the planet that holds rulership over the 1H/ASC can be referred to as the chart ruler, the planet that has the most significant impact on how the native is perceived by others, their physical appearance/vitality, and their approach to life. i recommend looking into the planet, the sign it's in, and the aspects it's making to the rest of your chart, as this will provide more context into how the energy will manifest in your life. to find your chart ruler, identify your rising sign, the planet that traditionally rules it, and where in your chart that planet falls.
─ aries/scorpio ascendants are ruled by mars, taurus/libra ascendants are ruled by venus, gemini/virgo ascendants are ruled by mercury, cancer ascendants are ruled by the moon, leo ascendants are ruled by the sun, sagittarius/pisces ascendants are ruled by jupiter, and capricorn/aquarius ascendants are ruled by saturn.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 1H
when the chart ruler resides in the 1H, matters of the self are ignited and extremely prevalent. the native is being called to develop their identity and self awareness in this lifetime. this also indicates that the ways in which these individuals go about expressing themselves will be very prominent. their independence can be of great importance to them, and they could struggle in situations where they feel like their individuality is being impeded upon. they prefer to lead and not follow, which can work to their advantage in terms of being pioneers and inspiring others, but may also cause strife in terms of their relationship to authoritative figures in their lives.
if the planet holding rulership here is a benefic like venus or jupiter, assuming that neither of them are afflicted and aspect the rest of the chart more so positively than negatively, this energy will work to the native's advantage. they tend to be very charismatic and wise, (energetically) attractive and magnetic, and very charitable and giving by nature, all qualities that tend to make them fit for leadership positions. in terms of physicality, venusian/jupiterian influence over the 1H can indicate a stronger/weaker vitality of the lower back/hips, liver, kidneys, and pancreas. appearance-wise, these native's could be on the curvier/fuller side, and have round, soft facial features.
on the other hand, if a malefic like mars or saturn is the planetary ruler, there may be an evident learning curve in regard to self-expression and the relationship to the body. natives with these placements may encounter far more conflict in their interactions with others than the average person, as they typically have a very stoic, domineering, authoritative, and potentially aggressive energy about them that can rub other people the wrong way (especially if these people are fellow martians or saturnians themselves).
they may rely too heavily on their "brutal honesty", and have to work towards developing the social awareness and empathy needed to maintain functional relationships. regardless, the hardships they encounter in life (typically in youth) tend to work as the fuel that ignites the resilient and persevering qualities within these natives that people do admire about them. in terms of physicality, martian/saturnian influence over the 1H can indicate a stronger/weaker vitality of the head (headaches/migraines could be prominent), the cardiovascular system, adrenal glands, pelvis, skin, teeth, tendons/ligaments, and bones.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 2H
when the chart ruler resides in the 2H, matters of one's personal material possessions are of the utmost importance. these natives may find that they are being called to not only find and maintain a sense of physical security for themselves, specifically in terms of their income and home, but explore what it is that they assign worth to and why. these natives may have been conditioned from youth to view their self-worth as synonymous with how much money they have, the quality of the clothes they wear/food they eat, how nice their home/car is, etc.
it's also a possibility that these natives may use their identity or physical body as a means to make money (e.g. socialites/models, athletes, etc.). this is especially true if the sun is the planetary ruler here, as these natives can utilize their personalities and their bodies as a "resource". this can further amplify the instinct to take pride in their wealth, and while this isn't inherently negative, these natives may need to be mindful as to not become overly superficial or egotistical in the ways that they assign worth to material possessions. in terms of physicality, the sun's influence over the 1H can indicate a stronger/weaker vitality of the heart, spine, and upper back.
if the moon is the planetary ruler, it can be a very intense experience, as the moon is representative of our sense of security, both mentally and physically. therefore, if the moon is aspected positively in the natal chart, and there aren't any malefic planets present in the 1H or 2H, this can manifest positively in the sense that the native is less likely to run into any turbulence in terms of finding and maintaining stability in their domestic lives. whereas if the moon is afflicted and/or malefics are present in either the 1H or 2H, the native may encounter more hardships and feel insecure about their money/living situation.
these experiences may have been more prevalent in their youth, and it's possible that the mother/maternal figure had a significant impact on the native's relationship to money and material possessions. this can also indicate that their emotions play a significant role in what it is that they do to make money, they could work in the medical field, with children, in the food industry, real estate, etc. in terms of physicality, the moon's influence over the 1H can indicate a stronger/weaker vitality of the chest/breasts and stomach.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 3H
when the chart ruler resides in the 3H, matters of the native's immediate environment play a significant role in shaping their identity. early academic experiences, siblings (or any close relatives), and their neighbors could have a strong impact on the their sense of self. they may find strength in having a community that they feel they can rely on. this can also indicate recurring aspects of the native's routine could be formative and integral to their character (e.g. the podcasts/music they listen to, the park they take their dog to, the library or cafe they study at, the books they read, etc.). this could also indicate great communication/writing skills, these natives may be very talkative by nature, and could enjoy discussing their academic interests.
if a benefic planet holds rulership here, the energy of this house tends to manifest in a productive way, assuming that the planet in question isn't afflicted. for example, if venus is the planetary ruler, the native can express themselves in a way that is very persuasive and charismatic. they could be skilled networkers and find ease in maintaining harmonious connections with people within their community, this may indicate meeting potential partners through their community as well. this could also manifest as the native having multiple siblings. these natives may also have an affinity for the arts, and excel in creative fields, especially related to singing or writing.
on the other hand, if a malefic planet holds rulership here, the native could encounter more strife related to matters of the 3H. for example, if saturn is the planetary ruler, they may encounter limitations within their immediate environments, as well as conflict between themselves and their siblings or neighbors. these natives could struggle with anxiety when communicating with others, which may stem from difficulties in early education, as they may have processed information or communicated in a way that was different to the students around them. they tend to communicate in a very "matter-of-fact" way, and tend to come off very authoritative, whether they intend to or not. despite their hardships, the restriction and delays they face serve to teach them the value in this area of their lives. these natives typically grow to become skilled thinkers and communicators.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 4H
with the chart ruler in the 4H, matters related to one's domestic life will have a significant impact on the native's character. those with this placement might also have the chart ruler conjunct the IC and therefore opposite the MC, which may indicate strife between the private/public life. generally speaking, while we are all conditioned in some way shape or form by our upbringings, i would argue there's a choice in how much of it we carry into adulthood. for those that have their chart ruler in the 4H, they may find it difficult to separating the ways in which they were raised to think and behave from their actual identities. they can be very private in nature, and family, lineage, and ancestry tend to play a large role in how these native's view themselves, for better or for worse.
if a benefic planet like jupiter were to hold rulership here, this would be indicative of one's domestic life having a positive impact upon the native, assuming that jupiter isn't afflicted in the natal chart. these natives may come from a very big (potentially well off) family that act as a positive influence and support system for them. they could've travelled a lot as children, lived abroad, or were introduced to and learned about cultures that were different from their own. their heritage can be of great importance to them and their family. they could also have very prolific ancestors, and may be able to trace their lineage back for generations. ultimately, their families could've shaped them to approach life from a very charitable perspective. these natives may be very open-minded, and express themselves in a way that others find to be very receptive and warm.
whereas if the ruling planet is a malefic like mars, it could indicate a tumultuous upbringing. home life for these natives could've been very chaotic growing up, they may have received "tough love" from their families more often than nourishment. it could've felt as though their parents were "coaching" them more than they were actually raising them, which could lead these natives growing up to be very strong and assertive in adulthood. it could manifest in the opposite way, though, where it could've felt like their families broke them down rather than built them up, and they could struggle with a defeatist attitude as a result.
while these natives usually have to work on any potential impulsive, self-destructive behaviors. they will benefit most when they use their emotions as fuel to go after what it is they want out of life. they have the stamina to work through any obstacles they may encounter, alongside the drive and determination to achieve their goals. they typically have leadership qualities about them that others tend to value, and can be very independent and self-assured by nature.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 5H
with the chart ruler in the 5H, matters related to creativity and romance tend to be very significant in the native's life. personally, i consider the house of "good fortune" to be one of the best places to have your chart ruler. these natives tend to have little to no difficulty in expressing themselves, and usually find ease in showcasing their talents and originality. their charismatic, imaginative nature is something that those around them tend to pick up on quickly, and they could find that it's a characteristic that others find attractive as well. this placement can also indicate that romance and love play a significant role in shaping the identity of the native as well. children could also be a formative factor for some with this placement, but the 5H signification of children could also simply refer to the act of bringing life to one's imaginative ideas.
when mercury is the planetary ruler here, these natives are able to utilize their mental agility to express their artistic side. they can be extremely engaging storytellers, and they tend to have a very captivating energy that draws people towards them. as a result, they can excel in creative fields related to writing or the performing arts. they would also bode well in professions related to teaching or academia. they may have the ability to convince those around them of quite literally anything, and they could have a tendency to overpromise or even manipulate others, especially if mercury is afflicted here.
they may also have to work on their ability to focus, as their minds can be very fast-paced. they may nurture children (whether it be their own or others) by building their intellectual confidence, and instilling in them the importance of their artistic talents. they may also be attracted to people who stimulate them mentally, they could enjoy partners who they can converse with for hours on end and never run out of things to talk about. in terms of physicality, mercury's influence over the 1H can indicate a stronger/weaker vitality of the nervous system and lungs.
if the planetary ruler here is the moon, there's typically a passionate, emotional attachment to one's creative endeavors. they may be able to express themselves creatively in a way that allows them to connect with others in a very intimate, sentimental way. as a result, they can be viewed as very empathetic people by nature. their family, upbringing, and/or mother/maternal figure may have played a significant role in shaping how they express themselves and navigate their artistic side.
