[traumasurvivors]

A list of blog posts on things (mostly trauma related) that I think should be talked about more. Please note that all links are from my personal trauma website. (There are no pop ups or anything like that and it is a safe site to use.)

Advice

Creating and Enforcing Boundaries

Grounding Techniques

How to Listen to Someone Talk About Their Trauma

How to Talk to a Loved One About Your Trauma

Navigating Sex After Trauma

Navigating Traumaversaries

Tips and Questions for Finding a Therapist

Trauma Around the Holidays

Informative

Forgiveness and Healing

Grooming in Adult Relationships

Hypersexuality and Sex Repulsion

Parentification Trauma

Trauma Imposter Syndrome

Triggers

Self-harm

The Validity of Anger in Your Healing Journey

Victim Blaming

Was it Bad Enough?

Who You Were Before Trauma

Why Childhood Abuse is Never Your Fault

Why Do I Love and/or Miss My Abuser?

Why People Stay in Abusive Relationships

Why Survivors May Delay Reporting or Don’t Report At All

PS: I am always looking for more ideas of topics that you’d like to hear about. Don’t hesitate to let me know any suggestions or things you’d like to see discussed more. 

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This will always be my favorite gifset. Ever.

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website

[hesbythecampfire]

StopNCII.org is operated by the Revenge Porn Helpline which is part of SWGfL, a charity that believes that everyone should benefit from technology, free from harm. Founded in 2000, SWGfL works with a number of partners and stakeholders around the world to protect everyone online

Sounds legit

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StopNCII.org is operated by the Revenge Porn Helpline which is part of SWGfL, a charity that believes that all should benefit from technolog

[nosferatusnoopy]

everyone reblog this!!

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Pigeon lady (Brenda Fricker) my beloved ❤️

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❤️ she's on tv again

[strawberryinstantoatmeal-deacti]

i remember being like 11 and asking my dad why he hunts and kills deer and he said “because i think theyre beautiful” and that’s just. that’s just what men are like

[ihatemenandtherearereasons]

Exhibit 3234

[hyzenthlayxx]

feeling empowered and actually having power are two very different things. women are usually offered the first one.

[grelleswife]

Yana, if you thought an alluring woman was sufficient to distract me from Chapter 217’s brevity…you were absolutely correct. 🖤

[hisbutlerbreathing]

HELLO GORGEOUS WOMAN

[liberate-women-now]

A lot of people are more afraid of using the 'wrong' pronouns than they are of calling women whores, cunts, or bitches.

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

Two people are standing in front of you. One is male, and says “I want to share a space with her”. The other is female, and says “I don’t want to share a space with him”.

Think: Which person do you listen to? Which person’s desires do you care more about? Which person’s preferences do you think are more important? Which person’s boundaries do you think are less important? Which person do you think is more important, and which person do you think is less important? Why?

[thatsonemorbidcorvid]

The notes on this post are so interesting. They’ve really driven something home for me:

It is a sign of enormous privilege if the only single-sex space you can think of is public toilets.

If you can’t imagine any other single-sex spaces, let alone empathise with people who want to maintain the single-sex status of those spaces, you are deeply privileged.

You’re not thinking about female people in hospitals, in prisons, in homeless shelters, in immigration detention centres, in domestic violence refuges, in sexual or domestic violence support groups… What a privileged life you must lead, that those people’s lives are so outside your own experiences they don’t even occur to you.

[sichorean]

Oh how weird that this would happen

[pussnbootz]

Remember how the liberals were screeching about how he DEFINITELY WAS A BIOLOGICAL FEMALE and harassing anyone who pointed out he wasn't? Cuz i do. They're rather quiet now.

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They never ever ever ever admit they were wrong. They just memory hole and move on.

[niiwa-angel]

He should have his medal stripped and be made to issue an apology to all the real women he hurt

[moonpriestes]

This right here. Why aren't he and the media on their knees apologising to Angela Carini?

Is it OK for a man to beat women as long as he pretends to be female? And when he gets caught, he can just go on with his life, pretend he didn't cheat, and keep the medals he stole from women?

[luchigeon]

little finny and his newfound mom

[traumasurvivors]

I want you to know that if you lost years of your life as a result of your trauma that it is not too late to still have a good life. It might not be the life you thought you’d have, but it can still be good. You’re going to be okay. 

[traumasurvivors]

I also lost around 20 years. I only started living a few years ago. I’m not meaning you can get them back. But just that you can still make a good life for yourself. I’m happy now, and I think I have good things ahead of me. I have myself the space to grieve but I also, for me, need to believe that it doesn’t have to define my entire life. I can still make good things for me.

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