adding The Birdcage maybe? that movie makes me super soft.
Already mentioned my love for Heavenly Creatures but must also mention my love for But I'm a Cheerleader. And now want to see Booksmart.

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adding The Birdcage maybe? that movie makes me super soft.
Already mentioned my love for Heavenly Creatures but must also mention my love for But I'm a Cheerleader. And now want to see Booksmart.
everyone who keeps reblogging those posts about how kinks are just excuses for men to get off to hurting women: y'all are aware thatās radfem rhetoric????
like you donāt have to like kinks but the idea that men are universally abusers and women are deluding themselves into thinking they enjoy it when theyāre actually just being abused is straight up ~kink-critical~ radfem stuff and itās not new. and like Iām seeing a lot of that exact shit on my dash and honestly it needs to stop bc this is exactly how they recruit and Iām done with it
Itās also super misogynistic to suggest that women donāt have enough sexual agency to know their own interests.Ā
Are there cases when someone is manipulated into engaging in kinky activities and thinking that itās something they enjoy? Of course. But thatās because abusers often excel at manipulation and gaslighting. Not because of an inherent problem with kink.Ā
Itās very reasonable to analyze sexual trends and subcultures in our societies. Itās not reasonable to label every kinky person as a predator and abuser and belittle and ignore abuse survivors who engage in kink and who find it helps.Ā
I actually wrote a blog post about how being anti-kink as a blanket position and insisting that kink was inherently anti-feminist was infantilizing to women in 2001. (I wish I still had that essay, but it isnāt on the Wayback Machine for my old site. I looked. Itās gone forever. Back up your writing, kids.)
2001. Eighteen years ago. Eighteen years ago, I was arguing with lesbian separatists that kink was not inherently abusive or patriarchal and that saying it was deprived women and queers of our right to say for ourselves what we enjoy.Ā
sapphic period pieces
Atomic Blonde - Set in November 1989 on the eve of the collapse of the Berlin Wall, this spy thriller follows M16 agent Lorraine Broughton as she attempts to recover an important stolen item. Along the way she encounters Delphine Lasalle, a rookie french agent. The usage of two different contrasting themes of lighting in this movie is very striking.
Carol - Based off the 1952 lesbian romance novel āThe Price of Salt,ā Carol is set in New York City in the early 50s. It follows the love affair between Therese Belivet (an aspiring photographer and department store worker) and Carol Aird (a wealthy mother going through a divorce.) Itās a stunning portrayal of gay friendships and romance during a violently homophobic time.
Desert Hearts - Released in 1985 and set in 1959, this romantic drama is often hailed as the first film to present a positive portrayal of lesbianism. It follows Vivian Bell, a english professor in her mid thirties hoping to obtain a quick divorce and Cay Rivvers, a younger and free spirited sculptor.
Farewell, My Queen - French romantic drama set in 1789 during the last three days of Marie Antoinette, seen through the eyes of a young servant who reads to the queen. It discusses rumours of the queens alleged orgies with women and has a very subtle, entirely queer tone.
Heavenly Creatures - Psychological drama documenting the real life Parker-Hulme murder case. The plot centers around the obsessive and concerning relationship between two teenage girls, Juliet and Pauline. It covers their meeting in 1952 all the way through to the murder they commit together in 1954. The girls bond over a shared history of disease, and begin to indulge in delusions of a rich fantasy world and cult-like religion. Its a frightening look into the lives of the two seemingly normal teenager girls who teamed up to kill Paulineās mother and only served five years for their crime.
San Junipero - Not technically a film, and not technically set in the past but I think it still counts! This episode of black mirror is praised for having a more hopeful & uplifting tone than the rest of the series and is first set during the 80s, following a lesbian named Yorkie and Kelly, a bisexual woman.
The Girl King - Biographical drama portrayal of the life of Christina, Queen of Sweden. Christina is a brilliant, powerful, and striking figure fighting conservative forces in her country. The film tracks her mission to modernize sweden and follows her awakening sexuality, yet another thing that sets her apart from former rulers.