they can be very protective of this side of themselves, and may fluctuate between wanting to get their creations into their world and being more reserved or timid in displaying their creations to others. this protective nature can also extend to children (whether it be their own or others), as they seek to nurture children and ensure that they feel safe and secure in their presence. they can also be very romantic by nature, and their partners can be very formative to their identities, therefore it's important that the relationships they maintain are healthy and keep them feeling safe and emotionally stable above all else.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 6H
with the chart ruler in the 6H, matters related to work, daily routine, and wellness can play a significant role in shaping the native's identity and approach to life. natives with this placement more often than not will find themselves in positions where they are of service to others. the vitality and overall health of the native (or of those around them) can also be a prominent theme in their life. animals may also play a large role in their lives, whether that be their own pets, service animals, animals that they train/care for, etc. the native's job can also have a significant impact on their approach to life, and i say "job" as in the customer-service jobs that people take to keep the lights on and pay off debt, not necessarily the career that the 10H signifies.
if the planetary ruler here is the sun, the native is typically going to show up in this area of their life with a very confident, determined attitude. these natives will usually derive a sense of pride from their work, no matter how minuscule it may seem on the surface. they also tend to care deeply about their health, and may prioritize having a healthy lifestyle not only to maintain their physical vitality, but to upkeep their physical appearance as well.
they may find purpose in caring for others as well, but it's important that they ensure that they have an identity separate of that, so that they're not constantly putting other peoples' needs before their own, especially if the sun is afflicted in the native's chart. others typically view them as being very charming, jovial, and charitable people. they may be the type of friend that others feel they can depend on in times of need, which is why it's important for them to have balanced "give and take" relationships with those around them.
if the planetary ruler here is saturn, the native tends to be very disciplined when it comes to their work and wellbeing. in youth, they may have struggled in this area of their lives, and may have encountered issues related to their health, or encountered conflict in their place of work. despite how prominent these issues may have been, it essentially shapes them to be very responsible when it comes to how they take care of their bodies, as well as how they approach their work and the people that they work with.
others may look to them for guidance, as those with this placement tend to do well in positions of authority. others tend to view them as being very reliable and strategic, but they may need to ensure that they're not overextending themselves for others or "pouring from an empty cup" so to speak. similar to having the sun as the planetary ruler here, these natives need to prioritize boundaries, and maintain balance in terms of how much of themselves they are giving to others.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 7H
when the chart ruler resides in the 7H, relationships and close connections will play a very formative role in the appearance, behavior, and lives of these natives. while the 7H does represent romantic relationships, people tend to confine the signification of the 7H solely to romance. when in reality, the 7H is more so representative of contractual relationships and the committed, intimate bond that is formed through them (e.g. marriage or business partnerships/relationships). having the chart ruler here can indicate that the native is characterized by how they relate to others, and the connections they form with those around them. these natives may have a tendency to "mirror" the mannerisms and nature of the people they have close relationships with.
if the planet that holds rulership is a benefic like venus, this can generally manifest in a productive way. these natives tend to be very charming and energetically attractive, characteristics that typically earn them a good reputation amongst others. their approach to life can be influenced by a need for comfort and stability. maintaining harmony and balance is of utmost importance to them, especially in their close relationships. it's important that they maintain healthy connections with others, as this is a placement that could prefer to "keep the peace" rather than be honest about their feelings as a means to avoid turbulence or conflict between themselves and their loved ones. these natives also tend to be artistically gifted, as they have the ability to see the beauty in all things and have a keen eye for aesthetics, therefore, they may do well when collaborating creatively with others.
on the other hand, if the planet that holds rulership is a malefic like mars, the ways in which the native connects with others tends to be on the rougher, more "abrasive" side. these natives may enjoy relationships with people they feel can take what they dish out in a sense. with the productive manifestation of this placement, the native will find healthy ways to express their martian energy in their relationships through healthy competition and debates. on the flip side, if mars is afflicted in the natal chart, there can be a tendency for domineering or argumentative behavior within one's relationships. depending on the full context of the chart, this can be a placement that can provide a level of passion and perseverance that can work in the native's favor, especially in regards to any business endeavors.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 8H
when the chart ruler resides in the 8H, matters related to shared resources, death, and transformative experiences will be prevalent and shape the native's approach to life. these natives may encounter loss more frequently than the average person, and find themselves going through cycles of rebirth multiple times throughout their lives. things such as debt, taxes, inheritance, or any material things that they share with others can play a significant role in shaping their identities and how they navigate life. they could find that they need space to themselves to heal or "regenerate" in a sense, and could have a tendency to self-isolate for periods of time. due to this, others may view them as reserved or potentially hard to read.
if the planetary ruler here is the sun, this would amplify the impact that the 8H has over the native's identity. it's possible that the father (or any relevant paternal figure) played a significant role in shaping the native's identity and their approach to life, for better or for worse, and they could potentially gain or lose money due to their father. they may have experienced crisis that led to prevalent insecurities in their self-expression. due to this, they can be very private in nature, and potentially struggle to feel understood by those around them. despite this, the hardship they've experienced tends to shape them into extremely adept healers. they understand life on a more complex level than most, and therefore are able to empathize with those who have experienced great adversity in life. they may find that through expressing themselves, they're able to aid others navigate their own personal struggles.
if the planetary ruler here is the moon, there tends to be a significant impact on the native's emotions and domestic life. contrary to the sun in the 8H, the mother (or any relevant maternal figure) will play a significant role in shaping the native's identity and approach to life, for better or for worse, and they could gain or lose money due to their mother. these natives can be very emotionally reserved, and find it difficult to express their feelings, potentially due to strife they may have faced in their youth. despite this, they tend to understand the human psyche extremely well, and are able to read others with ease. they may experience turbulence in their home lives, especially regarding financial stability. as a result, it's important that these natives build a home for themselves where they feel safe and secure. they can also be extremely artistic, and find ease in expressing their emotions through a creative outlet.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 9H
when the chart ruler resides in the 9H, expansion through spirituality and/or higher learning will be extremely formative to the native's identity. these natives are typically characterized by their sense of wanderlust, and have an insatiable hunger for knowledge. they could have very restless spirits, and as a result, travel frequently or seek to live abroad. their ideals and personal philosophies are of great importance to them, they could come across as "preachy" at times, but ultimately, they're just genuinely impassioned about the things that they believe in. they could be academics, and benefit from having mentors who not only teach them, but play a role in shaping their identities. this could manifest the opposite way as well, where they grow and evolve to a point where they can mentor and teach others.
if the planet that holds rulership here is a benefic planet like jupiter, the native is usually characterized by their optimistic nature. others tend to percieve them as jovial, uplifting people to be around, and they could have an affinity for the finer things in life. they may be very dedicated to the spiritual or religious practices that they follow, and utilize these beliefs as means to guide them through life. while these natives tend to hold their principles near and dear to their heart, they're not averse to learning about other people's viewpoints, as they tend to be very open-minded and receptive to new ideas and others' perspectives. if jupiter is afflicted here, though, it could manifest as a tendency to overindulge in vices, and overestimate one's abilities and therefore underdeliver at times.
if the planet that holds rulership is a malefic like saturn, the native may have had experiences in their youth that culminated in them feeling constricted in their beliefs and self-expression. they may have grown up in a religious household that shaped the way that they approach their relationship to the "divine" and spirituality. school and the process of learning could've been strenuous, and it may not have been until they were older that they were able to pursue a higher education and rectify their feelings surrounding academia. with time and maturity, these natives can experience growth through exploring the ideologies that are unfamiliar to them, rather than rejecting them out of fear.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 10H
when the chart ruler resides in the 10H, the native's identity is deeply influenced by their profession and public perception. for these natives, their self-worth tends to be intrinsically linked to their professional lives, for better or for worse. they're typically characterized by others as someone with a very strong work ethic, and therefore can find themselves called into positions of leadership. the native's reputation also tends to be a very prevalent theme in their lives. there could be an inherent need to find balance between one's obligation to stay true to themselves and the responsibility that their career entails. the relationship to one's parents (or any relevant authority figures) shapes the way that these natives feel about and approach their careers.
if the planetary ruler here is venus, these natives tend to be very easygoing in nature, and therefore tend to be regarded highly by both their peers and superiors in their professional lives. they can utilize their talents to work through any hardships they encounter in their career in creative ways. they typically have a very compassionate nature that their peers appreciate, and this characteristic can benefit them in terms of supervising or managing their subordinates. if venus is afflicted here, there is the potential for this to manifest as an avoidance of conflict. therefore, it's important that these natives to recognize that both their benevolent and authoritative sides can (and must) coexist so that they can be the best leader that they can be.
on the flip side, if the planetary ruler here is mars, these natives tend to be very confident and forthright in their approach to their professions. they can be extremely motivating people to work with due to their ambitious and driven nature, and therefore excel in positions of leadership. they're usually very energized and passionate about their work, and can have a tendency to be competitive. while this isn't inherently negative, this can be a placement that can instill a sense of "intimidation" in others. if mars is afflicted here, the native could struggle with being too brash with their peers, or encounter power struggles with authority figures, and could develop a reputation for being "difficult" to work with at times. these natives usually must work towards recognizing the importance in being able to work in a team, and don't prioritize their independence over professionalism.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 11H
with the chart ruler in the 11H, the native is characterized by their personal aspirations and goals, as well as the company that they keep. their approach to life is usually shaped by the connection that they have to others, whether that be their friend group, colleagues, or an organization or club that they're a part of. this can also indicate that the ways in which they're received by others plays a formative role in native's self-perception. these natives are can be very fortunate and gain a great fortune through the bonds that they form with those around them. this doesn't necessarily indicate material gain (although it can manifest that way), but it can also indicate gaining knowledge through others or gaining opportunities through networking.
if the planetary ruler here is the sun, the native will identify heavily with matters of the 11H. the native may have gained some form of fortune or knowledge through the father (or any relevant paternal figure), and the native's relationship to him may have played a significant role in shaping their aspirations. these natives can be very "magnetic" in nature, and find that they attract others towards them with ease. although, this doesn't necessarily mean that they will have a myriad of friendships or have the capacity to maintain these connections. on the contrary, it may be difficult for these natives to find people that they truly relate to. these natives usually seek to attain connections with like-minded people, and excel in friendships where there are common, shared goals between themselves and the other person. they tend to find their purpose through the causes that they dedicate themselves to, and may find themselves in positions of leadership among groups and organizations.
if the planetary ruler here is the moon, the way that the native navigates their identity and their approach to life will be shaped by the emotional connections that they form in group dynamics, as well as their emotional connection that they have to their goals. these goals could be related to the native's domestic/family life, or the domestic/family life of others. these natives are usually defined by their charismatic and empathetic nature. the native may have gained some form of fortune or knowledge through the mother (or any relevant maternal figure), and the native's relationship to her may have played a significant role in shaping their aspirations. these natives may have to work towards developing and maintain boundaries in the connections that they have with others, as they can struggle with identifying too heavily with the person that others view them as, versus the person that they actually are.
