where you come to terms with your self worth, and realize that you deserve better. GEMINI: Change, for you, is a lot like swallowing cough syrup. You’ll do it if you have to, and you’ll put it off as long as possible, but it’s never something that you put in your coffee mug and look forward to drinking. But at the end of the day change, if handled correctly, is a good thing. You aren’t any happier than you used to be because everything’s remained stagnant, and while that isn’t completely your fault you have the means to make it somewhat better, and easier. Instead of asking yourself why the world has been so unkind to you, ask yourself what you can learn from it. CANCER: It’s human nature to want comfort in the form of another’s presence, but that shouldn’t be your primary focus for this upcoming year. I know that you love love, and you’re always searching for more of it in friends and family and the things you create, and that’s okay. It’s a beautiful part of your personality. But self love is just as important as love that extends outwards, and pushing it aside does more harm than good in the long run. You aren’t going to be alone forever, but if you’re alone for right now you don’t need to be scared of it. Don’t run away, this time. LEO: Keep feeding your momentum as this year progresses. You have a tendency to start out strong when pursuing something new, and then peter into casual disinterest once the smallest roadblock appears in your path. Find a direction, and a compass, and don’t let yourself lose focus of where you want to be. There’s a future out there in which you’re happy… a future where you don’t go to bed crying over the people that don’t know how to love you, and it’s attainable as long as you still want it. And you do want it, don’t you? VIRGO: Let go of your heavy heart as you enter this new year. A lot of anniversaries are coming up, some good and some bad, and it’ll be easier to push through them if you’re unburdened by the things you’re unable to change. Get rid of the ghosts and the insecurities, this month. Forget those that forgot about you. Begin asking yourself the questions you’ve been setting aside for a later date. Close the book, if it’s all said and done. You have so much to give people, and to bring to the world: don’t let your self doubt detract from that. LIBRA: Sometimes a metaphorical blank slate is just the thing you need in order to throw yourself back into living. While you’ve never been one for holidays, organizing and reevaluating is something that’s part of your wheelhouse. Make a list of goals to accomplish, not necessarily resolutions, and try your best to stick to them. It’s easy to forget how much of a relief it is to follow through with something when you haven’t in a while. So remind yourself. Push when you can. You’re much more flexible than you let yourself believe you are. SCORPIO: You’re very good at hiding underneath your skin, pretending that you don’t pick at old wounds and that you don’t want to smash every mirror in your home to pieces. But this year I want you to ask yourself why. Why are you concealing yourself from those that love you? Why aren’t you asking for the help that you need? Why do you feel as though you have to be perfect in order to be good? There’s nothing wrong with needing something to change and not knowing how to put it into action. You’re only human. Treat yourself as such. SAGITTARIUS: There’s still a voice in your head that likes to tell you that you’ll never amount to anything, and while most of the time you’re able to tune it out, sometimes you think it’s right – that you’ll always wear your past like a coat, and you won’t ever be able to settle down. You can’t listen to that. Positive thinking has never been something you’ve thought necessary to combat this, but there’s nothing wrong with giving it a try. As silly as it may sound, make a list of reminders for yourself. “I am worthy. I am brave. I am trying my best.” Don’t let the tiny voice win, this year.
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11 Tips From My New Millionaire Friend
#1) Invest for the long haul! Not for two or three or even ten years, but for decades. Mark did this successfully for over 40 years (longer than most of us have been alive- hah!) and he kept going through all the booms and busts and utter nonsense. You need this long term mentality so you don’t trick yourself into chasing the quick wins and get off track. It’s all about harnessing time!
#2) Funds get the job done. Yes you can try your hand at stocks and get your research/luck on and pray you hit the jackpot, but let’s face it – not even “professionals” get it right. For most people, sticking with mutual funds (or my personal preference – index funds – since the costs are much cheaper) are a safer bet. You won’t “beat the market” and have bragging rights amongst your friends, but matching it is better than underperforming it. And it’s one area I don’t mind being average.
#3) It doesn’t matter how much you make – you can still save! While $70,000 is surely a lot of money for most of us/the world, keep in mind it’s not the case when you’re nearing retirement. And even so, it probably took Mark 10-20 years to make it up to that level, so for decades he was making substantially less. Regardless, putting money aside every paycheck no matter how much you make WILL add up over time and especially over 40 years. Do the best you can with what you’ve got, and then up it every time you get a bonus or raise or any other types of promotions. Mark is proof that any of us can become millionaires over time.
