Citrino

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Let's keep this organized

(This is a list of all my AUs)

BNHA

Stuck In The Closet

Password:Izuku

Fashion Designer Bakugou AU

The Flash

Aunt Cat AU

Encanto

Bruno Leaves AU

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HEY! I'm not sure if anyone is going to see this, but just a heads up that I'm moving! to @crystalizedirongoblin, I'm not going to post here again anytime soon, so if you want to see all my dumb shit, go talk to me there!

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Alright, I'm shit at taking social cues and this is gonna make me sound like an ass, but I just saw your cis allies post and I wanted to know if there were any exceptions to the correcting pronouns. Because in my mind if someone is very openly trans, then don't they deserve the right pronouns? Or if you're talking with a friend you know knows - and I mean like, the person came out to the whole group chat and that's how you know they know - then shouldn't you correct them?

Oh yeah, of course there are exceptions and while a lot of the time it's clear, sometimes things fall in a gray area than can be a bit tricky.

If the person is out of the closet to the whole group and someone makes a mistake, you can gently remind them or correct them, but there’s a difference between going "she uses she/her now" or "It's 'them'" and stopping the conversation to explain that they used the wrong pronouns because X person is actually trans, which tends to make the conversation less about the other person and more about how you are a great ally because you have all this information

(Wich should be obvious, but I've seen firsthand that it isn't)

Sometimes we're talking about a public figure, and then there's not really an outing moment, because it's already known, I've corrected my parents on Elliot Page's pronouns more than once, and while it can spark conversation, there's not an actual threat to Elliot Page because of it.

In the end, the most important thing is communication, ask your local trans friend how they would want you to react, if there is someone you should be careful with or to who they're still in the closet with, everyone is different and has different boundaries, a d we have to respect them

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You know what? I'm not shutting up about this.

CIS ALLIES, this post is for you.

I understand that you guys are great, and I'm so, so glad you're here, but here's a list of some things that should be obvious but some of you seem to miss anyways

Don't defend my pronouns for me

Don't correct people on my pronouns

Don't try to fight people on my name

Especially if I'm there, take your cues from me

If someone made a comment about me and called me a girl/guy/something that doesn't apply and I'm not correcting it? don't speak

Essentially? If your options are misgendering or outing? This is the only moment where misgendering someone is the correct answer

Never out someone else to me, even if I'm part of the community

If you tell me vaguely about a friend of yours that's trans, that's okay, but NEVER introduce someone as "Yes, this is X, the trans friend I told you about"

Never, ever tell me someone's deadname

No, not even if you talk about them before their transition or before they came out to you

Not even for a story about how you found out! Really! Invent a new name if you need to!!

I DON'T CARE IF THEY USED IT, IT'S THEIR NAME, THEY DECIDE WHO LEARNS IT OR IF ANYONE

I'm using trans as an umbrella term here, but it applies to anyone who's trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, or any other identity, please feel free to add to this list or ask me about any of this.

[genderkoolaid]

hmm psa for cis allies: don't just assume a trans person always wants you to correct other people on their gender or name.

personally, when I'm dealing with systematic misgendering or deadnaming, I'm already stressed out. I don't enjoy that kind of social interaction, at the doctor's office or DMV or what have you.

And adding on the stress of coming out to a random stranger as trans, and for me, the extra stress as coming out as nonbinary (because not only am I trans, I'm one of the WEIRD ones), also adds on the fear of whether or not I will face transphobia from the people I am interacting with. Because of all this, I generally don't correct people who read my deadnamed off the computer. It doesn't hurt me that bad because I know they literally don't know any better, and I don't want to rock the boat and thus my tenous grip on not having a panic attack in public.

When my mother or a friend just decides to correct them for me, I suddenly have to deal with all that stress without even being able to prepare for it. I am outed against my will to strangers who often have control over very important things (like, if it's a doctor's office, my literal body). It makes me have to deal with extra, often invasive questions, or confusion about which name to use or how to gender me, or general awkwardness/hostility.

Just ask beforehand. I know allies generally want a solid list of Allyship Rules to follow to the letter, but please: "never out a trans person" overrules "always correct someone on a trans person's pronouns/name".

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THIS

I don't care if you're trying to help, I don't care if you know how they will react, I don't care if they made an offensive joke, I. DON'T. CARE.

If someone misgendered me, or implied something that's not true, and I don't say anything? SHUT UP

[astraltrickster]

Periodic reminder that you are not immune to reactionary radicalization through fandom.