The Handmaiden - South Korean erotic psychological lesbian revenge thriller. I can honestly say this is one of the most well directed and captivating lesbian films ive ever seen. Sook-Hee, a orphaned Korean pickpocket becomes the handmaiden to a wealthy Japanese Heiress and with the intention to assist a conman in relieving her of her inheritance. Itās loosely inspired by Sarah Waters novel āFingersmithā but set in Korea under Japanese rule. The male gaze towards lesbians is a reoccuring theme and is accurately portrayed as a disgusting and vile thing in a way i didnt expect a male director to be able to manage.
The Hours - British-American drama based off the novel of the same name. It follows three different queer women of three different eras, all connected through Virgina Woolfās novel āMrs. Dalloway.ā Clarissa is a bisexual new yorker in the early 2000s, planning an award party for a poet with AIDS. Laura is a pregnant 1950s housewife trapped in an unhappy marriage and Virgina Woolf is a novelist in 1920s england struggling with mental illness under the watchful and suffocating eye of her husband.
The Miseducation of Cameron Post - One of the newest releases, this film just came out this year! Set in 1993 and based off the novel of the same name by Emily M. Danforth, teenager Cameron is caught in the backseat of a car with the prom queen. Her aunt (a devout christian) ships Cameron off to a religious gay conversion camp called Godās Promise. The film documents the struggles, pain, and violence of existing in a space with no place for you.
Now I have to watch all the ones I haven't seen and rewatch Heavenly Creatures and San Junipero, which I love. I also love the book The Miseducation of Cameron Post but I haven't seen the movie yet.
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viewing queer identities asĀ āthis is the label that makes me happy and feels most accurate nowā rather thanĀ āthis is who I am, was, and always will beā will definitely take the pressure off, friends. changing your mind is proof that you have one.
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demiboy deminb and demigirl flags
weve gotĀ @apersnicketylemonĀ ās lesbian flag
the sappho lesbian flag
aromantic flag
demiromantic flag
demisexual flag
demisexual+demiromantic flag
NB flag
genderqueer flag
genderfluid flag
(failed to find the quiosexual and gray ace flags, sorry D:)
(if anyone wants to send thoes flags in id be happy to give them their own post!)
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PLEASE REBLOG!
afab demigirls? valid
amab demiboys? also valid
what if we kissed in front of the plaque on the church where anne lister and ann walker got married in 1834 (and we were both girls)
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Genderflux | Genderqueer | Genderfluid
Demigirl | Queer | Demiboy
Polysexual | Bigender | Polyamorous
Normally I'm not really into the whole flag edits where you change the colours for some sort of theme, but these are MERMAID so it's different because MERMAID.
I feel like the labels butch and femme dont rlly fit me, not bc im androgynous, but bc they imply that im putting even a modicum of effort into my style. Wheres the labels for queers whomst Just Dont Care?
This is one reason why I'm a tomcat and a chapstick lesbian.
can i just say thanks for that afab demigirl positivity??? im afab and i always feel like im faking being trans or being a demigirl and honestly i got the biggest smile on my face from that validation
It is great ! Iām happy if it made you feel better, after all this blog was created to spread positivity in the community !
AFAB/DFAB demigirls and AMAB/DMAB demiboys are often conflicted about their genderqueerness, being told that theyāre faking it, that theyāre attention seeking, which is not true, their identities is as valid as any others, and should be celebrated !
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80ā²s style Pan and Genderfluid flags~ ^^ For an anon~ Hope you like these~~
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This is revolutionary yāall. I remember being 13 and refused to go do any ceremony because my parents tried to force me to go through a bar mitzvah.Ā By virtue of the masculine name aloneĀ I just couldnāt do it. After that, I felt very alienated from the Jewish community. Having this option is so important for us to repair these binary aspects of our culture (link)
where are all my mspecs at?? shout out to my people.
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Definition: Bi lesbian: A woman or woman-aligned nonbinary person who is mostly attracted to other women and/or woman-aligned people, although not exclusively.
Sometimes also used by people who wish to go back to when bi and lesbian women were not two separate communities.
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