#4) Pay cash for everything. Imagine never going into debt again? How much time, money, stress that would save? Using cash is surely one way to ensure that. You may not reap as many c/c rewards that way (and in full transparency – I’m a credit card budgeter myself! Where I put everything I can on cards and then pay them off in full each month!), but for the general public cash is the safest way to go. And plus, the research always shows that you spend less using cash than plastic anyways.
#5) Give yourself a weekly allowance. This is one of my all-time favorite budgeting tips. Not only do you give yourself some fun BLOW MONEY to do as you please, but you also free yourself from having to track every last penny and burn yourself out. Another nice side effect is tricking all your friends that you’re a “normal” person just like them, when deep down you’re as financially nerdy as it gets ;)
#6) Become totally debt free. He didn’t outright say, but I’m assuming that “being debt free for 15 years” means Mark doesn’t have any mortgages either. Which of course can never steer you wrong, whether you could make more money investing or not. I only know one person who regrets paying off their house, and I shake my head every time I’m reminded…
#7) Appreciate how fortunate we are to live in today’s world! Where we reap the benefits of those who fought and died before us, and which the life expectancy is much higher than it’s ever been before. Not to mention how 9/10ths of our problems really are 1st world issues, and that we can live off a lot less and still – shockingly enough – be just as happy.
#8) Read about money. You’re obviously already doing this or else you’re on the wrong site right now – hah! – but books and blogs can REALLY make an impact with how you think and act with your money. Especially when you find the ones that click. (Shameless plug – check out our list of favorite blogs here, as well as my favorite money books!). I tried to find this book that Mark’s mom gave him so I could check it out (I’d never heard of it before?) but didn’t have much luck. Although there is a “Your Last Dollar and How to Keep it” by Edgar T. Isaacs and Richard S. Lindner from 1976 which could possibly be it. If you want to take a gamble, it’s currently a whopping $3.40 right now on Amazon :)
#9) Live off the same amount of money as time goes on! You know when you get a raise or new job and all of a sudden you’re earning more money than you ever have in your entire life? And so you go out and buy new stuff and are now all of a sudden spending the same amount of money as you’re earning? That’s called lifestyle inflation and it’s one tricky bastard. Catch it early on and get used to spending roughly the same every month and your pile of cash to save/invest drastically goes up over time. You don’t have to save every last penny of it of course (you still want to live a little, yeah?), but getting into this habit now will help you reach financial freedom a lot sooner – I can promise you that. Because remember: the less you need to live on, the less you need to retire!
#10) Do stuff you love for money. Even though Mark has enough money to live off right now, he still does stuff he enjoys that also happens to pay. Imagine if everything you worked on brought you joy like that? It’s a great position to be in, and there’s nothing saying you have to stop earning once you give up your 9-5. Figure out what you’re good at and enjoy, and then see if there’s any cross pollination you can land on and start working it on the side. Many of the side hustles we share herewere born out of specific interests that turned out to be pretty profitable – the perfect combination :)
And lastly, #11) The boring stuff works. You’ll notice there wasn’t anything new or sexy going on with our friend’s plan here at all. He just kept his expenses in check, funneled away as much as he could over the years, and then let the magic that is compounding do the rest. It’s not always easy, but it’s do-able! And I reckon Mark would say that any of you could become a millionaire too by copying.
source:http://www.budgetsaresexy.com/2015/10/tips-from-my-millionaire-friend/
The year is 2018. Your bills are on autopay. You just got paid and you still have $1200 from the last check. When you want something, you buy it without moving money around. Your credit cards are paid off. You and your friends have 2 international trips planned and paid for this year. Your parents are in great health and you’re able to help if they need anything. You love your job. Your desired creative career is falling into place and you get to take your little cousins to Six Flags and Universal Studios over the Summer. Your relationships are healthy and supportive. All of the toxic energy from the past 6 years is gone. You going to concerts, eating good across the states and your crib has art and warmth throughout. 2018 is going to be so good to you.
reblogging this for that 2018 good luck
u literally have to be rich to do any of this
You gotta be rich for no toxic energy? You gotta be rich to have art and warmth??
@kimreesesdaughter sis, this post was the very reason I followed you & I don’t understand why people comment their negativity under this. Like it’s all possible with an education, ambition & a good budget. Like we may all be looking for our come up but we all ain’t struggling. Some people be so comfortable where they at but will complain about how things like this are impossible. These are all my literal goals for next year TBH and if I can’t make them ALL work in 2018 I know what to work harder on in 2019 shiiiitttt 💁🏽
First of all, I love being called sis so thank you for that 💕
Thank youuuu!! You really get the point of the post! Like I’m 24 and I got to this point. It’s a blueprint. Work your way to this. I damn sure did. If I can do this, ANYBODY can. Two years ago I was basically hopeless, like the come up is possible people. People want inspiration but reject it when they get it. They so negative in these notes and wonder why their lives aren’t changing. Look at your attitude and what you’re putting out in the universe. Work on that.
