My Soul Is Gone @deathis-here - Tumblr Blog

I don’t know if you’ll see this but to glitteringwaxbutterflies reach out to me again. Message me. Yes I got busy and that is life but I also stopped using tumblr which is probably why you thought I may have ghosted you. Reach out please. Much love

onenicebugperday

A great campaign from the Xerces Society to remind us not to clean up our yards too much in the fall!

Our little invertebrate friends need winter homes :)

Make your yard a haven for local wildlife!

More information about how leaf litter benefits wildlife here here.

Make a donation to the Xerces Society for Invertebrate Conservation here. They do great work, and I’ve been a monthly donor for a long while now.

Donate $57 and get this Leave the Leaves yard sign here!

Don’t feel obligated to donate, but spreading the word on tumblr or other social media using these graphics is super helpful!

cognitohazardous

so much fucking hate in the world

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Vile Sorcery: Kick Everyone in the Nuts

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cafffine

bro just add some green onion to that rice dish you’ll be ok. bro? you don’t have any green onion? oh don’t worry bro I saved the butts of my green onions and left them in a cup of water in my sunny kitchen window for a week, and now they are tall and luscious again because growth in inevitable. Here, you can have them bro. I love you.

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Sleepy Hollow.

transangelicism

regarding the röttgen pietà, elle emerson

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Photography by Nona Limmen.

adictiva-ternura

undeniably-gayy

I crave an emotional connection before I ever crave a sexual one. I want you to stimulate my brain before anything else, because nothing turns me on more than having an emotional connection and a good vibe.

thesupremesourcream

People who say bi erasure doesn’t happen need to realize Freddie Mercury is known as the most famous homosexual man when he identified himself as bisexual. If that’s not bi erasure I don’t even know.

stupiduglyfatcunt

Also PoC erasure, most people don’t know he was 100% Indian

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Specifically he was Parsi. Also raised Zeroastrian.

avaazeman

*zoroastrian

cornflakepizza

#i dont think the white boys can handle a queer brown guy being their god

karis-the-fangirl

^^^ centuries of religious art featuring white-skinned blue-eyed Jesus have made that pretty clear

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His real name was Farrokh Bulsara. He was born in Zanzibar.

binkeljuice

Okay but why is “farrokh bulsara, from Zanzibar ” more inspiring and better sounding than “Freddie mercury from England ”?

smokyquartz323

Can I add this tidbit I found?

limetimo

ID: “During a Queen concert in the 70s, a heckler shouted “you fucking poof” [gay slur] to Freddie Mercury during the middle of their set. Freddie responded by ordering the crew to turn the spotlight on hte man, asking him to “Say it again, darling”. The heckler cowered in shame.

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GREEN DAY vs. homophobia in the early 90’s

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Happy Pride Month!

Reminder that Billie Joe Armstrong publicly came out as bisexual in 1995!

“I think I’ve always been bisexual. […] It’s ingrained in our heads that it’s bad, when it’s not bad at all. It’s a very beautiful thing.”

And that Green Day used their platform to bring openly gay punk band Pansy Division on tour with them in 1994!

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Snake Belts

Miles Glyn on Etsy

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Snelt

jessebloom

the illegal sprinkles saga > bad art friend.

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potatomuffn

To add on for those unaware of this bakery, this is Bruce:

He's an absolute mammoth of a chocolate cake (10 layers I think? Maybe more) that they sell by the slice and everyone adores. Birthday Bruce I think is just regular Bruce but with a fuckton of (apparently illegal) sprinkles

honestsister

This is what they fed that kid in the Matilda movie/j

crtter

Sometimes I hyperfocus so hard on something, I forget I’m a person until someone interacts with me. I feel like some wild animal seeing a human being for the first time. I’m like “oh yeah I’m supposed to speak and stuff”

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Me: *doing something for hours on end without stopping*

Someone: Hey, are you there? I was just wondering if you’d like to-

Me:

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For every single person in the notes going “yeah” or “same” or something like that…

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This.

This is why people who stay in my life are neurodiverse like me!

nottoolateforthegame

Huh

thisisnotjuli

this!! I swear I lost like all my friendships bc of this, like I had a group of friends in hs that one day I realized “huh I haven’t talked to this people in a while” and popped in to say hi and they were all awkward?? because they hadn’t seen me in a while?? and that’s when I realized that friendship works different for them?? I was like yeah I haven’t talked to you in like four months but it’s not like I’ve forgotten about y'all why would anything change, and they were all like we haven’t talked to you in four months why are you here again acting like nothing happened? and it was really confusing for me

mimir-bashir

YEAH! THAT!

Also I have a thing where I just put the people on pause. If I don’t see them or contact them, my brain kinda put them in stasis. I don’t think about them nor misses them, and I stay on what I last knew about them (how they look, what they study/work). So when we meet again I’m like “wait, you’ve aged?” and I have the same familiarity with them thanI had before.

gender-snatched

Anyway all my mutuals I haven’t messaged in forever - this is why

official-lucifers-child

oh my gods this makes so much sense??? there are people who i haven’t talked to at all for literally over a year and we’ll pick up like nothing happened, but for their people it’s just like…… falling apart but onesided???? i think we’re still on the same level but actually we’re strangers??

link-the-feral-anon

Ohhhhhh

shark8-my-leg

OHHHHHHHHH….

quarra

Ok but listen, on the other side of this, as a person who moved hundreds of miles away from everyone i knew and then became a hermit for several years, it was SUCH A FUCKING RELIEF to get in contact with an old friend and have him be like, “my friendship levels do not degrade, so in my mind we are still awesome close buddies” and i almost fkn cried. I thought he would be mad or would have moved on because i had slacked on my reaching out to him and staying in touch and doing all the friendship things. But NOPE. 800 miles of distance, depression, and life changing circumstances didnt steal our friendship and i am SO GRATEFUL.

thatlittleegyptologist

#came back to tumblr after four years #lottie and I immediately went like that spiderman meme yknow tags via @rudjedet

I have literally no friendship degradation whatsoever. I will not have spoken to someone for 5 years or more, and they’re still as much a friend to me as if I had only seen them yesterday. I’m just very bad at communicating if someone is not in my direct orbit. So when Sonja reappeared on this site I basically screeched into her notes like a banshee because I was delighted and we picked straight back up where we’d left off.