I'm 17 and just got diagnosed with t1d in December 2016. I just got a pump (I have gastroparesis as well) and idk I feel like I'm so new to this that I am in the purgatory between being healthy and people who have had t1d for years? Like. 'Veterans' exclude me bc I'm new, but I'm obviously not healthy. Idk when will I fit into the community?
Hey! I’m really, really sorry that you’ve had this experience. That is seriously not fair. As far as I’m concerned, this community does not have a hierarchy on the basis of length of time with diabetes, and it’s really messed up that you’ve had interactions that suggest that there is such a hierarchy. Thank you for bringing it to my attention, and I will personally try and be more conscientious in making sure that I never perpetuate this idea in any way.
I can’t really answer your question about when, exactly, you’ll feel as if you will fit in to the community because, honestly, I didn’t have a similar experience and I do not really know what it means to “fit in” here because our community is so large and exists on so many different platforms, both online and irl. If anyone else out there has had a similar experience, PLEASE help our new friend out with some of your insight. It breaks my heart that you are going through this, but I know for a fact that there are many fellow type 1 diabetics out there that will not harbor these same pointless notions that you’ve been victim to and will welcome you with open arms. I recommend finding the smaller community within our GIANT community that is right for you. Finding just a couple type 1 diabetic peers that you are comfortable with is enough (in my opinion) to reap the benefits that this community provides. I’m happy to talk/rant with you anytime, if needed!
Please know that you are just as much a part of this community as anyone else, and I sincerely hope that you start to feel that soon. This community is about the shared struggles/triumphs/stories, not the “status”. To any other veteran T1Ds, please make sure that you are not contributing to this twisted mentality that ANY illness has a hierarchy. That is so beyond the point of what these communities are about.
Stay strong and good luck,
Addie
Hey! I’m Steff and I although I am a veteran, I’m here for you! You are as much a part of the diabetic community as anyone else.
Best of Luck!



