🪩˚✧ ₊˚ʚ ─ RULER OF THE 1H IN THE 12H
with the chart ruler in the 12H, matters of the subconscious will play a significant role in how the native navigates their life and identity. having the chart ruler in the house of endings and spirituality and can lead the native to feel as though they're "in between worlds" in a sense. they could struggle with feeling misunderstood more often than not, as they tend to have an air about them that others perceive as evasive. they find more comfort in the imaginative world they create for themselves. they benefit when they find ways to bring life to their visions, and are often gifted enough to manifest these things into reality. these natives would benefit from implementing spiritual practices into their lives, and finding ways to ground themselves to maintain balance between their need for introspection and isolation, and practicality and rationale.
if the planetary ruler here is jupiter, the native may seek spiritual knowledge and growth. these natives tend to luck out even when they encounter loss, as this placement can indicate spiritual or divine "protection" in a sense. those around them typically characterize them as very giving, charitable individuals. they may have to work towards not being overly self-sacrificial, and learn to implement and maintain boundaries with others. these natives may also need to be cautious of drugs and alcohol, as this placement could also potentially manifest as addictions. ultimately, these natives are typically able to utilize their intuitive and creative talents to heal both themselves and others, and are typically figures that others look to for guidance and wisdom.
if the planetary ruler here is saturn, the native tends to prioritize growth and self-discipline. despite saturn being a malefic, it rejoices in the 12H due to it's desire to retreat, introspect, and develop. this doesn't necessarily mean that this placement is "easy", as saturn in the 12H can also influence feelings of self doubt. for these natives, they're essentially being called to recognize the ways in which they sabotage themselves, and to dismantle the fears and restrictions that they place upon themselves. with time and maturity, it becomes easier for these natives to navigate these hardships. they grow to develop a strong sense of self-awareness, and through doing so are able to hold space for others, but most importantly, they're able to sympathize with themselves.
A Pisces Midheaven (MC) achieves fame through creativity, spirituality, and an ethereal public presence. Ruled by Neptune, this placement gives you a dreamy, mystical, and sometimes elusive career path. Your success comes from your ability to captivate people through imagination, emotions, and artistic expression. Pisces MCs often rise to fame in music, film, writing, healing arts, or anything that transports people to another world.
🐟 Fame Through Art & Creativity – Many Pisces MCs find success in music, acting, photography, painting, or writing. Your ability to channel emotion, fantasy, and deep symbolism makes you stand out.
🐟 A Mysterious & Elusive Public Image – You may gain fame through an air of mystery, fantasy, or spiritual depth. People may idolize you, project fantasies onto you, or see you as larger-than-life.
🐟 Spiritual & Healing Influence – You could become known for spiritual work, astrology, tarot, healing, or anything that connects people to something beyond the physical world. Your fame may stem from your compassion, wisdom, or intuitive gifts.
🐟 A Connection to Dreams & Illusions – Neptune rules film, illusions, and the subconscious, so many Pisces MCs rise to fame through cinema, storytelling, surreal art, or music that creates deep emotional experiences.
🐟 Soft Power & Emotional Influence – Unlike bold MCs (like Aries or Leo), your fame comes from subtle influence. People may not always understand why they are drawn to you, but your presence leaves a lasting impact.
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Tips for Maximizing Fame:
‼️ Use your imagination & emotions to create – Pisces MCs shine when they bring beauty, depth, and magic into their work.
‼️ Embrace your fluid career path – Your journey may not be linear, but trust the waves of inspiration and transformation.
‼️ Maintain boundaries in the public eye – With Neptune’s influence, you may struggle with people projecting onto you or misunderstanding you.
‼️ Trust your intuition – Your gut feelings about career decisions will guide you toward the right opportunities.
‼️ Use music, visuals, or storytelling to enchant people – Pisces MCs often hypnotize their audience through sound, visuals, and emotion.
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✿Eros square Saturn-Sex frustration. This can intensify the sexual tension between 2 people. Desire is present but kept under constant block or delay.
✿Mars in 8th House-Unadulterated animal passion. Mars person arouses primal hunger in house person. But games of power and jealousy?Go wild with your imagination.
✿Juno conjunct Eros-Permanent sexual compatibility. Erotic love is to be and for always.
✿Venus in 5th House-Romantic charm and erotic playfulness. Venus is enamored of house person, but can get bored if it's skin-deep only.
✿Mercury conjunct Eros- Erotic talk. Dirty texts, voice fetishes, and intellectual turn-on (especially for eros person)are very common with this overlay.
✿Pluto in 1st House-Instant obsession. Pluto's fixated on the house person's body and energy. The house person's too intensely known yikes and sultry.
✿Mars square Pluto-Sex like a volcano. One of you dominating and the other enjoying secretly. Power struggles are constant, though.
✿Mercury in 8th House-The mental seduction is off the charts. Conversations turn confessional and kinkier than expected.
✿Sun in 8th House-Sun person builds intense sexual interest and intimacy to the house person. Feels destiny or like a psychological strip-tease.
✿Eros conjunct Mars-Passionate pursuit. Eros makes Mars' approach to desire erotic. Sex is magnetic, bold, and frequent.
✿Lilith in 8th House-Sex taboos, power, shame, and obsession. Lilith releases the house person's suppressed lust.
✿Mars in 1st House-Powerful physical attraction. Mars is attracted to the body of the house person. May be aggressive or too much too soon.
✿Lilith conjunct Sun-The Lilith individual awakens the Sun's shadow sexuality. Taboo, intense attraction. Often irresistible. Sometimes scandalous.
✿Mars in 12th House-Psychic/sexual attachment. Fantasies, dreams, and forbidden relationships. But unclear motives can sully it.
✿Eros conjunct Venus-The Eros person is usually the one who gets hit harder initially.They’re the one who sees the Venus person as the living embodiment of their erotic ideal. Venus oozes the kind of beauty, charm, and sensuality that Eros has fantasized about but couldn’t name.
✿Eros in 1st House-The house person turns the Eros person on just by existing. Sexual attraction is real.
✿Moon in 5th House-Emotional and romantic passion. Sexuality is part of love. Can be like teens' love (and drama).
✿Eros in 12th House-Taboo fantasies, hidden desires, and very karmic bond. Can be spiritually deep or emotionally complex.
✿Mars trine Uranus-Sex is electric, unconventional, and experimental. Shocks and slippery to describe.
✿Eros in 10th House-Sexualized public image. Professional respect can be transformed into sexual tension between co-workers.
✿Eros in 3rd House-Turned on by words, voice, and even arguments. Sexting is next-level. Writers beware.
✿Pluto conjunct Venus-Consuming love. Venus is possessed. Pluto becomes possessive. Sex is extreme and transformative or devouring.
✿Psyche conjunct Mars-The Psyche person feels spiritually aroused by Mars’ body and actions. Mars awakens sacred lust in Psyche.
✿Sappho conjunct Venus-Powerful sexual desire. Artistic, erotic, poetic love.
✿Lilith conjunct Mars-Femme fatale x war god. Dynamite attraction, possession, and bedroom power-switching.
✿Pluto in 5th House-Sex and romance as power struggles. Can't help it. The sex is addictive, but there's manipulation involved especially from the pluto person.
✿Juno in 5th House-Eternal lover energy. Committed, romantic, and highly physically affectionate.
✿Eros opposite Neptune-Erotic dream. Fantasy is more enjoyable than real life. Feels cheated when fantasy gets busted.
✿Venus opposite Pluto-The battle of wills. Venus craves sweetness, Pluto craves depth. One is used. The other, loved.
✿Mars in 6th House-The Mars person wants to serve or be served. Taking over kinks by habit or domination can develop.
✿Lilith in 3rd House-Lilith person loves dirty talk with the house person during sex. Seductive speech, forbidden dialogue, and love/hate banter.
✿Mars square Mars-Short-tempered tension. Hot sex, sure but perpetual sleepless nights battling over who gets to dominate.
✿Psyche in 1st House-Sizzling erotic soulmate energy. Psyche is strongly attracted to the house person's body and spirit.
JUNO CONJUNCT SUN, VENUS OR ASC: Pure loyalty & devotion. One thing Ive noticed with this synastry is that they had my back. Men with their Juno conjunct my Sun, Venus or Ascendant also saw me as their ideal and really showed it.
VENUS CONJUNCT MC: People with Venus in my 10th house almost always treat me with so much adoration. Ive noticed that they looove my public image. They also tend to be protective over me. They also love to be seen with me which makes me feel like a queen.
VENUS OPPOSITE MARS: Balancing eachother perfectly. One is ying and the other is yang. They have the qualities I lack and vice versa. Our personalites melted together perfectly because of this. This is the aspect where youre a bottom and you meet someone and find out they are a top.
VENUS 2ND HOUSE: The best compliments ive ever gotten were from people with their Venus in my 2nd house. This one never fails. They always make me feel appreciated. They see something in me that I dont. Pure appreciation.
MOON 1ST HOUSE: With this one you can almost skip the ”get to know eachother phase”. From the first meeting it feels like youve known eachother for years. It feels so obvious that you should be together. You dont know eachother you feel eachother. The closest of close.
MOON TRINE OR SEXTILE MOON: Everything seems to just be so easy when I have this placement with someone. We are similar but not too similar. The same humour and core values. I find myself agreeing with everything they say.
MOON IN THE 8TH HOUSE: This is one of the aspects I ONLY like when its with someone I have a romantic relationship with. I cant stand this one in friendships or with people I barely know because then the obsession just turns weird and stalkerish. Im fine with my man being obsessed with me tho.