We all know the "jokes" about how old bronies either came out as queer or became fascists - except they're not really jokes, and a lot of the queer ones admit to having been in the pipeline before they came out (some in a way that implies they never totally got out of said pipeline and don't understand the gravity of it),

GamerGate was an entire right-wing reactionary movement that was - and this is not hyperbole - partially responsible for turning fascism into a "legitimate" position by the American Overton window, composed entirely of people who feared losing their fan spaces,

We've had terfs right here on tumblr dot com BRAGGING about how useful fandom is as a recruiting space,

TJLC was a big pipeline for acephobia on this hellsite in particular, when people argued that headcanoning Sherlock as ace was inherently homophobic because it was denying a TOTALLY GONNA BE CANON (while the creators were promising that it wasn't going to be canon) gay pairing, and puritanical, and just HAVING that headcanon was saying that people COULDN'T ship Johnlock, all in the interest of a "fake" sexuality and "pretending to be oppressed" and oh whoops there you went,

We see people who all but center their fandom activity and identities around figuring out which people in predominantly queer fandom spaces are SECRETLY PEDOPHILES AND GROOMERS, acting consciously or otherwise under the assumption that predominantly queer fandom spaces are just massively infested with them in a way that other spaces are not for SOME reason, who twist the definition of "pedophilia" in these spaces until it covers shipping a 17-year old fictional character with an 18-year old fictional character, or a 30-year old with a 45-year old, or including an autistic character in a ship, and drawing two 17-year old characters kissing constitutes "child porn", and who unironically say we should bring back the Hays Code and Censorship Is Good Actually And Our Problem Is We Don't Do It Enough and this often becomes a pipeline to "sex ed is child abuse; people shouldn't even know what sex is until they turn 18; you need my consent to wear certain outfits in public if I see them as sexually charged, and Pride SHOULD be an assimilationist sideshow for our corporate overlords family-friendly party with no sadness or anger or ESPECIALLY acknowledgement of sex allowed",

We've seen otherwise progressive people defend literal hate symbols in fanart when pushback against the above brand of reactionaries gets corrupted into zero-nuance "it's us vs. them so anything they don't like is Good",

Even outside of those examples some of the most vicious, unapologetic, blatant queerphobic abuse I've seen in recent years hasn't come from right-wingers but from LGBT+ people, dressing their deep, violent, seething hatred for queer people who aren't exactly like them in a thin veneer of progressive language, who have become so convinced that they're the main character of the fucking universe that they think writing or enjoying a queer story that doesn't resonate with them is more queerphobic than sending a queer person who writes or enjoys such a story countless rape and death threats and denying their identity,

We've seen these examples again and again and again, and we keep seeing it again and again and again, so I am once again on my knees BEGGING people to recognize that this is not Something That Happens To Other, BAD People, or Something That Happens To People In BAD Fandoms, or Something That Happens To People On The OTHER Side Of Perennial Drama; this is something that CAN happen to you.

These things are the result of the fact that fandom is, by nature, a place of heightened emotion and if you don't know what to look out for that is very exploitable; you need to know the methods people use to do this, simply Being In The Right Fandoms or Liking The Right Ships is not enough.

So, if you see someone trying to convince you that you have the ONLY valid approach to any specific character, or ship, or show, or whatever, that your ship is activism and your fanfics are praxis, and liking something else or liking the same thing differently is Only For Bad People, that is the single biggest red flag that YOU NEED TO RUN, THEY'RE TRYING TO SELL YOU SOMETHING THAT YOU DO NOT WANT

[aru]

Tumblr Code.

[geekishchic]

If I ever see any of you in public, the code is “I like your shoelaces”

that way we know we’re from tumblr without revealing anything

I’m just going to say this to strangers until i find a tumblr person

must keep reblogering!! Im going to be so suspicious if any one tells me this now!

Remember the answer is: I stole them from the president.

always reblog tumblr identification

[hobbinch]

This is an absolute tumblr relic. I feel like an archaeologist right now. This is incredible that this is on my dash.

[heritageposts]

date of origin: 2nd of july, 2012.

[blingblingboy-kinnie]

Bro what it’s the second of July 2020. Happy 8th anniversary of this classic tumblr post!!!!

