I feel nothing, usually, but depending on their tone I might feel varying degrees of annoyance. People are free to like and dislike whatever they want in a ship. It's not that other people don't like UlquiHime that annoys me, it's that they demand anyone to justify their ships based on their own preferences.
A ship is not required to be healthy or ideal to be valid. Where in the world did the idea that only wholesome ships are good come from?
Literature across time and cultures is full of all kinds of relationships. Literature exists to explore worlds, concepts, people, and relationships that may not be realistic or accessible to most or all people. Why would a person A expect person B to limit their literary taste to what person A finds wholesome and comfy? That's just silly.
All that being said, people ship UlquiHime for a variety of reasons. Some actually do ship it precisely for its potential to be toxic. They may find it curious, interesting, cathartic, or maybe they just want to see some good old fashioned pain.
Some people ship it because they look good together and that's it. Maybe they just want to see the pretty characters smash. Nothing wrong with that.
Some people ship UlquiHime not because of what it was, but what it had potential to grow into (Beauty and the Beast is a loved story for a reason).
Others may ship UlquiHime because the tension between the characters was very compelling. Ulquiorra's growth from a hollow void to a being understanding of human emotion and experience because of his interaction with Orihime and her influence on him is inspiring. These shippers are also likely to believe that Ulquiorra grew to love her to the extent that he was able just before he died. Orihime is the epitome of empathetic care and she clearly (and canonically via Unmasked) cared for Ulquiorra and had an understanding for why may have acted has he did. This is different from sympathy. She knew he was in conflict of her morals and did not mistake understanding for realigning her beliefs to his.
(Also don't mention Stockholm Syndrome to me in context to the above paragraph, it is misogynistic bunk that is not actually a "syndrome" and has never been included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders or DSM. Click here if you're interested in that conversation.)
TL;DR ship what you want and stay in your lane. It's fiction, for gods' sakes.
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