LILITH CONJUNCT MOON: When a mans Lilith is conjunct my Moon he loves me for who I am. He loves the part of me that nobody else likes. I love the fascination that men with their Lilith in my moon have with my hidden side.
PSYCHE CONJUNCT MOON: Nobody sees through me like someone I have this synastry with. He knows me from the inside & out to the point its creepy. But this aspect is only for people who are comfortable with their own shadow side otherwise you wont like this one.
This combination gives a personality that experiences difficulties with relationships. You are likely to have had painful experiences surrounding marriage and intimate partnerships, but there are also great rewards to be gained in this area. You are drawn to relationship at the same time that you fear it, so that you may also have a strong focus on forming close emotional attachments. You may have had early childhood experiences that made it hard to accept the love of others in your adult life. With these distractions, you also may strongly desire to help other people, and yet be unable to give them the full benefit of your higher self. It is good to make the effort to connect yourself consciously with any painful events that may be buried in your unconscious, so that these will no longer have so much power over you. Once you have begun to integrate these painful feelings consciously, and shed the baggage of earlier frustrations, you can be a more fully participating partner to others, and be more of help to them as well.
Venus opposite Jupiter people are beautiful people inside and out, they have loving souls and a happy aura to go along with that. They are free spirits who do what they please when they please, they inspire others to do the same by simply being themselves. But, always wanting to only do things that please them causes them to be somewhat lazy and unmotivated to reach their goals in life. These people dislike routines and what to get things done on their own time, deadlines give them anxiety. Going along with that last point, they don’t respond well to discipline or constructive criticism, or having any kind of responsibility.
VOJ people have no problem finding friends or lovers due to their accepting and freeing personality, they are also very perceptive to the feelings of others. Friends do love them but can learn to doubt that they are going to follow through on their promises as they are wonderful at promising more than they can provide, they don’t do it to be malicious though they just really want to please everyone and don’t realize there’s only so much of them to go around. They have trouble expressing strong opinions as they don’t want to offend anyone, because of this they can end up with lovers who don’t respect them and who will try to dominate them.
VOJ people are creative and full of ideas that could change the world or the industry they choose to enter. It is very easy for them to take any one of their beloved hobbies and turn them into a profitable career. They need a job where they can be their own boss, follow their own rules and work at their own pace. To enjoy their job to the fullest it would benefit them to have a career that allows them to show off their creative capabilities as this will ensure that work is pleasurable for them therefore they won’t give up and just quit coming to work one day because it’s boring or they’ve found something better to invest their time in.
♡My advice for Venus Opposite Jupiter♡: Darling you are so sweet, almost too sweet. Stand up for yourself, you’re allowed to have opinions just like everyone else no matter whose feelings they hurt. I know doing the things you love all of the time would be ideal but that’s just not the real world, make the things you need to get done into a game or whatever you need to do to make them fun so you will accomplish those tasks. Don’t let your lovers or friends walk all over you, like I said before you are allowed to have your own opinion on things and you don’t have to agree to still be friends or lovers and if they say that they will leave you because you disagree with them then you need to leave anyway because that’s controlling. ♡
Song for VOJ: Can’t Pin Me Down - Marina and the Diamonds
You have a charm and an appeal about you that others cannot resist. You draw people to you like a magnet and you have the uncanny knack of attracting anything and everything you need. You know how to tell people exactly what they want to hear, which is not always good. At times it is difficult for you to say no because you do not want to hurt anyone. Yet you do not see that many times you use people and think quite nothing of it. Remember that one day you will reap what you sow.
◾ Venus conjunct Jupiter
You are a generous, warm-hearted and open-handed person who shares every resource with others. You give of both yourself and your possessions to those whom you favor. You do not want to be limited in any way, either with your affections or with your personal possessions. You enjoy luxury and refinement and you desire to always be in comfortable, elegant surroundings. You hate having to get your hands dirty. You are charming, gracious and charitable and you are the model host or hostess. This aspect brings material good fortune, which has been earned from previous lives. If there is a negative here, then it is your tendency towards self-indulgence, over-extravagance and laziness. Sometimes things come to you so easily that you do not appreciate them. Things are most appreciated if one has to work hard for them. There may be a love of rich, sweet food as well as too much of it, hence a tendency to gain weight. You are a very gentle and social person who loves harmony, beauty and travel. There may be vulnerability through emotional, ethical or moral naivete.
◾ Venus conjunct Mars
You are extremely amorous and romantic and there are times when you find it difficult to control your passions. You seem to be a magnet to the opposite sex, regardless of whether most people would classify you as beautiful or attractive, although you may well be. You are simply fun and pleasant to be around and that is why you attract so much attention. When you are interested in someone, you tend to pursue them with all the fire within you. Of course, sometimes you come on just a little too strongly and that can cause difficulties. You have a strong desire for love and beauty and involving yourself in some type of creative activity, whether it be art, music, sculpture or poetry, would help to satisfy this inner craving. The more you channel your creativity into means such as these, the less problems you will have controlling your hormones.
This aspect brings a certain charisma and you seem to naturally draw people around you. You like to socialize and are perhaps happiest when surrounded by others. In fact, it may be hard for you to be alone in your own company. You have a great need to give and receive affection from others. Just be careful of where you place your affections. Not everyone feels the same as you do. It is sometimes difficult for you to take any relationship lightly, hence the need to be discriminating with where your heart is placed. This can be a difficult aspect at times because it tends to produce love-hate relationships with those you care about. There are hostile and affectionate feelings both at the same time towards the same person. Channel your energies into creative endeavors.
◾ Venus conjunct Neptune
You tend to be what some people call the hopeless romantic. You are very idealistic about love and romance and many times it isn't so much the case that you love someone or that you are in love with someone as it is that you are in love with love. You tend to put your loved one on a pedestal and this can bring problems because when the loved one eventually does something to "fall from grace", then huge disappointment and disillusionment set in and you are crushed. You need to stop looking at the world through rose-colored glasses and see things for how and what they really are.
Another facet of this aspect is that you may have such an ideal mate built up in your own imagination that no real person could ever come close to your fantasy. You may spend your entire lifetime looking for Mr. or Ms. Perfect such that you miss Mr. or Ms. Right. Come down to earth and realize that no one is perfect and there are no white knights ready to come dashing along to save you. Stop the dreaming but don't give up the dream.
There is danger of falling into the wrong type of relationship, a relationship of co-dependence. Either you or your partner may enjoy or feel obligated to play the role of martyr, victim or savior. Remember that no good relationship is unequal. Two equal partners who neither feel the need to save or be saved make the best couple.
You are a sensitive person who enjoys the finer, aesthetic things in life. You desire harmony and beauty and are probably attracted to the arts in some way, either painting, music, dance, theater or drama. You are perhaps attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations. There is a certain charm about you that others find unworldly. The unusual and the intuitive, the sensual and the explorative appeal to you. You are insecure in matters of love. Simply remember that everyone has some human frailty, so do the best you can as that is all the Universe asks of you.
◾ Venus conjunct Pluto
You have deep, compelling and sometimes irrational feelings of love and passion and you will not settle for a relationship that isn't intense. You are wildly passionate towards the ones you love, as well as being perhaps jealous and possessive of them as well. Whatever you feel, you want to feel it down to the deepest level of your existence. Of course this can cause problems with everyday life because no relationship can be that intense and that interesting all the time. At times you do not care whether the emotions you feel are good or bad as long as they are powerful. So agony and ecstasy are both okay with you, although you're not silly enough to prefer the agony. Well, maybe. These intense relationships, even if they do not last, have a way of transforming you and that is why you instinctively seek them out or why they seem to come to you.
You tend to have a certain emotional fanaticism about the things you care about. It's all or nothing — there are no half-way measures for you. There can be trouble through emotional excesses, misplaced passions or the loss of control of the sensual nature. Self-control and self-discipline are necessary or you may self-destruct. Channel your hormonal energies into things creative, such as art, music, poetry, sculpture, drama, etc. You must not allow yourself to become too self-indulgent or hedonistic. Feelings of jealousy, envy and possessiveness must be controlled or any relationship will be eventually destroyed. You need to develop your self-confidence so that feelings of insecurity do not drive you over the edge. All these experiences all meant to force you to reconsider and transform your values.
◾ Venus conjunct Saturn
Intimacy with another does not come easy for you. You have been hurt in the past and you are reluctant to open up to others because you fear being hurt again. It is painful to relive bad experiences and you have sort of resolved within yourself that if you do not get involved, then you won't get hurt. As Simon and Garfunkle once said, "I am a rock, I am an island". As a result of your experiences, people may think you are cold, aloof, unfeeling and uncaring. The challenge here is for you to learn to open up and warm up to people, regardless of the possible consequences. You need to remember that you cannot find true love if you are unwilling to first give love, regardless of the results. Love is not barter and you cannot expect everyone you love to love you back. That is not how it works. This aspect is trying to teach you that love is universal, all-encompassing and should be doled out with no strings attached.
You find it difficult to trust people because of past painful experiences, so it takes time for you to take down all your barriers and defenses. You perhaps feel that you are unworthy of love and you cannot think of many reasons why someone should be able to love you. But, that type of thinking is an illusion. You are entitled to as much love as the next person, but love does carry responsibilities. You are worthy of love and there is a lot to love about you, but you must change your attitudes before you can experience the truth of what I have said. People do care about you, but they will tend to leave you alone if they feel that you are trying to shut them out. Open up your emotions and take your chances. It won't kill you, unless you let it. And that would then be your fault.
So, here it is. You need to learn to value and love yourself more and to express your appreciation for others more openly. Not with material gifts, but with honest and true emotion. You have a complex emotional nature and it needs to be examined. You are very loyal and steadfast towards those you love once your emotional needs are understood and that is an admirable trait. You tend to be very serious and responsible in relationships. You may involve yourself with noticeably older or younger partners. Try to be less sensitive and more forgiving when you think a loved one has slighted you. You have a need to feel secure and if you do not, then that tends to throw you for a loop. All manner of negative emotions surface then.