With your positivity and perspective, you’ll DEFINITELY be here!! That’s the way to view things.
Sites I visit when I need a mental break
These are what I use when I need a break at work or from studying. I like them because they usually take just enough time for me to enjoy without feeling super guilty.
Commaful: stories are super short and perfect for quick breaks. they have everything from fanfiction to poetry. try to stick to just one tho otherwise you’ll get sucked in Bouncy Balls: Bounce balls. The most mindless thing ever. just bouncy, bouncy, bouncy Mental Floss: learn epic stuff. you’ll learn everything from pop culture to tech to history and more!! short and fun Don’t Even Reply: I started reading this and couldn’t stop laughing at work…it’s some dude trolling people on craigslist. i can’t….stop….laughing…. This Is My Website Now: Fun little games, takes just a few minutes but great for a break Oddee: REALLY REALLY weird stories Pixel Thoughts: this is more when you have a tough day or a rough time. a short little meditation fixes everything right up! Silk: Create dreamy works of art with your mouse. Have fun subconsciously drawing genitalia. Akinator, The Web Genius: This magical genie thing that is stuck in your computer and can read minds. It was 2/3 for me. not bad!
WARNING: I am not responsible for late homework assignments, missed quotes, or deadlines
I read Commaful and Don’t Even Reply every day lmao. reddit is also really good
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Sugar Baby Guide w/ 200+ tips!
So I recently ran into a sugar “master post” on here but noticed a lot of the links were broken. Since there are so many aspiring sugar babies with a ton of questions I thought I’d make a new one! Here it is: a very long compilation of my favorite tips and tricks from sugar babies all over tumblr. Enjoy! Xoxo
Safety
Deleting yourself from the internet
Sending pictures via google voice texting
Square cash warning
Amazon gifts safety
COP or POT?
Tips to remaining safe as a sugar baby
Phone safety
What information should you give your SD?
Verify him
Safety links for sugar babies
All about screening
How SD’s can track where you live
The Miranda warning
Internet safety tips
Receiving packages
Staying safe as a sugar baby
Sugar baby safety
Sugar baby safety tip
Sugar baby safety & catfishing
Free background check website
Is he the real deal?
Tricking him to keep your privacy
Keeping your privacy
Very important hoe safety tip
Free-styling
Free-stying guide
Eye-contact
Turning vanilla to sugar
How to approach men while free styling
Free-styling and where to meet sugar daddies
Where to freestyle
All about free-styling
Free-styling and how to trigger a mans generosity from the start
Free-styling tips
Top three places to freestyle
Free-styling & staff
What NOT to ask him
Meeting SD’s online
Craigslist title tip
Ashley Madison
Sugar dating and craigslist
List of sugar dating sites
Sugaring using tinder
Tindering tip
How to tinder
Craigslist masterpost
Craigslist sugar
Writing/writing back to messages
The perfect message
How to message men on sugar sites
Sugaring: Tinder and OkCupid
Perfecting your message
More messaging advice
Sugar sites to check out
Weeding through messages on sugar sites
Allowance, financials, and budgeting
How to get the allowance you want
How to ask your sugar daddy for an allowance
Allowance or pay per meet?
All about money
Cash/gifts on a POT date
What form should I take my allowance in?
How to make real money
Sugar baby banking tips
Spending your sugar money
Asking for money on a POT date
Getting him to buy you something
Financial advice
Drain his bank account
When he says he doesn’t feel comfortable with allowance…
Saving money
How much can he really pay you?
Budgeting tips for sugar babes
Tips on spending your sugar money
Allowance and AmEx cards
Let’s talk budgeting
5 questions to ask before agreeing to allowance offer
What to say to get the allowance you want
Sugar banking
Allowance and bank laws
Random cash tips
He pays for what he wants
Investing 101
Allowance negotiation tactics
The art of sugar dating
How to handle a first date with a POT
What NOT to talk about on a POT date
Organizing your POTs
How to: manipulate the conversation
How to create a positive impression
6 ways to make your sugar date the best date he’s ever had
What the hell am I going to talk to him about?!
