Hi There

I liken this blog to throwing spaghetti at the wall….. let’s see what sticks 💕

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

You can not be a “fan” of queer media, and then attack those performing in queer media for being queer.

You cannot “enjoy” queer media and then turn around and bash someone performing in queer media because they are not following your heteronormative outline of how to correctly be queer.

You cannot be a BL or GL “fan” and then leave slurs in the comments on an actors instagram post.

You do not get to choose which letters of the LGBTQ+ community you support and which you don’t, it’s a community, you’re either an ally to all or you’re not.

It is 2025 and Gay is not an insult.

It is 2025 and HIV/AIDS is a very serious but treatable illness that, yes, ANYONE can get. It is not a vehicle to attack, insult, belittle or shame queer men, this is not 1985.

If you disagree with any of my above statements, kindly go kick rocks.

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Jay really took one look at Sun, saw an extremely traumatized, damaged and unbelievably depressed little man and said “oh yeah, I can fix him.”

AND THEN HE DID??

[iamanhonestmess]

on one hand, why the heck would dao answer the phone at that specific time?

on the other hand, kudos to dao for being able to keep his composure at that moment in time enough to talk on the phone.

[heretherebedork]

Farewell, Fourever You. You were a fascinating mix of couples, styles, show ideas and execution and even the imperfect bits were perfectly you in the end. I'll miss you.

[firstkanaphans]

He didn’t burn them all 😭😭

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Alright poll time:

How do you think Ticket to Heaven will end?

A bitter sweet happily ever after, Barth and Tan together forever

In tears, Tan follows the call of the priesthood leaving Barth behind

Voting ended onJul 7

[almayver]

Barth calling a phone number that he knows no one is going to answer but that still brings him some sort of comfort sounds a little bit like praying

[qlforlovers]

I don't know, Barth, maybe because you just told him about your mom murdering your dad in front of you?!

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

WAIT YOU’RE TELLING ME BARTH IS IN CATHOLIC BOARDING SCHOOL CAUSE DAD WAS GOING TO KILL HIM CAUSE HES GAY BUT MOM KILLED DAD FIRST!??

HERE I WAS THINKING THIS WAS A PRAY THE GAY AWAY SITUATION, HOW VERY SILLY OF ME TO NOT EXPECT IT TO BE A MOM MURDERED DAD AND THIS IS A LAST RESORT FOR EDUCATION KIND OF SITUATION.

DID NOT SEE THAT COMING, AND YA KNOW WHAT? MY BAD, THAT ONES ON ME.

[justafriend-ql]

[pointlesscandies]

He tried

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Raise your hand if you were raised catholic and Ticket to Heaven is making it hard for you to BREATH 🙋‍♀️

[melonalemonade]

carry your cross

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Just a note for everyone who has an iQIYI subscription and you’ve enjoyed Thai BL’s or just like Thai popular media in general:

If you’re not watching Running Man Thailand you’re MISSING OUT!!!!

It’s a BLAST, the main cast is hysterical and the cameo appearances are an absolute delight!

[theslinkystickyvoid]

I hear season 2 is on the table.... they should get War. He's competitive, sharp, and hot af. And you know, I'd also recommend, Maxky for the fun factor.

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

I also heard about season 2 and think War and Maxky are 100% the correct choices I would also like to suggest Mark Pakin for chaos factor

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Our Queen! Our Love!! Sammon is BACK BABY!!!

If you loved Manner of Death, Triage, Spare Me Your Mercy, Petrichor or 4 Minutes PLEASE do check out Payback!

It’s only the first episode and it’s already SO good! And it’s shot beauuuuutifully!

10/10 would recommend!

[sundaysnowday]

Is anybody going to talk about how good fake fact lips is? I did not go into it expecting this but I'm exceedingly happy about it.

[dear-someone-letterstomyself]

Alright cradle Catholics:

First we had the conclave.

Then we rallied behind the Pope after he was insulted by the US president, cause dammit we no longer practice any religion but that’s OUR Pope.

And now we have Ticket To Heaven.

Tis once again time to brush off and brush up on those teachings of Catholicism we have not accessed since Catholic school!