You find it difficult to show love physically. Stop being such a miser with your affections as well as with your possessions. You have a stingy streak in you that does not serve you well. After all, you can't take it with you when you go. So use some of it now in order to spread a little happiness. You may have a tendency to equate having things to having security. This is another illusion. You don't really become less secure by giving away possessions. In fact, the only true wealth you have and retain is that which you give away to others. This is another lesson for you to learn. To end on the bright side, you are a reliable friend who can be trusted.
◾Venus conjunct Uranus
You are excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. You tend to fall in and out of love very quickly and have little self-restraint or concern for propriety when your feelings have been stirred. You are unique, a bit eccentric and unconventional and you don't mind experimenting. You love and crave excitement, especially in your emotional life. You enjoy the thrill of the chase and you split when things start to get boring. Your strong suit is not in hanging around for the long haul. You prefer non-traditional relationships, ones that give you plenty of freedom and independence as you do not like to feel tied down. You like playing the field and settling down in a permanent, one-to-one relationship may be asking too much from you. In fact, you may intentionally choose partners who are otherwise unavailable because it helps keep things from getting too close and involved. You don't like strings attached to relationships and you prefer to remain rather detached with it all.
You have a highly unusual and explosive emotional nature. You change emotionally as easily as the wind changes direction. You are troubled with the emotional ups and downs which you do not understand and you have the tendency to blame whoever is handy for your emotional lows. The crazy emotional tides which you feel are coming from within and they are because your creativity cannot find a decent outward expression. Use your wonderful creativity ability and your fine intuition in the pursuit of something artistically or musically creative. Then you won't be quite so at the mercy of your erratic emotions.
You have a lot of personal magnetism and sex appeal. Others find you very alluring, exciting and interesting. Being restless by nature, travel would be good for you as it would give you an opportunity to satisfy your curiosity and your wanderlust. Change is necessary for you and one way or another your life will be filled with it. In general, you do not care what people think of you or the ways in which you relate to the world and to others. You will do what you want. You need to exercise self-control over your sensual nature.
◾ Venus sextile Ascendant; Venus Trine Ascendant
You are cheerful, fun-loving, charming, easy-going and have a pleasant personality. You love beauty and harmony and you are happiest when things are going smoothly. You do not like discord and you do not go out of your way to make waves. You may have artistic talent.
◾ Venus sextile Jupiter; Venus trine Jupiter
You are a generous, warm-hearted and open-handed person who shares every resource with others. You give of both yourself and your possessions to those whom you favor, although you will rarely put yourself out too much in order to do so. You enjoy luxury and refinement and you desire to always be in comfortable, elegant surroundings. You hate having to get your hands dirty. You are charming, gracious and charitable and you are the model host or hostess. This aspect brings material good fortune, which has been earned from previous lives. If there is a negative here, then it is your tendency towards self-indulgence, over-extravagance and laziness. Sometimes things come to you so easily that you do not appreciate them. Things are most appreciated if one has to work hard for them. There may be a love of rich, sweet food as well as too much of it, hence a tendency to gain weight. You are a very gentle and social person who loves harmony, beauty and travel. Be careful not to take things too much for granted or take the easy way out.
◾ Venus trine Mars; Venus sextile Mars
You are warmly romantic and openly express your affection, appreciation and love of the opposite sex, though rarely in a crude or insensitive manner. You seem to be a magnet to the opposite sex, regardless of whether most people would classify you as beautiful or attractive, although you may well be. You are simply fun and pleasant to be around and that is why you attract so much attention. You have sex appeal and others like and appreciate your easy-going emotional nature. You like getting people together and if it were up to you, you would have the whole world paired off, living happily ever after.
You have a strong desire for love and beauty and involving yourself in some type of creative activity, whether it be art, music, sculpture or poetry, would help to satisfy this inner craving. This aspect brings a certain charisma and you seem to naturally draw people around you. You like to socialize and are happiest when surrounded by others. You have a great need to give and receive affection from others. You are warm and demonstrative in your affection for others. You are very much alive and others find this very appealing. Fulfillment and harmony in love is likely for you because you know what you want and need in a romantic sense and you express those desires honestly and openly. You have no hidden agendas. You are a non-combative individual who likes peace and serenity. You put a lot of energy into your emotions.
◾ Venus sextile Neptune; Venus trine Neptune
You are a sensitive person with a lot of artistic imagination and a flair for creating beautiful things or environments. You find peace in listening to good music and many times it will be the catalyst for your trips of fantasy. You are romantic and would like to have a story-book kind of life where you live in bliss with your one and only soulmate. These are indeed high ideals, but it's okay for you to dream because at the same time you are dreaming, you are able to keep your feet on the ground and not get carried away by it all. You are compassionate and seek to help others who are in need. You are a natural "giver" and it makes you happy to serve. You want what's best for all concerned and you do not have a problem with your ego getting in the way. You find it difficult to be too assertive as you like peace and harmony, without making waves. You are capable of great sacrifice for those you love and you do not necessarily need to be recognized for that or receive anything in return. You have a mystical side to you and you like being around artistic or mystical people. Church music stirs your soul and is as a breath of fresh air from your true home, the heaven worlds. You may have real talent with music or singing. You are devoted and devotional. You generally root for the underdog and can sometimes be a sucker for a sob story. You will attract people in this lifetime who will help you continue the soul growth you started in previous lives.
◾Venus sextile Pluto; Venus trine Pluto
You put everything you have into your emotions. Because you feel and love so deeply, so passionately and wholeheartedly, others may find your intensity either extremely attractive or very threatening. You are charismatic, with sex appeal and a certain amount of animal magnetism which can't help but be noticed by the opposite sex. You have the ability to use your attractiveness and charm to manipulate others, oftentimes without even realizing it. This aspect gives you the opportunity to transform your values or to be the catalyst to help others transform theirs. There is artistic ability along with a desire to create beauty, harmony and comfort. You have an understanding and an empathy for the problems of others and you are always looking for ways in which to help them or at least find the good that is in them.
◾Venus trine Saturn; Venus sextile Saturn
You are loyal and steadfast in matters of love and affection. The feelings of others are a serious matter to you and you don't play games with people's affections. Fidelity is highly valued and you don't want to settle for less. Security plays an important part in your life and you have a fine enough opinion about yourself and your own self-worth that problems with insecurity don't cause you much aggravation or upset. Still, you are somewhat reserved in showing your affections as you want to be sure you can trust whomever you are involved with. Your tastes and needs are simple and although you appreciate beauty and luxury, you do not need every luxury and convenience in the world in order to be happy. A person's character and inner nature matter more to you than their appearance. Casual or superficial relationships are not what you want and you aren't looking for them. You understand that the best kind of love takes time to develop and real love only gets better, deeper and more satisfying with age. The friendships you form are generally solid and long-lasting. Stability of emotions is one of your hallmarks. You have an innate sense of duty and responsibility towards your loved ones. Self-control is relatively easy for you to practice. You wouldn't be considered a party animal as your outlook on life is a little more serious and reserved than that. Still, others appreciate the fine qualities you have spent lifetimes developing. You have an inborn strength and courage to face life's difficulties.
◾ Venus sextile Uranus; Venus trine Uranus
You are very creative, intuitive, original, outspoken, and open in thought and emotion. You have a magnetic charm and sex appeal that attracts others to you. You enjoy surprises and anything that provides excitement to your life, including your relationships. You are independent and want a good deal of personal freedom in your involvements with others. Your ideas about love and romance are open and progressive and you are willing to try almost anything. You make and are drawn into unusual friendships with unusual sorts of people. Many people come and go into and out of your life and they are all there to test or challenge your values and your ability to change and to be flexible. They somehow fill unique needs within you. Same with friends — they come, but they go out of your life when they no longer fulfill a need. You have quite unusual ways of looking at things and you always seem to come up with clever solutions to the problems that are presented to you. Things happen to you quite suddenly, very much out of the blue. You cannot anticipate these events, you can only merely react to them. This is particularly true with love relationships. You will constantly receive exciting, unusual and unexpected events in your life which are of considerable assistance in your achieving both personal and soul growth.
You seem to need the approval of others in order to feel good about yourself. You may lack self-assurance and self-confidence. You attract things you need with virtually no effort on your part. You like to be with warm, sociable people. You have a charming and pleasant personality but you may be insincere. There is also a tendency to take things for granted and to be somewhat lazy at times.
◾ Venus opposite Jupiter; Venus square Jupiter
There are many possibilities with this aspect. Perhaps you will try to have a relationship with one who has completely different interests than you. Perhaps your devotion to some pet cause is annoying to the one who is nearest and dearest to you. Or you may be financially wasteful or extravagant, or perhaps bombastic in your appearance. There are tendencies here for self-indulgence and over-extravagance and your love or cravings for rich, sweet food can cause you trouble with your health in the form of circulation and weight problems due to excess. Perhaps you do not value what you own because it has all come too easily. Maybe you never really had to work all that hard to accumulate it, since you seem to have the ability to effortlessly attract most everything you need. The challenge here is to balance your desires for material things with your desires for philosophic ideals. Your values will be called into question and you may need to rearrange your priorities. You have an expansive emotional nature and you have the tendency to become involved with that type of love that is commonly referred to as "blind" love. Perhaps your feelings of love are motivated by considerations of money, property or social status.
But in spite of all that is said above, you are basically a warm-hearted and generous person who will come to the aid of friends if they are in need. People know they can count on your emotional and material help without your judging them in the process. You tolerate and accept other people's shortcomings and this goes a long way in keeping harmony, which is something that is really important to you and necessary for your well-being. At times, though, you avoid confronting difficult issues because you don't want to make waves or upset people's feelings. At times you need to be more self-assertive, though, not only because it is right to stand up for your beliefs but also because your needs have to met in order for you to retain a healthy balance. You are a lover of social situations and you like to be surrounded by people. You know how to handle people and still be liked. Being alone with yourself makes you somewhat uncomfortable. You need to learn self-restraint.
