We're all damaged.

This is my aesthetic(?) blog, open for edit suggestions or requests. I'm nonbinary, he/they pronouns. DNI if: MAP, Pedophile, ageplay, CGL, DDLG, TERF, TEHM, anti-LGBTQIA+(Ex. transphobe, biphobe, aphobe, ect), racist, knowingly use slurs, against disabled people, or transmed/truscum. If you need more specifics, look up the tag "dni" on my blog. Thank you. Most of the things I post or reblog can/will be somewhat depressing, so if you aren't into that, I suggest leaving. Feel free to stay if you'd like. if you're going through a rough time, I'm open to help out, if I have the time. I can try to help you, chat with you, be a distraction, be here to just let you rant to, whatever you need. But I heavily suggest talking with someone closer to you, calling the suicide hotline [phone]) or texting the text equivalent to said suicide hotline, or talking with a professional(Ex: a therapist) if you need help. You are loved, you are wanted, you are important, you make a good difference in the world, and you deserve to live and be happy. It's going to get better someday.

[damaged-days]

As much as I would love to keep my past pinned post up, I have decided it is better for my DNI to be pinned. I do not want you near me or any of my content if you are the following, and if you are or are okay with these people, please respectfully leave me alone and get off my blog:

MAP(Minor attracted person)/NOMAP/Pedophile(they're all the same thing.), ageplay/agere(if its nsfw), CGL(caregiver/little), DDLG(dom d***y little girl), TERF(trans-exclusionary radical feminist), TEHM(trans-exclusionary homosexual man), anti-LGBTQIA+(Example; transphobe, biphobe, panphobe, aphobe, ect), racist, a trump supporter, ableist, if you use and/or are okay with people using slurs like r/*/t/*/rd, g/*/p/*/y, ect., or transmed/truscum.

I don't wish to start an argument, I wish to be respectful, please get off my blog and content if any of those apply to you or someone you know and like/interact with.

Thank you for listening.

[lil-reminders]

there are people who will love you exactly the way you are.

[chocolatecroissant]

a gentle reminder that you don’t have to have it all figured out now. if everything seems overwhelming right now, try focusing on getting through the next hour, and if that’s too hard, the next minute. you got this <3

[damaged-days]

Hello, everyone. This will be a kind of short post, you can respond if you'd like, but it's absolutely not required.

I've been considering including some recovery and helping posts in this blog, both others and my own content. This way, I can both offer content that is relatable, gives others images and words to vent as well, and can help someone feel less alone in their pain(as just a couple examples of how vent content may help, though of course its not for everyone), as well as let myself continue to have an outlet for my feelings. Paired with this, I could have posts that could help in an alternative way. Content that offers reassurance, tips and tricks to help get through day-to-day struggles, mood boosters, and more. This also gives me the opportunity to include more positivity in what I create, making me think better about myself, use the tips I find, and other personal things. I would like to know how viewers of this blog feel about this possible change, however, as I understand that the change may not be what helps the majority of you, and I could always post the more positive content on another blog.

So, with that said, do you have an opinion on this? Would you like the blog to stay on the path its on, or branch out a little and include more positive content? You can send a message saying what you prefer, or an ask, or you can reply to this post. It can be as simple as a thumbs up or a thumbs down emoji, which may be the best way. I'll give this a few days, and then I'll see what to do. Personally, I'd love to include recovery content. :D

[damaged-days]

Good news, everyone, with the feedback from some of you, I'm VERY happy to say I'm going to be posting and reblogging recovery content now! I'm so excited to start. I hope you're all excited as well! I hope you have a wonderful week. Take care of yourself!

[damaged-days]

Hello, everyone. This will be a kind of short post, you can respond if you'd like, but it's absolutely not required.

I've been considering including some recovery and helping posts in this blog, both others and my own content. This way, I can both offer content that is relatable, gives others images and words to vent as well, and can help someone feel less alone in their pain(as just a couple examples of how vent content may help, though of course its not for everyone), as well as let myself continue to have an outlet for my feelings. Paired with this, I could have posts that could help in an alternative way. Content that offers reassurance, tips and tricks to help get through day-to-day struggles, mood boosters, and more. This also gives me the opportunity to include more positivity in what I create, making me think better about myself, use the tips I find, and other personal things. I would like to know how viewers of this blog feel about this possible change, however, as I understand that the change may not be what helps the majority of you, and I could always post the more positive content on another blog.

So, with that said, do you have an opinion on this? Would you like the blog to stay on the path its on, or branch out a little and include more positive content? You can send a message saying what you prefer, or an ask, or you can reply to this post. It can be as simple as a thumbs up or a thumbs down emoji, which may be the best way. I'll give this a few days, and then I'll see what to do. Personally, I'd love to include recovery content. :D

[traaumaa]

[damaged-days]

Why?

[bleakmentality]

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[summerscoldhands]

Welcome back :)

[damaged-days]

Oh, thank you! That means quite a lot to me. I also hope you're doing okay, and that you have a good day, and rest of the week.

[chlorofeel-deactivated20240728]

[bleakmentality]

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[damaged-days]

Do you feel like you wish you can open up to people?

With certain people and certain situations, yes. Most of the time, no. I'm glad to have people in my life that I trust to tell the full truth to, whether it be if im feeling particularly anxious, upset, or I need to be honest about how I feel about, for example, a small upsetting thing to me that would normally be fine to pretty much anyone else. Some subjects aren't good conversations for some people, either because itd be very upsetting for one or both of us, or even meaningless in their eyes, from their perspective. It really, heavily depends in the subject. I pretty much always open up to my loved ones eventually, though.

[damaged-days]

I wanted to give up :(

I understand why you wanted to. I'm glad you say 'wanted' instead of 'want', that's wonderful progress! I'm very proud of you. I hope you keep making progress, I know you can get better, take it from me, its worth it to be alive, and it's worth it to be here. Everyone has their reasons, mine are family, friends, and pets, but if those aren't your type of reasons, you could stay for experiences, like making the perfect toast, or laughing so hard at something your eyes water, or the feeling of being wrapped up in a soft, warm blanket. You could also stay for future and upcoming things, like a shopping trip so you can get your favorite snack, or a game that's coming out later this year, or a YouTuber you love to watch who'll be uploading soon. You can stay for so many things, they're all worth it. If you'd like to talk about some reasons that keep you going, or if you want help finding some, or help in general, or just feel like talking, my DMs are open.

[compulsive]

[recaption]

[understands]

[damaged-days]

This hurts too much to be worth it

[secret-mind]