50 unusual date ideas
Checklist the night before your date
What you need to do before your POT date
Your first POT date
Dining etiquette
Dining etiquette pt. 2
How to fake confidence
Conversation tips
Confidence
Classy conversation topics
First date conversations with your SD
What to bring in your purse on a sugar date
Bullshit to spit on dates
Things to know about wine
First date advice
How to handle a first date
100 “non allowance” questions to ask a POT on a date
How cheat your way through small talk
Conversation topics
Developing your personality
The psychology of persuasion
Seduction, manipulation & negotiation
Remember: You are an actress/actor
The art of seduction
Strategies to try on your SD
Sugar negotiation
Bullshitting 101
Make him take you seriously
How to make him want to say yes
Body language
Master guide: Body language linguistics
Manipulation tips
How to manipulate people into liking you more
Sugar manipulation
How to keep wealthy men coming back to you to give you more
Emotion, seduction and manipulation
Marketing yourself
How to attract a man
Perks of sugaring - power
Being your SD’s fantasy
Manipulation success
The girlfriend experience
Keeping your SD
Treat your SD right… Or someone else will
Keeping him hooked
Don’t become familiar or ordinary
Become his fantasy
Don’t forget the details
Keeping your sugar daddy
Bedroom tips
Treating your SD right
How to keep an SD interested
Showcase yourself to yourself to your SD
Blowjob tips (for uncircumcised penises as well)
Blowjob tips
Appearance
How to make yourself more attractive
Fashion tips and dress codes
How to dress “sugar”
Hoe products
Fuck-proof makeup list
How to be a kept woman
Looking elegant
Sex prep
Lingerie masterpost
20 beauty tips
Charming cash out of your sugar daddy
Vaginal hygiene
Invest in yourself
Sugar tote essentials
Contouring cheat sheet
A hoes guide to body care
Sugar baby check list
Platonic Sugar
A tip for aspiring sugar babes
Being a platonic SB
Being a pure sugar baby
Sugar Travel
Traveling with your SD
Travel etiquette for sugar babies
Sugar baby travel tip
Traveling sugar
General tips/info on sugaring
The rules of sugaring
Sugar baby manifesto
Sugar baby academy
How to find a sugar daddy in 6 simple steps
This lifestyle isn’t for everyone
The secrets to being a successful sugar baby
Random sugar baby tip
Great sugar tip
“Thing’s I’ve learned from living with sugar babies”
25 tips to make you better sugar
Being a successful sugar baby
10 golden rules of sugar dating
General sugar baby tips
Sugar baby general guide
Apps every sugar baby needs
Sugar baby mentality
Sugar baby survival tips
Sugar baby wisdom
Sugar baby resources
What being a SB is all about
6 common sugar baby mistakes
Remain calm, cool and collected
Things you need to remember when you start sugaring:
What SB’s often forget
You are not asking for too much!
Beginning advice for newbies
Tips for new sugar babies
Always have a plan B
Tip to new sugars
So you want to be a sugar baby…
What would you tell your newbie SB self if you could go back?
5 newbie mistakes and how to avoid them
Patience
Remember this when you become a sugar baby
4 things every aspiring SB should know
“How do I become a sugar baby?”
How to stand out as a sugar baby
“Learn from my sugar mistakes”
“When is right to start sugaring?”
Tips from a successful sugar baby
6 tips for aspiring SBs
All about him
How to know if he’s the right sponsor
Sugar daddy check list
Don’t believe what he says
How to get him to raise your allowance
POTs
Filtering the POTs
How to spot a fake POT
Things POT’s say when they’re trying not to pay
Distinguishing sugar from salt
10 questions to ask a POT before a relationship
Figuring out if they’re salt without going on a date
“What should I say?” And personality
Don’t be mundane and predictable
When he asks “What are you willing to do sexually?”
When he complains about paying you
When he asks if you’ve had an arrangement before
Communicating your standards
How to say “no” to your SD
How to insist on a condom
What to say when he asks “What are you looking for?”
When he says “I’ll pay you later”
Your sugar profile
Writing tips
Make your profile work for you
Face shot or no face shot?
Random tips/things/misc.
P.O. boxes and why you should have one
“Advice I received from a whale SD”
Long distance sugar
How to be a boss ass bitch
Why love is poison for a heartless gold-digger and a guide to the antidote
How to organize your hustle
Sugaring from scratch
“Sex is sex, but money is money”
Mandatory sugar tool
No luck finding a sugar daddy?
The official sex worker reading list
Getting your sugar daddy back
Sugar baby texting
Suggested sugar reading list
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How to Tinder
Okay gurl, if you’re sick of dicks at SA I got your back covered. There are several things you can do with Tinder. You can either swipe in your town or somewhere you’re soon planning to go.
I only swipe foreigners in my own town because locals are cheap af and gross. Or sometimes I swipe in another city or country. You need a subscription for it or some sort of app which might work as well.
1. Create a fake Facebook account and if you’re an iPhone user you have to go to settings and logout from your account on Facebook to make Tinder pick up the new account. It’s very easy for anyone to look you up on FB with your real name and school etc.