◾ Venus opposite Mars; Venus square Mars
Amongst various possible tendencies are these: Your need to satisfy your own desires before considering other people's needs causes anger and frustration. You suppress your own desires in order to maintain peace, which causes internal conflict within you. Sex and love can cause problems because either you run hot and cold alternately, or you don't know the difference between the two or perhaps you simply have love-hate types of relationships. Your high sex drive can lead you to squander your creative force through sexual excess and sensuality. Perhaps you "fall" into love easily with whoever pays you the slightest bit of attention and affection.
You are intensely amorous and attractive to the opposite sex and are not inclined to simple, friendly platonic relationships. There is a lot of tension in your love life because you often put your own needs ahead of your partner's or you are impatient when it comes to having your own needs met. You tend to run hot and cold in your relationships. If your partner is hot to trot, then you are not, and when you are ready for action, then your partner is not in the mood. You probably find yourself releasing your "hate" through verbal or physical fights when there are differences of opinion with your partner and after your hostility is released, then you once again feel "love" for that person. Of course, while your emotions might be back to normal, you partner is still trying to figure out just what happened and what hit them. You are ready to go again, but they are not and you can't understand why. This can create a great deal of frustration and disappointment that you do not easily shrug off because you cannot understand what the other person's "problem" is. If you are not in a love relationship, then you want to be in one and if you are, then you don't want to be. Your emotions are not stable and you have problems dealing with them. You are indecisive and your values and standards of behavior change from one moment to the next. You need to learn how to compromise with others so that your anger does not erupt when you do not get your way. Blowing off steam is fine, and perhaps you need to buy yourself a punching bag so you can spar with it when you are upset, but it is not right to use other people, especially loved ones, as verbal punching bags or as objects of your assault tactics. Additionally, you need to overcome your feelings of love and hate toward the people you care about.
◾ Venus opposite Neptune; Venus square Neptune
You tend to be what some people call the hopeless romantic. You are very idealistic about love and romance and many times it isn't so much the case that you love someone or that you are in love with someone as it is that you are in love with love. You tend to put your loved one on a pedestal and this can bring problems because when the loved one eventually does something to "fall from grace", then huge disappointment and disillusionment set in and you are crushed. You need to stop looking at the world through rose-colored glasses and see things for how and what they really are. Your ideas about how people ought to relate and love each other get in the way of your actual relationships.
Another facet of this aspect is that you may have such an ideal mate built up in your own imagination that no real person could ever come close to your fantasy. You may spend your entire lifetime looking for Mr. or Ms. Perfect such that you miss Mr. or Ms. Right. You become very disillusioned when you discover that no real, flesh-and-blood person ever quite lives up to your dream image of the perfect mate. Come down to earth and realize that no one is perfect and there are no white knights ready to come dashing along to save you. Stop the dreaming but don't give up the dream. Although you frequently fantasize about love and romance, you may avoid becoming intimately involved with anyone or making definite commitments. You can be evasive and dishonest with yourself and others when it comes to love.
There is danger of falling into the wrong type of relationship, a relationship of co-dependence. Either you or your partner may enjoy or feel obligated to play the role of martyr, victim or savior. Remember that no good relationship is unequal. Two equal partners who neither feel the need to save or be saved make the best couple.
You are a sensitive person who enjoys the finer, aesthetic things in life. You desire harmony and beauty and are probably attracted to the arts in some way, either painting, music, dance, theater or drama. You are perhaps attracted to those with artistic or mystical inclinations. There is a certain charm about you that others find unworldly. The unusual and the intuitive, the sensual and the explorative appeal to you. You are insecure in matters of love. Simply remember that you have human frailty, but do the best you can as that is all the Universe asks of you. Recognize, too, that human weakness exists even in those you love. Sometimes others cannot live up to your expectations, which may be quite unrealistic at times. You may be unrealistic in matters of love. You may believe that if someone loves you enough that they can read your mind. This will set you up for many disappointments because that is just not true. You need to tell people what you want and how you feel. They cannot read your mind no matter how much they love and care about you.
You need to transform your material values into spiritual values and to turn personal desires into universal desires. Personal property and possessions may disappear in strange, mysterious ways in order to teach you that material possessions are easily replaced and therefore are of limited value. The only thing you can take with you when you die are your spiritual and personal growth, your experiences. You need to learn to love without expecting love in return. You must learn to forgive and thus release inner resentments. You need to learn how to turn the other cheek while not becoming a doormat for all to walk on. One last thing, do not turn to drugs or alcohol when you feel sorrow or when you feel like escaping from the world. Life must be faced head-on if you are to get anywhere and resorting to drugs or alcohol will only make things much worse.
◾ Venus opposite Pluto; Venus square Pluto
You are drawn to powerful and compelling emotional and sexual attractions and experiences that you may feel you have little choice or control over. You crave intensity and these incidents provide you with the opportunity to satisfy your wanton desires. You feel an overwhelming need for love and you may be emotionally or sexually greedy, insatiable, obsessive or compulsive. You tend to be very jealous of and possessive of the objects of your desires and although you keep tight reins on your partners, you do not want them to question or control you in any way. This makes for very one-sided types of relationships. You need to become aware that your jealous and possessive traits will drive away those you profess to love. Power struggles are likely in your relationships as you want to wear the pants, yet you continually attract that same sort of person for a partner. Your love life is passionate and often explosive and painful, but you don't seem to mind because the intensity helps make you feel that you are alive.
The challenge here is to transform your values. Important psychological problems are being worked out because of and through your relationships with others. Because of this you may attract people and friends who act destructively towards you. The reason this happens is because these people are mirroring the same type of acts you yourself have done in former lives. You are now reaping what you have sown previously. You are being given the chance to wipe your slate clean if you do not respond to evil with evil. Release all thoughts of revenge and learn to turn the other cheek. When your debts are paid and your lessons are learned, then destructive people will no longer be part of your life. This aspect shows a readiness on your part to atone for past mistakes and cruelties.
In matters of health, this aspect tends to interfere with the magnetic forces in the veins and prevents proper drainage of toxins and waste material from the tissues. It can also hinder the filtering process in the kidneys. This leads to improper cleansing of the blood, with the result that toxins and waste material seek exit through the lungs and skin in the form of lung congestions and skin eruptions. The spiritual lesson here is to let go of ill feelings (emotional toxins) and forgive (elimination, transformation), rather than trying to get even or seeking revenge.
On the positive side, you do have the emotional power and unusual creativity to bring about beneficial and healing changes into the lives of others if you can focus on other's needs instead of your own.
◾ Venus opposite Saturn; Venus square Saturn
Your emotional development may have been delayed or it may simply be inadequate. You find it difficult to be warm and loving towards people because you have been hurt in the past and you fear it may happen again. You are stingy with material resources and with affection. You believe that everything must be earned and paid for — there are no free lunches. Because you find it difficult to express your feelings, you tend to show people how you feel by buying them gifts as a substitute for you and your feelings. If they reject your gift, then this is easier to take than if they reject you. Though you crave love and affection, intimacy is difficult for you. You have a shallow opinion of yourself and your own worth and talents. You do not understand why anyone could possibly love you. You feel that you are unlovable. This is something you need to strongly work on as your life will continue to be miserable if you do not learn to change your attitude. You are as worthy of love as anyone else, but you must come to realize that for yourself. Do not let past experiences govern your actions and feelings for the rest of your life.
You are a serious and reserved person who appears to others as cold, aloof, unfeeling and uncaring. You are not necessarily these things, it's just that you are very cautious in letting anyone see the real you or in letting people get close to you. You want to love and be loved, but you find this very difficult. You need to remember that you first have to give love to get love. And you can't buy real love. It doesn't work that way. You find it difficult to enjoy yourself in a light-hearted, open and playful way. You understand work, duty and responsibility a lot better than you understand feelings, affection and love. Rarely do you do anything for pleasure. If something involves work or getting something done, then that is pleasure for you. Other people do not understand that about you. There are times, though, when you procrastinate and put off attending to necessities with the result that duties tend to pile up. You need to learn how to balance the seriousness with life and the enjoyment of life.
You may become romantically involved with people who do not value you or treat you well. You need to learn to love and value yourself before you will find happiness in love. Security is very important to you, yet you do not know how to feel secure. Your fear of loss, of money, property, loved ones, etc., makes you very insecure. This negativity colors all your relationships for the worse. You must learn how to trust again. You must learn how to face your fears, even if it is painful. This is the only way you will ever overcome them.
You have the tendency to lose your faith and your optimism when life presents problems with which you must cope. It's fine to have a well-developed sense of responsibility, but you must also learn to trust in divine wisdom which has attracted these difficulties to you to help you develop personal and soul growth. You better than most can understand that the purpose of life is not happiness, but experience. Yet that does not mean you have to live your entire life feeling miserable. You may feel lonely, but this is because you are unwilling or unable to see that people really do love you. As I have mentioned previously, the problem may lie in your own opinion of yourself. You must first become a loving person yourself in order to attract love.
You may become defensive about expressing your real likes and dislikes for fear of being criticized or put down. You may have a jealous and possessive streak in you such that when you are in a relationship, you do anything and everything in your power to try to hold on to what you have. Of course this makes your partner feel as though they are in prison and they will try to escape the first chance they get, which is what you are fearful of in the first place. You must realize that you can never hold on to anything that doesn't want to be held on to. Love is free and there should be no contingencies placed upon it. You need to accept the difficulties you experience in life as spiritual lessons. These lessons are attempting to help you establish better values.
◾ Venus opposite Uranus; Venus square Uranus
You are excitable, spontaneous, and easily aroused emotionally and sexually. You crave emotional excitement and you tend to fall in and out of love very quickly, having little self-restraint or concern for propriety when your feelings have been stirred. Relationships begin with sudden, electric attraction, but they often end abruptly. You are unique, a bit eccentric and unconventional in your tastes and you don't mind experimenting. You love adventure, especially in your emotional life. You enjoy the thrill of the chase and you split when things start to get boring. You tend to be faithless in love — your strong suit is not in hanging around for the long haul. You prefer non-traditional relationships, ones that give you plenty of freedom and independence as you do not like to feel tied down. You like playing the field and settling down in a permanent, one-to-one relationship may be asking too much from you. In fact, you may intentionally choose partners who are otherwise unavailable because it helps keep things from getting too close and involved. You don't like strings attached to relationships and you prefer to remain rather detached with it all. There is the possibility of clandestine relationships.