[klauseance4]

HAPPY 10 YEARS TO THIS

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I wasn't prepared

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Ok it's 11:47, I'm pointedly not looking into social media and I'm nervous because I won't be able to watch Vol2 until 1pm tomorrow when my brother gets back from school because we're watching together, so I'm gonna lay here our "who dies" theories, leave this here, and then see how we did tomorrow (I don't want anyone to die, we're both super nervous about this)

(I'm gonna put a read more just in case, I'll tag spoilers when I update tomorrow)

(Also, it's almost 12, don't expect much, I'm falling asleep here)

Will - No, I mean, we're pretty sure he still has things to do for the next season, and also, he still has clearly a lot of unresolved stuff, so we're pretty sure he's safe El - Also safe... She's the best, they can't kill her (This may be wishful thinking, we don't care) Mike - We're scared, yeah? He's having issues, it might be a whole new character arc, might be a conclusion, please let it be character development Lucas - It would be racist. Ok but seriously, he's had a lot of growth, but also not enough so... IDK Dustin - I hope not but I'll be honest we didn't even contemplate the possibility... Max - We've already had a scare here, we don't think they will, after everything that happened? Pretty sure she's safe Erica - We're fairly sure they're not killing the eleven year old Eddie - I'll riot, but we think it's possible, he's the newest member here, he's not as rounded as the other characters (yet), but come on, so much happened to this guy in like, a week, you can't kill him Steve - I'll die if he dies, really, but also, he's always throwing himself into danger for other people, he ends up beaten every season, we're scared (Also the whole thing with Nancy that might lead to a death) Robin - Homophobic! But also, we think she's safe, mostly because there was talk of more Vicky content and it would not make sense to kill Robin... also might be wishful thinking Nancy - On one hand, they're recreating this whole love triangle we thought died in season 2 (that we both hate with a passion, we love Nancy, and Steve, but they already did this once, it didn't work), and we're scared it's just so we can have an emotional moment before she dies (Or Steve, or Jonathan). On the other hand, Vol1 ended with her being Vecna'd so we don't think she'll die Jonathan - Again, emotional love triangle that we fear is there to kill one of them, he's mostly safe right now in the middle of nowhere but that's gonna change Argyle - Not likely? I personally think he'll have a badass moment, my brother said that he's been used as comic relief but also, not developed as much, so he's mostly safe Hopper - They already "killed" him at the end of Season 3, we think he's safe Joyce - We're afraid, very afraid, we don't know what to think about that, but we think that she might die and we saw the hug from the trailer, what if Jonathan and Will are crying because they lost their mother???? I'll die Murray - My brother said he's not enough of a character to be killed... poor guy

In conclusion... No one is 100% safe and we're afraid... Also those are just the characters we talked about...

See you tomorrow I guess

[dfsgasad]

Ok so I blocked the "Stranger things" tag on Tumblr now I can go to sleep

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I'm not gonna say anything, anything at all but MAN I CAN'T AAAAHHHHHHHH

This was a rollercoaster I'm dead

[multi-shit]

how the fuck is everyone finding mutuals?? 😭 I've been on this site for literal years and never had a conversation with anyone

help I need friends pls

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Ok it's 11:47, I'm pointedly not looking into social media and I'm nervous because I won't be able to watch Vol2 until 1pm tomorrow when my brother gets back from school because we're watching together, so I'm gonna lay here our "who dies" theories, leave this here, and then see how we did tomorrow (I don't want anyone to die, we're both super nervous about this)

(I'm gonna put a read more just in case, I'll tag spoilers when I update tomorrow)

(Also, it's almost 12, don't expect much, I'm falling asleep here)

Will - No, I mean, we're pretty sure he still has things to do for the next season, and also, he still has clearly a lot of unresolved stuff, so we're pretty sure he's safe El - Also safe... She's the best, they can't kill her (This may be wishful thinking, we don't care) Mike - We're scared, yeah? He's having issues, it might be a whole new character arc, might be a conclusion, please let it be character development Lucas - It would be racist. Ok but seriously, he's had a lot of growth, but also not enough so... IDK Dustin - I hope not but I'll be honest we didn't even contemplate the possibility... Max - We've already had a scare here, we don't think they will, after everything that happened? Pretty sure she's safe Erica - We're fairly sure they're not killing the eleven year old Eddie - I'll riot, but we think it's possible, he's the newest member here, he's not as rounded as the other characters (yet), but come on, so much happened to this guy in like, a week, you can't kill him Steve - I'll die if he dies, really, but also, he's always throwing himself into danger for other people, he ends up beaten every season, we're scared (Also the whole thing with Nancy that might lead to a death) Robin - Homophobic! But also, we think she's safe, mostly because there was talk of more Vicky content and it would not make sense to kill Robin... also might be wishful thinking Nancy - On one hand, they're recreating this whole love triangle we thought died in season 2 (that we both hate with a passion, we love Nancy, and Steve, but they already did this once, it didn't work), and we're scared it's just so we can have an emotional moment before she dies (Or Steve, or Jonathan). On the other hand, Vol1 ended with her being Vecna'd so we don't think she'll die Jonathan - Again, emotional love triangle that we fear is there to kill one of them, he's mostly safe right now in the middle of nowhere but that's gonna change Argyle - Not likely? I personally think he'll have a badass moment, my brother said that he's been used as comic relief but also, not developed as much, so he's mostly safe Hopper - They already "killed" him at the end of Season 3, we think he's safe Joyce - We're afraid, very afraid, we don't know what to think about that, but we think that she might die and we saw the hug from the trailer, what if Jonathan and Will are crying because they lost their mother???? I'll die Murray - My brother said he's not enough of a character to be killed... poor guy

In conclusion... No one is 100% safe and we're afraid... Also those are just the characters we talked about...