2. Don’t forget to erase your name off whatsapp settings if you’ll give your phone number. Better have a hoe number.
3. Put a pretty portrait pic, fun pics and a casual body shot so he can’t ask for more, write down an equal school name to your school. Say if you’re an Ivy League babe don’t write your own schools name but name a different Ivy League school that offers same or similar degree. In case someone irl catches your profile you may just say that they must have stolen your photos. Have a fun witty statement that guys can comment on. Don’t list down your interests it makes pretty dull conversations. I always go with a movie quote which makes me look like a fun, sexy and a dominant girl. Domination is important I’ll tell you why.
4. When you match it can go few ways. If you send the first message (I think it’s better since it allows you to lead the conversation) say something out of the ordinary. Like, “Hi, Bob, how’s Monday treating you so far?” Always use his name! If he sends the first don’t fall in the trap of “hi how are you?” Say something else, something interesting. Thank him for the like and move on.
5. Show interest and ask questions one after another. And always be like “Oh, wow cool!” And ask follow ups. You want to find out: his domain, his position at job and how does he spend his money. Ask him what does he like to do for fun, favorite vacation spots etc.
6. If he’s visiting your city try and find out: 1. Does he visit regularly? 2. Does he have friends here (lone wolfs are the most desperate) 3. Which are does he stay? 4. Which hotel? 5. Is he there for business or pleasure? 6. Which part of town or restaurant is his favorite? 💰💸👌🏻
7. At this point you should be more or less able to determine if he’s a SD material or not. Be likable and exploit the fact that he doesn’t have a prejudice on you like SA guys do. You can either keep freestyling or flat out say what you’re interested in. Ask him what he’s looking for on Tinder then take it from there. Some guys will know what it is and be on board. Some guys will have no idea and want to learn and some guys will not be interested.
I personally make a mistake by wasting too much time on 2nd category. If he wants to learn Google is his best friend. Don’t tutor him because most of the time these guys won’t offer anything good. Let him know that your time is money and you’re no tutor.
So far I met 2 POTs and they both seem like very nice guys and we click. Hopefully I’ll be tindering more next week and let you know if any other POTs come out.
Last but not the least, be aware: 1. Guys love to start a company and call themselves a CEO. Check if it’s legit. 2. Guys love showing off with all expenses paid business trips like wtf. My POT does that too and it annoys me to no end. Yet I cringe and laugh it off and tease him a bit. But I know he’s well off enough to throw a jet set party for his friends, so… Look for details! 3. All SB rules apply! No nudes no time for time wasters. Watch for red flags. 4. Take his phone number and look him up. Be safe. It’s actually a little safer because from his name and work/school info you can easily reach to his FB. Although some guys use fake accounts because they’re married etc.
Once you land a good SD let me know so we can celebrate!! 👑💰💸🍾
Ladies!! I have to add this: If you swipe in another city pretend you just left the city. Say you just came in for a meeting etc. if he likes what did you like the best say your hotels spa. People who travel for work rarely get to leave hotel ;)
And even if you have no plans on coming back say you’re coming in 2 weeks. Once you hook the leash create a damsel in distress situation and tell him how your plans are cancelled. Get him fly you off ;) 💸🍾✈️
For asks:
This was my first post
Honestly, when I saw a post about how easy Tinder was compared to the other sites, I was skeptical. Like REALLY skeptical. But, as always, I’m nosey so I decided to try tinder out in a sugar capacity, instead of vanilla. I created my sugar fb page, downloaded tinder and created my account. I kept my bio simple: I added a Mae West quote up top and stated that I was a “intelligent, vibrant, and ambitious professional.” I then added what I was looking for. I put my age range from 35-55+… When I tell you it is seriously as easy as the flick of a finger… IT IS. When I finally ran across a man who looked like he had potential, I immediately swiped right. I sent him a simple message. We will call him Mr. P since he is a pharmacist. “Hey there, Mr. P. How’s Thursday treating you so far?” It was THAT simple. In the end, he ended up stating that my price was too high to pay for companionship and I had to let him go, but I can def say that Tinder does have potential. I’m interested to see who else I can find on this site.
When an ugly old man asks why your pretty young self is interested in him, you can say something like this. It works for regular dating sites, where you can’t say outright that you’re a sugar baby. It’s also good for men who say they aren’t interested in a “gold digger”. Obviously don’t use this exactly, we don’t want to all be out there saying the exact same thing, but it’s very effective. Good luck out there sugar sisters!!