You have a highly unusual and explosive emotional nature. You are temperamental and change emotionally as easily as the wind changes direction. You are troubled with the emotional ups and downs which you don't understand and you have the tendency to blame whoever is handy for your emotional lows. The crazy emotional tides which you feel are coming from within and they are because your creativity cannot find a decent outward expression. Use your wonderful creativity ability and your fine intuition in the pursuit of something artistically or musically creative. Then you won't be quite so at the mercy of your erratic emotions.
You have a lot of personal magnetism and sex appeal. Others find you very alluring, exciting and interesting. Being restless by nature, travel would be good for you as it would give you an opportunity to satisfy your curiosity and your wanderlust. Change is necessary for you and one way or another your life will be filled with it. In general, you do not care what people think of you or the ways in which you relate to the world and to others. You will do what you want. You need to exercise self-control over your sensual nature. You also need to discipline yourself so that your strange and unusual tastes and proclivities do not make it impossible for you to get along with your fellow man and woman.
This is a post that is meant to provide clarity for people who are confused about how Lilith manifests in a man's chart vs a woman's chart.
I have analyzed hundreds of charts and have been studying Lilith in particular for many years now, and this is what I have seen time and again.
I ONLY WORK WITH: H13, "TRUE" LILITH / BLACK MOON.
Introduction
⎯ WHO / WHAT IS LILITH?
Lilith has a rich and diverse mythological background, with roots in various cultures. The history of Lilith is quite long and I will not be able to do it justice, so please take the time to read various sources about Lilith. It is important to note that Lilith's lore varies across cultures and has been shaped by different belief systems over centuries, contributing to a rich and diverse history of myth and symbolism.
However, in the more modern interpretations, especially in Astrology and Feminist Literature, Lilith has been reclaimed as a symbol of feminine strength and independence. Some see her as representing the suppressed and rebellious aspects of femininity, challenging traditional gender norms and expectations.
The concept of Lilith in Astrology is derived from her mythological roots, and its interpretation often draws on the themes of independence, sensuality, and rebellion associated with the mythical Lilith figure.
The astrological Lilith can be used in chart analysis to explore aspects of the unconscious, desires, and the untamed aspects of femininity. The lore of Lilith weaves together ancient myths and contemporary astrological symbolism, providing a more rich and complex interpretation.
A Man's Lilith:
A man's Lilith is his deepest fears and desires.
Lilith in a man's chart represents the qualities that he finds irresistibly attractive, mysterious, and captivating in a woman. This is because Lilith represents the "untamed, raw" feminine. This can include his deepest, wildest, hidden desires, intense passions, and aspects of his personality that society might deem unconventional or taboo. These might also be the aspects of himself that he may yearn to express but might struggle with due to societal norms or personal inhibitions.
Lilith in a man's chart acts as a magnetic force, drawing him towards women who embody the qualities of the untamed, wild, and unapologetically authentic feminine essence. This placement shows where and what qualities he is drawn to that are unconventional, mysterious, and alluring in a woman. Lilith embodies the essence of the wild and raw feminine energy that may not always conform to societal expectations.
It is not just about physical attraction; Lilith represents a deeper, soulful connection that transcends societal norms.
Lilith signifies the aspects of his personality that may be suppressed or hidden due to societal expectations. It could be intense passions, unconventional desires, or a yearning for a form of feminine energy that defies conventional stereotypes. Lilith represents the rebellion against societal norms and expectations, encouraging the man to embrace his raw, unfiltered self.
When a man's Lilith is being aspected in synastry, the reactions from him can be extremely intense. His deepest fears and desires related to femininity are being stimulated and a very primal energy is been unearthed. This can manifest as a fear of losing control, being overwhelmed, or feeling powerless in the face of the potent feminine energy brought forth by Lilith.
⎯ WAYS TO THINK OF IT...
Lilith is like a magical mirror that shows the things men find fascinating and a bit scary/unsettling about women. It is like having a secret wish and a little bit of worry all wrapped up together.
Lilith is like a hidden treasure. It is something they really, really want, like finding the coolest gem. But, at the same time, it can be a little scary, like a mysterious monster under the bed. Lilith is this exciting and a bit scary thing about women that makes them curious and but also nervous.
⎯ IN THE SIGNS
ARIES Can show a man who passionately desires a partner with independence and a sense of adventure. He fears a relationship that restricts his freedom and autonomy, seeking a woman who embraces his need for spontaneity.
TAURUS Can show a man who craves a woman who offers sensual pleasures, stability, and material comfort. He fears a relationship that lacks security and is wary of changes that may disrupt the tranquility he seeks.
GEMINI Suggests a man who desires a partner who stimulates him intellectually, values communication, and provides variety in the relationship. He fears monotony, seeking a woman who can keep up with his need for mental stimulation.
CANCER A man with Lilith in Cancer desires a nurturing and emotionally secure connection with a woman who creates a sense of home. He fears rejection and abandonment, seeking a partner who understands the depth of his emotional vulnerability.
LEO Indicates a man who desires a woman that recognizes and admires his creativity and uniqueness. He fears being overlooked or feeling ordinary in a relationship, seeking a partner who celebrates his individuality.
VIRGO Shows a man seeking a partner who embodies practicality, perfection, and organizational skills. He fears a relationship marked by chaos and imperfection, desiring a woman who shares his meticulous approach.
LIBRA Suggests a man's desire for a harmonious and socially connected relationship. He fears conflict and values a partner who helps maintain balance and avoids situations that may lead to isolation.
SCORPIO Can show a man who desires intensity, emotional depth, and transformation in his relationship. He fears superficial connections and seeks a woman who is willing to explore the profound and transformative aspects of love.
SAGITTARIUS Indicates a man's desire for a partner who values freedom, adventure, and intellectual pursuits. He fears being confined or restricted in a relationship, seeking a woman who shares his love for exploration.
CAPRICORN Shows a man who desires a partner who values achievement, status, and long-term success. He fears failure and seeks a woman who appreciates the importance of reputation and stability in a relationship.
AQUARIUS Suggests a man who desires a partner with a strong sense of individuality, innovation, and a shared commitment to social progress. He fears conformity and seeks a woman who supports his quest for personal freedom.
PISCES Shows a man seeking a partner who offers spiritual connection, empathy, and creative expression. He fears rejection and harsh realities, desiring a woman who understands and embraces the mystical aspects of life and love.
A Woman's Lilith:
A woman's Lilith is the untamed, raw, rebellious, feminine part of her.
Lilith embodies the untamed, primal aspects of femininity in a woman's chart. It can also show how she can embrace her wild, instinctual nature. This might manifest in a woman expressing her sensuality, creativity, and power in ways that defy societal expectations.
In essence, Lilith represents a woman's rebellion against societal norms and expectations, encouraging her to break free from the conventional molds imposed by culture and tradition. This rebellious energy may manifest in a woman's refusal to conform to stereotypical gender roles, paving the way for a journey of self-discovery that involves embracing her individuality and authenticity.
Lilith's presence might indicate a woman's commitment to staying true to herself, even if it means going against societal norms. This rebellious energy can empower her to break free from constraints and embrace her unique identity.
Moreover, Lilith's connection to sensuality and creativity suggests that a woman embracing her Lilith is likely to express her desires and creativity in ways that transcend societal norms. This could manifest in unapologetic sensuality, a fearless exploration of artistic endeavors, or an empowered pursuit of ambitions that may challenge established structures.
The journey of embracing Lilith is not without its challenges. Society's ingrained expectations often impose constraints on women, making it a revolutionary act for a woman to embrace her Lilith. This journey may involve healing from societal wounds, overcoming internalized judgments, and cultivating a deep sense of self-acceptance.
As a woman embraces her Lilith, she may find herself drawn to experiences that facilitate personal growth and empowerment. This could involve engaging in practices that connect her with her instincts, such as meditation, self-reflection, or other forms of inner exploration.
⎯ WAYS TO THINK OF IT...
Lilith is like a mischievous friend that makes them want to do things in their own special way, even if others say differently. It's like having a little rebel inside, encouraging them to be themselves and not always follow the rules.
Lilith is like a superhero cape. It's the part that makes them want to do things their own way, even if others say they should do it differently. It's like saying, "I want to wear my favorite dress even if everyone else is wearing something else." So, for women, Lilith is a bit like their inner superhero that helps them be unique and strong.
⎯ IN THE SIGNS
ARIES This woman embodies the untamed spirit of a trailblazer, fearlessly pursuing their desires with unbridled passion and initiating change with fiery independence.
TAURUS This woman is grounded and unapologetically connected to her desires, she rebels against societal norms with a raw, earthy femininity, embracing pleasure and stability on her terms.
GEMINI This woman is curious and communicative, she rebels against conventional thinking with a raw, versatile femininity, expressing herself through a kaleidoscope of ideas and interests.
CANCER This woman is nurturing and fiercely connected to her feelings, she rebels against emotional suppression with a raw, intuitive femininity, creating a sanctuary for her authentic self.
LEO This woman is proud and self-expressive, she rebels against conformity with a raw, theatrical femininity, embracing the spotlight and celebrating her individuality with flair.
VIRGO Meticulous and detail-oriented, this woman rebels against chaos with a raw, grounded femininity, expressing herself through practicality and a pursuit of perfection.
LIBRA Socially attuned and diplomatic, this woman rebels against discord with a raw, relational femininity, seeking balance and shared experiences in her connections.
SCORPIO Transformative and fearless in her desires, this woman rebels against superficiality with a raw, magnetic femininity, delving into the mysteries of life and love.
SAGITTARIUS This woman is optimistic and freedom-seeking, rebelling against limitations with a raw, expansive femininity, embracing intellectual pursuits and diverse experiences.