See you tomorrow I guess

[dfsgasad]

Ok so I blocked the "Stranger things" tag on Tumblr now I can go to sleep

[dfsgasad]

Ok it's 11:47, I'm pointedly not looking into social media and I'm nervous because I won't be able to watch Vol2 until 1pm tomorrow when my brother gets back from school because we're watching together, so I'm gonna lay here our "who dies" theories, leave this here, and then see how we did tomorrow (I don't want anyone to die, we're both super nervous about this)

(I'm gonna put a read more just in case, I'll tag spoilers when I update tomorrow)

(Also, it's almost 12, don't expect much, I'm falling asleep here)

Will - No, I mean, we're pretty sure he still has things to do for the next season, and also, he still has clearly a lot of unresolved stuff, so we're pretty sure he's safe El - Also safe... She's the best, they can't kill her (This may be wishful thinking, we don't care) Mike - We're scared, yeah? He's having issues, it might be a whole new character arc, might be a conclusion, please let it be character development Lucas - It would be racist. Ok but seriously, he's had a lot of growth, but also not enough so... IDK Dustin - I hope not but I'll be honest we didn't even contemplate the possibility... Max - We've already had a scare here, we don't think they will, after everything that happened? Pretty sure she's safe Erica - We're fairly sure they're not killing the eleven year old Eddie - I'll riot, but we think it's possible, he's the newest member here, he's not as rounded as the other characters (yet), but come on, so much happened to this guy in like, a week, you can't kill him Steve - I'll die if he dies, really, but also, he's always throwing himself into danger for other people, he ends up beaten every season, we're scared (Also the whole thing with Nancy that might lead to a death) Robin - Homophobic! But also, we think she's safe, mostly because there was talk of more Vicky content and it would not make sense to kill Robin... also might be wishful thinking Nancy - On one hand, they're recreating this whole love triangle we thought died in season 2 (that we both hate with a passion, we love Nancy, and Steve, but they already did this once, it didn't work), and we're scared it's just so we can have an emotional moment before she dies (Or Steve, or Jonathan). On the other hand, Vol1 ended with her being Vecna'd so we don't think she'll die Jonathan - Again, emotional love triangle that we fear is there to kill one of them, he's mostly safe right now in the middle of nowhere but that's gonna change Argyle - Not likely? I personally think he'll have a badass moment, my brother said that he's been used as comic relief but also, not developed as much, so he's mostly safe Hopper - They already "killed" him at the end of Season 3, we think he's safe Joyce - We're afraid, very afraid, we don't know what to think about that, but we think that she might die and we saw the hug from the trailer, what if Jonathan and Will are crying because they lost their mother???? I'll die Murray - My brother said he's not enough of a character to be killed... poor guy

In conclusion... No one is 100% safe and we're afraid... Also those are just the characters we talked about...

See you tomorrow I guess

[berrym00n]

Could u please do a tutorial on torture 👀

[berrym00n]

OH. YEAH I CAN DO THAT

[dfsgasad]

So, I found this on my drive... I guess i know what I'll be doing once i finish my midterms

(Blurred the actual outlines to avoid spoilers hopefully this one will come to me a bit easier. If anyone has any suggestions I'm always happy to chat)

[nattotalliberationist]

Sherlock really left his apartment in his huge gay coat and little gay shirts to solve crime, no gun no water bottle and he was like "something's missing" yeah babe a warrant! Some therapy maybe! But no, he went "ah yes. I need a little guy to follow me around and tell me he thinks I put the stars in the sky and completely mean it" and you know what? You know fucking what? He was Right

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You are

[rayshippouuchiha]

Shouta: Hey, do any of you know how to pick a lock?

Hizashi: Midoriya does.

Shouta: … Midoriya?

Hizashi: Yeah, they’re pretty good with poisons and explosives too actually. Apparently they had a rebellious phase.

Shouta: … That is terrifying information, thank you.

That's why his hair is so fluffy, it's full of unexpected skills

[dfsgasad]

I know they are talking about Izuku...

But for just a second, my brain decided that this was absolutely about Inko

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Crash