Cracked this Tinder thing
Okay so I think I have actually cracked Tinder for sugar babies. My profile reads “I enjoy the company of classy older men who love to spoil me. I’m intelligent, curvy, vibrant and would love to get to know you over cocktails next to the waterfront.”
Then I match with guys with signs they’re wealthy in their profiles, then they message and always mention something about spoiling me. So I say okay let’s go out for lunch, take a walk then do a bit of shopping. And they’re so down. Then on the shopping trip you can test their generosity and get a sense for whether they’re worth seeing again.
Salts will just unmatch and disappear because they know they will have to buy you things from the start. It also sets it up so that it is clear to them I do not come for free and my tastes are expensive.
Tinder for sugaring… why did I only start this recently!? I officially have a new POT 😍
My Tinder Sugar Game Be Like...
Him: Wow you are gorgeous-- but I have to ask... why is a beautiful girl like you interested in a situation like mine / someone like me?
Him: I'm looking for *insert blah blah blah*... what about you?
Me: Because I'm looking for a successful, intelligent, ambitious man who knows what he wants and wants to help me achieve my goals as much as I enjoy being with him. I like spoiling and being spoiled... *angel emoji* I like real connections but I live such a busy life I can't and am not looking to be a "girlfriend" at the moment, what with texting all the time etc... but I do like sharing genuine moments with someone whose company I genuinely enjoy.
Him: So you're looking for a sugar daddy?
Me: What are you looking for?
*drops mic, leaves the ball in his court*
*ALTERNATIVE RESPONSE BELOW*
Him: Much of the same thing.
Me: To make sure we're on the same page... I am looking for a sugar daddy. If this at all interests you, let me know and we can talk details. If not, hey, I totally understand! :) Let me know xo
How to Not Have The Generic Sugar Baby Profile
I’m sorry, but I’m tired of seeing you hoes have the same generic sugar baby profiles and wonder why you’re not getting the responses that you want! We always talk about what “sugar daddies” like to mention on their profiles, but we don’t discuss what sugar babies mention on their profiles that no one gives a fuck about or is a lie.
Sugar daddies don’t give a damn if you’re “hard-working” or you like to volunteer at animal shelters. You need to make your overall profile stand out from the rest and get the money you deserve from these men! You have to sell yourself as a sexy fun bombshell that every rich man wants to have and will pay for. Men are more focused on how good you look and how you can add to their social lives, save mentioning your volunteer work or your love to read for when you already reeled in a POT and you’re already on your date. You cannot sound boring on your profile, sex sells honey! I got time tonight and I turned on my Pandora, so I’m going to give you tips and tricks on how to have a bomb ass profile bitch!
Avoid using these words/phrases on your “about me” sugar profile:
I’m hard-working
I’m a student in college
I like to work out/I’m fit
I like to (insert generic interest or hobby like read or cook)
I like to go out
I don’t go out a lot
I like to travel
I hope to have a career in ______
I’m _____ years old/I’m young
I’m a princess
I love to be spoiled/pampered
I like to go shopping
What to include in your photo section:
There’s a whole new way of writing your profile to make yourself stand out and attract legitimate SDs, and it involves photos. Anybody can talk shit about how great or attractive they are, but you have to show it to get the results you want on sugaring profiles. Walk the walk, not just talk the talk. For example, instead of mentioning how “fit” you are, show how fit you are in your profile photos! Post at least 2 body pictures, one from the torso up, and another a full body shot. Make sure you look sexy and showing some skin, wearing flattering clothes that accentuates your features or a nice swimsuit. You’re a bad bitch with full lips and smooth skin or “exotic” facial features? Show that face off in your profile pictures. Have one or two selfies with a nice glam makeup look and one photo with a natural makeup look. I’ll make another post on how to take and edit photos for sugar profiles in the future. Don’t just mention how attractive you are in your profile, prove it with clear, nice photos as well. Bonus: Keep two or three “private” risque or swimsuit photos of yourself for serious POTs only. Don’t give away private access to your photos to men who can’t even properly introduce themselves. Private photos adds mystery to your profile and can attract more men.
What to include in your “about me” section:
I cannot stress this enough, YOU HAVE TO REALLY SELL YOURSELF! You are the product and you have to convince these men that you are the one they want. It’s best to build up your persuasive writing skills in order to have the best profile you can.
Instead of mentioning a bland and generic “I like to go out”, give examples of how you like to go out. Saying, “I spend my leisurely weekends on the roof tops of the best bars in the city and sailing on a yacht in my favorite red bikini, maybe you can join me?”, sounds a lot more exciting than “I like to go out and have fun”. It’ll give the POT an idea of what you really like to do and he’ll be willing you invite you out on a yacht so he can see that red bikini in real life. Your college major is nursing? So say, “Helping and taking care of others are a few of my life passions, so nursing became my college major. Let me nurse you when you’re feeling sick or is stressed from your busy career and personal life, by being your fun sugar baby.”
