ヽ༼ຈل͜ຈ༽ﾉ @deactivatingsoon666 - Tumblr Blog

Not deactivating but i am abandoning this blog. Probably wont be back but ill check dms for the next couple days before i go

deactivatingsoon666

sigh i miss when tumblr culture was entirely based in fandom now its all political and focused 100% on lgbt issues and trans discourse wtf i long to have a stupid little fandom blog where i just post about theatre and anime

vampish-glamour

Your tags are on point. Everything is about politics and social issues. You go onto a fandom blog and their pinned post makes it look like they’re a discourse blog. You scroll through fandom tags to find preachy fanart. You follow fandom blogs only to see a “[X group you belong to] DNI!! I hate you!!!” Post come across your dash.

And of course if you try to get known in fandom, you have to use your “platform” to spout talking points that people want you to spout. Otherwise you’re being silent and that’s terrible.

#thank you #you are far better with words than i

mwya

I think we should all just pretend we’ve never heard of pansexuality and when someone tries to explain it to you just go, “You mean bisexuality?”

lifeofcynch

yes.

I fear that I am falling out of practice with my German skills, if any of my mutuals speak/are learning german, please please message me I would love to speak german with you. Bonus points if we can talk on the phone but just messaging is fine with me.

#not discourse #german

sigh i miss when tumblr culture was entirely based in fandom now its all political and focused 100% on lgbt issues and trans discourse wtf i long to have a stupid little fandom blog where i just post about theatre and anime

#before u say fandom tumblr still exists YES it does but it is literally overlapping with trans discourse #try to find good fandom blogs that dont occassionally post crack shit about communism and neopronouns #find a fandom blog that doesnt say dni evil nasty truscum choke on my balls

veliseraptor

“I am a simple person with simple wants,” I say, scrolling through AO3 and ignoring fics for a variety of petty reasons

livrelady

#my wants are simple#but my dislikes are many and complex#but I’ll begrudgingly read fics I ignored after getting through the tags#and whaddya know I was right I didnt like them (x)

the-apocrypha

also related: the moment you run out of fics on your tag of choice, sigh, and then begrudgingly lower your standards and look again

accurate-bisexual-info

“Pansexuality means [definition of bisexuality] except [insults bisexuals].”

pinktrouble

Them.

bearslikedilfs

they even got the hand placement right

atrocious-causation

The hand placement is the most important part

#hetalia #sorry for all my mutuals who have to see me occasionally geek out over hetalia #tw hetalia

jjbeka-deactivated20210812

reblog if you’re unsafe for pansexuals

greengay

GREEN DAY vs. homophobia in the early 90’s

greengay

Happy Pride Month!

Reminder that Billie Joe Armstrong publicly came out as bisexual in 1995!

“I think I’ve always been bisexual. […] It’s ingrained in our heads that it’s bad, when it’s not bad at all. It’s a very beautiful thing.”

And that Green Day used their platform to bring openly gay punk band Pansy Division on tour with them in 1994!

I love being a gay man i love being a man and loving men i love everything about men 💞💞

#mlm #positivity #not discourse

femmebisexuelle

yes cishets will find an excuse to hate us anyways yes I still don't want people who think gender and sexual orientation are fun accessories in my community those two statements can and should coexist

colorisbyshe

i fucking hate to make an ace discourse post in 20 fucking 20 but it really needs to be said and i KNOW this is gonna come off as a smarmy “i told you so post”

but i’ve been on twitter recently and there is a fucking DELUGE of people promoting the idea of “bisexual lesbians” (never bisexual gay men but like… that’s a tangential dialogue for another time). this idea that you can be bisexual and a lesbian at the same time is a direct product of the split attraction model.

this is the EXACT shit i was talking about when I said rhetoric from ace community is not compatible, at all, with the LGBT community.

sexualizing the -sexual suffix so “bisexual” SOLELY means “SEXUALLY attracted to the opposite gender” so someone can be bisexual and “homoromantic” is ACTIVELY harmful to lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals. it sexualizes bisexuals without consent and COMPLETELY redefines what gayness is so it can include attraction to the “opposite” gender.

and this is just one example of how ace inclusion–not just the inclusion of cisgender, straight aces but also the prioritization of ace ideals–hurts the LGBT community. the rhetoric that you can have sex with people you aren’t attracted to to “make it work” romantically is conversion therapy rhetoric. Ace inclusion makes it seem like the LGBT community is about our relationships to sex when that just isn’t true. Ace inclusion means “desexualizing” LGBT spaces so as not to upset asexuals. All this shit AND MORE is happening in real time and I’ve watched it get worse and worse, hand in hand with the commercialization of LGBT pride and the liberalization of LGBT activism.

ace rhetoric is eroding LGBT identities. the idea of the “bisexual lesbian” and other mogai microidentities where you parse every single aspect of your identity into a different label is actively harming vulnerable LGBT people.

and, no, this isn’t me saying “even LGBT aces have to go,” but this is me saying that putting ace identities at the forefront of ANY LGBT discussions leaves a lot of space for harm for LGBT people. and that any fucking ace rhetoric besides “it’s okay to not feel sexual attraction or want to have sex” comes at the expense of LGBT identity.

genuinely, the concept of “bisexual lesbian” is a direct product of the ace community and it has caused lesbians and bisexual women irreparable harm. and aces should be ashamed of this because this is what they have been defending for years.

this is the EXACT shit we said would come out of the split attraction model and now we have TEENAGERS telling strangers and adults “i’m sexually attracted to [x genders] but only romantically into [y]” and y’all think this is okay. even if it weren’t fucking INSANE to say lesbians can be attracted to men or that bisexuals can be half gay or half straight, you’d STILL be out of fuckng line having KIDS center identities around SOLELY sexual attraction.

i’m ripshit pissed