CAPRICORN Disciplined and goal-oriented, this woman rebels against constraints with a raw, determined femininity, navigating the path to success on her own terms.
AQUARIUS Innovative and progressive, this woman rebels against conformity with a raw, unconventional femininity, contributing to social change and embracing personal freedom.
PISCES This woman is dreamy and empathetic, rebelling against harsh realities with a raw, intuitive femininity, expressing herself through creativity, spirituality, and boundless imagination.
When Lilith aspects another person's planets or points in their chart, it can bring about intense and transformative energies. Lilith in synastry often represents a powerful and magnetic attraction, as well as potential areas of friction and conflict.
Lilith in synastry can also show areas where the individuals may feel an intense, almost magnetic attraction or a sense of intrigue toward each other. This can manifest in a variety of ways, such as a shared sense of rebellion against societal norms or a fascination with the unconventional aspects of each other's personalities.
However, it's crucial to note that Lilith's influence can also bring challenges, as it tends to unearth hidden desires, power struggles, or issues related to control and independence within the relationship.
⎯ MAN'S LILITH BEING ASPECTED
Conjunctions, Oppositions, and Squares are the strongest. Trines and Sextiles will not be as strongly felt.
CONJUNCTION: When there is a conjunction involving a man's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence exudes an intense and magnetic allure. It's as if there's an invisible force drawing him toward the woman, creating an electric and charged atmosphere. The chemistry is palpable, and there's an irresistible pull that can be felt on a visceral level. This aspect may heighten physical attraction, making the connection almost magnetic.
OPPOSITION: An opposition involving the man's Lilith in synastry brings a dynamic tension to the physical presence of the individuals involved. It's like a push-and-pull dance, where there's a simultaneous attraction and challenge. The physical essence may oscillate between moments of intense closeness and brief periods of distance. This aspect can create a scenario where the individuals feel both drawn to each other and yet aware of the potential for conflict or contrasting energies.
SQUARE: In a square aspect with a man's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence may carry an edgy and provocative quality. There's an undercurrent of tension that can be both stimulating and challenging. The individuals may find themselves drawn to each other in a way that feels somewhat taboo or forbidden. This aspect can manifest as a passionate and fiery connection, but it also brings the potential for power struggles or clashes in the physical expression of their connection.
SYNASTRY EXAMPLES
Lilith aspecting inner planets will be felt strongest. Especially the luminaries (Sun & Moon).
№ 1. If a man's Lilith conjuncts a woman's Venus, there might be a strong and magnetic attraction between them. His raw and uninhibited desires (Lilith) are being stimulated by her sense of love, beauty, and attraction (Venus). This aspect can intensify the sensual and passionate aspects of their connection, creating a powerful and almost fated attraction.
№ 2. If a man's Lilith squares a woman's Mars, there could be a dynamic tension between his primal desires (Lilith) and her assertive, action-oriented nature (Mars). This aspect may lead to power struggles or challenges related to asserting individual desires within the relationship. However, if managed consciously, it can also fuel a fiery and dynamic connection, pushing them to grow together by addressing and resolving conflicts.
№ 3. If a man's Lilith opposes a woman's Moon, there may be a powerful emotional and intuitive dynamic at play. His untamed desires (Lilith) may sometimes clash with her emotional needs and instincts (Moon). This opposition can bring about a push-pull dynamic, where his Lilith is being impacted by her on a deep emotional level, yet also creates moments of emotional tension or polarity that require understanding and compromise for harmony.
⎯ WOMAN'S LILITH BEING ASPECTED
Conjunctions, Oppositions, and Squares are the strongest. Trines and Sextiles will not be as strongly felt.
CONJUNCTION: When a man's planets form a conjunction with a woman's Lilith in synastry, an intense and magnetic allure emanates from the depths of her untamed, raw femininity. It's as if an invisible force draws him toward the core of her being, creating an electrifying and charged atmosphere. Their physical connection becomes a manifestation of this potent energy, generating a palpable chemistry that is both captivating and irresistible. This aspect heightens the allure of her unbridled femininity, making the connection feel almost fated.
OPPOSITION: If there is an opposition to the woman's Lilith from a man's planets in synastry, a dynamic tension arises in the expression of her primal, feminine essence. Their interaction takes on a push-and-pull dynamic, where there is a simultaneous attraction and challenge. The woman's Lilith may evoke contrasting energies, creating a dance between moments of intense closeness and brief periods of distance. This opposition aspect can foster a profound awareness of the complexities inherent in their connection, where the magnetic pull is accompanied by a recognition of potential conflicts or contrasts.
SQUARE: If a man's planets form a square aspect with a woman's Lilith in synastry, the physical essence of her untamed femininity may carry an edgy and provocative quality. There is an undercurrent of tension that stimulates and challenges in equal measure. The woman's Lilith, when squared by the man's planets, draws them together in a way that feels somewhat taboo or forbidden. This aspect manifests as a passionate and fiery connection, but it also introduces the potential for power struggles or clashes in the physical expression of their deep-seated connection.
SYNASTRY EXAMPLES:
Lilith aspecting inner planets will be felt strongest. Especially the luminaries (Sun & Moon).
№ 1. If a woman's Lilith is conjunct a man's Sun, there can be a strong connection between her untamed, raw femininity and his core identity. This aspect may result in a potent attraction, where he brings out and stimulates her authentic self. However, it could also pose challenges if her wild and instinctual nature conflicts with his sense of self-expression, requiring both to navigate and balance their individual needs.
№ 2. If a woman's Lilith squares a man's Mercury, there might be challenges in communication and understanding each other's perspectives. Her untamed feminine energy may clash with his rational thought processes, leading to misunderstandings or friction in expressing desires and ideas. It calls for conscious efforts to bridge the gap and find a balance between her instinctual nature and his intellectual approach.
№ 3. If a woman's Lilith opposes a man's Jupiter, there could be a tension between her unrestrained femininity and his expansive, philosophical approach to life. This aspect may highlight differences in their beliefs or approaches to growth and adventure. However, it also offers an opportunity for them to learn from each other, finding a balance between her raw, instinctual energy and his broader, optimistic worldview.
⎯ LILITH CONJUNCT LILITH SYNASTRY
In my opinion, this is one of the strongest synastry aspects you can ever have with someone - but the orb must be extremely tight due to how quickly h13 / True Lilith moves in the sky.
When a man's Lilith is conjunct with a woman's Lilith in synastry, it creates a powerful and intense connection. The man's strongest fears and desires are aligned with the woman's raw, untamed, rebellious part of her. This conjunction suggests that both of them share a profound understanding of each other's most primal and raw nature.
The man's Lilith, symbolizing his hidden desires and fears, intertwines with the woman's Lilith, indicating a magnetic attraction rooted in the allure of the forbidden, raw, and mysterious. This alignment can lead to a relationship marked by intense passion, as these two individuals may find themselves drawn to explore the darker, more taboo aspects of their desires together.
However, it's important to note that this connection may also bring about challenges, as the raw, uninhibited nature of their Lilith energies could evoke deep-seated fears and insecurities in each other.
Communication and a willingness to embrace the shadows within themselves and each other are essential for navigating the complexities of this synastry aspect. Overall, the Lilith conjunction fosters a transformative and intense dynamic, urging both partners to confront and integrate their deepest desires and fears for a profound and potentially cathartic connection.
THIS CONJUNCTION IN THE ELEMENTS
FIRE: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in a Fire sign, the desires and fears shared between these individuals are like a blazing flame, drawing them together in an intense and spontaneous manner. Both partners may feel a strong impulse to explore and express their raw, untamed nature, leading to a relationship marked by excitement, creativity, and a shared enthusiasm for life's adventures.
EARTH: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in an Earth sign, a grounded and practical dimension is added to the mix. There is a potential for a deep and sensuous connection, as both individuals are drawn to explore the tangible and material aspects of their desires. This alignment may manifest as a shared commitment to building a solid foundation for their relationship, with a focus on stability, security, and the tangible expression of their authentic selves.
AIR: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in an Air sign, it brings a mental and communicative dimension to the relationship. Both partners may find that their desires and fears are expressed through intellectual and verbal channels. This alignment fosters a connection marked by stimulating conversations, shared ideas, and a mutual understanding of each other's unfiltered thoughts. However, it's crucial for them to navigate potential conflicts with open communication and a willingness to embrace each other's mental and emotional complexities.
WATER: When the Lilith conjunction occurs in a Water sign, it deepens the emotional and intuitive aspects of the connection. Both individuals may feel a profound emotional resonance with each other's desires and fears, creating a relationship that is rich in empathy, intuition, and shared emotional depth. This alignment may lead to a journey of emotional exploration, with both partners delving into the mysterious depths of their psyches to forge a connection that transcends the superficial and touches the soul.
⎯ LILITH SQUARE/OPPOSITE LILITH SYNASTRY
The square and the opposition are often much more difficult to deal with when it comes to Lilith. The tension can often boil over. It is essential for the two individuals to practice mindfulness.
The square or opposition between Lilith can bring intense power struggles within the relationship. Both individuals may find themselves entangled in a web of fear and the need for control. The raw, instinctual energy of Lilith can create a challenging dynamic where each person vies for dominance, leading to friction and conflict.
There is often an intense struggle between the need for freedom and the desire for connection, making it difficult for both partners to fully embrace and understand each other's unbridled feminine aspects. While there might be a strong sexual magnetism, the square or opposition aspect can also introduce sexual tensions and misunderstandings. The differing approaches to intimacy, desires, and fears may lead to moments of emotional and physical disconnect, causing frustration and confusion when it comes to sexual expression.
The relationship may bring up unresolved issues from the past, and both individuals might find themselves facing emotional challenges that demand introspection and healing. Navigating these triggers requires a high level of emotional intelligence and communication.
The Lilith square or opposition ultimately highlights the shadows within each individual, and the relationship becomes a mirror for unaddressed aspects of the psyche. If both partners are unwilling to engage in deep introspection and shadow work, these unresolved issues may persist, exacerbating the difficulties and preventing the relationship from evolving positively.
Published: December 8, 2023.
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