You’re smart and educated? Say, “I am current on world events and I can engage in intellectual conversations on several topics that can enlighten us both.” You have to include that POT into your interests/hobbies and your social life. He has to imagine himself doing your favorite interests/hobbies with you. If you don’t like going out, it sounds a lot better just to say, “Who needs to go out when we can make our own fun indoors with a nice cooked meal and cuddle while watching a great movie!” You like to travel? Say, “Let’s spend our summers in the Caribbean with cocktails and enjoying the view of the beautiful blue beach and sun.” Get it now?
What to include in your “what I’m seeking” section:
Now this is the part you can mention how you struggling to pay tuition or need help with rent, but please don’t come off as demanding, picky, and most importantly, desperate! Don’t say, “I need help paying for student loans/college tuition”, say, “I’m seeking a generous man that sees the value and importance of a college education, and would love to invest in me to reach my goals and start a successful career.” Please for the love of God, Allah, and Buddha, don’t say, “I want to be spoiled like a princess and go shopping everyday”, that is cringe-worthy as fuck! You sound like an entitled brat. Instead, just say, “Don’t like shopping? I can make the experience a lot more fun and sexy for you as I try on dresses, heels, and lingerie for you while shopping downtown. I can become your personal shopper and spark your closet with clothes that will make you look great!” You want to have your own business? Say something like, “I am seeking to have a business-minded SD that would love to invest in my future business endeavors in _____.” The point is to convince the POT/SD to spend his dough on you and that he will be getting something in return other than sex, like appreciation and gratification. Mention how you will show your appreciation and add value for the right man that takes care of you, by showing physical affection and by other means. That’s the point of a mutually beneficial arrangement. Make sure to put a disclaimer that intimacy will occur organically and when an arrangement is in place, SA salts are notorious for expecting sex on the first date, especially without paying you cash. A real SD is not going to rush into sex and has to prove his worthiness by spending cash in order to get it.
Two last things, keep the basic information like your age, location, and lifestyle budget out of the about me section. That information is already stated when you initially filled in your profile. Last but not least, if you’re using Seeking Arrangements, don’t ever ever ever put “negotiable” as your lifestyle budget, that will attract the low and gutter men of the websites. Always have it at least on moderate.
Now go get that money and the man you deserve!
Hello! A lot of you have been asking me where and how I’ve learn multiple languages and well, after a few hours of digging through my browser history and bookmarks, I was able to collect all of these resources. I have personally used all of these, so I can assure you they are useful! If there is something wrong with a website or a link, please let me know. Also, if you have any questions or if you want a learning buddy, my ask box is open. (I speak English and Spanish. I’m learning Korean, German, Japanese, Chinese, Portuguese, Italian, and Esperanto)
Note: Learning a new language requires a lot of dedication, more than you actually think! Especially if you’re learning multiple languages at the same time. It isn’t impossible, but it will take time. And by time I mean months and/or years! So please, be patient. Take your time. Don’t rush. Keep in mind that you will mess up and that’s okay. Practice as much as you can. Practice out loud. Talk to yourself if you can. It doesn’t matter if people think you’re crazy. They won’t be thinking the same when you become a polyglot, so don’t mind them. This is for you and your future.
Get started:
Everything listed below is FREE! Some sites do require you to sign up, but that’s for you to keep track of your own process.
Tips to get you started
Language Hacking tips (blog)
More language hacking tips (blog)
The Polyglot Project (Library with foreign books that lets you translate while reading)
How to Learn Any Language
Effective Language Learning
Ankidroid (flashcard maker)
Multiple languages, one website
Duolingo (Latin American Spanish, French, German, Brazilian Portuguese, Italian, Dutch, Irish, Danish, Swedish, Turkish, Norwegian (Bokmål), Ukrainian, and Esperanto)
BBC Languages (40 languages)
Learn A Language (18 languages)
Conjuguemos (French, German, Italian, Latin, Portuguese, Spanish)
L-lingo (21 languages)
101languages (167 languages)
Languagepod101 (31 languages)
Foreign Services Institute (44 languages)
My Languages (95 languages)
Surface Languages (43 languages)
Lingualia (Spanish)
Linguanaut (16 languages)
OmniGlot (All languages [basic info for some of them])
Memrise (Various languages) (flashcard system)
Livemocha (Various languages)
Polyglotclub
Sharedtalk
Interpals (specify in your profile you only look for language exchange because there can be some creeps in this one)
Couchsurfing
Babbel
Specific Languages
Korean:
Learn to read Korean in 15 minutes! - Really helpful as well
Learnkoreanlp - Focuses on grammar
k-is4korean
Talktomeinkorean
Learn-korean
korean-flashcards - Focuses on vocabulary
Easytolearnkorean
Korean.go.kr/ - Focuses on pronunciation
Lang-8 - Community to correct your entries
Dongsa - Conjugations for verbs
Howtostudykorean- EXTREMELY helpful when it comes to learning hangul and writing structure!
hangulpractice - This blog has some useful posts.
letstteok-korean
Talktomeinkorea (YouTube channel)
fluentkorean
sweetandtasty
seoulistic - For culture lessons
GenkiKorean
Korean Word Game
English-Korean Vocabulary Quizzes
Hangul Keyboard - This is also EXTREMELY helpful with Hangul/romanization. It also converts any romanized syllables into hangul
Korean - Reddit threat
Chinese/Mandarin:
Hackingchinese
Chinese-tools - Pretty helpful with pronunciation.
Chinese Open courseware
Chinese Language - Reddit threat
Chinese Textbook
Chineasy
Learn Mandarin
Chinese Hacks
yoyochinese
How can I learn Chinese
Why is Chinese so damn hard?
Japanese:
Learn Japanese I / II - YouTube
Guidetojapanese
Free Japanese lesson
Japaneseclass.jp
thejapanesepage
Japanesepod101
Tofugu
Erin’s Challenge!
Jplang
Yesjapan
Marugoto - Includes culture lessons
Kana Invaders - Fun game for learning Kana
Another great masterpost for Japanese - So many resources!!!
Esperanto:
Note: I did a research and supposedly Esperanto is an easy-to-learn language that helps you with other languages.
Esperantofre
Esperanto “library”
Esperanto Grammar
Esperanto (Duolingo)
German:
Learn German Online
German Language Guide
Mission Berlin - Mystery adventure game
Basic German
Deutsch Lernen
Slow German
Kids’ Games - For vocabulary
Italian:
MIT Open Courseware
Italian Language Guide
Italian Grammar
Italian For Beginners - YouTube
Latin:
Some Latin grammar
Latin Course - YouTube
Portuguese:
Oneness
Ta Falado
Portuguese (Duolingo)
French:
Learn French Guide
Coffee Break French
University of Texas: Francais interactif
Podcastfrancaisfacile
French Language Guide
Lingopolo/french
Le Journal en français facile
News in Slow French
Francolab
Cliffs Notes
Native French Speech
French Podcast
Spanish:
Spanish - About.com
@spanishskulduggery
Study Spanish
Cliffs Notes
Destinos
One Minute Spanish
One Minute Spanish (Latin America focused)
Thai:
Learn Thai Podcast
Woman Learn Thai
Let’s Talk Thai
Thai 101
Lingopolo/thai
Arabic:
Books to Learn Arabic
Mandinah Arabic
Arabic Verbs (PDF)
al3arabiya
Arabic Pronouns (PDF)
Arabic Alphabet / Also Here / And Here!
Arabic For Language Exchange
Peace Corps
Hindi:
A Door Into Hindi
Learning Hindi
NYU Hindi Course
Quillpad - Great for typing
Namaste Dosti
SU Hindi Course
ispeakhindi
Hindi Script
Vietnamese:
VietnamesePod101
Survival Phrases
seasite.niu.edu
Learn Vietnamese Online
Greek:
Some Greek Grammar (New Testament)
Romanian:
Rolang
One Minute Romanian
Welsh:
Say Something in Welsh
Welsh Vocab
Dutch:
Lingopolo/dutch
Learn Dutch
Russian:
Speak Russian
Russian Alphabet
Taste of Russian
Master Russian
Russian Open Courseware
Russian Handwriting
Swedish:
Klartext
SwedishLingQ
Survival Phrases
That’s it. That’s all I have right now. I’ll try to search for more and will keep updating this list! If you have a request for a specific language, just send me an ask. Have fun and good luck!
My sister just got me started on Memrise for Japanese a few days ago and wow, it’s amazing. It’s not just flashcards but a combination of audio+visual+writing and uses user-submitted, ranked-by-vote mnemonic devices whenever possible. Plus, the way it keeps track of your progress is like a game, giving you points for doing well and letting you compete with other people. :)
And you get a bunch of extra points for reviewing old material at set intervals to make sure it sticks in your long term memory! Not to mention it has a very cute design, having each character/word/phrase be a ‘plant’ you have to keep ‘watered.’
Duolingo is such a life saver.
